My ATF’s blocked me after years of not seeing them
- Thread starter Tashki
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Technically, yes and it was only once but keep in mind that my dating experiences are very limited. My hobbying escapades far outweigh my dating experience but I’m trying to make that a change.
Couple of reasons: The pandemic hit, I was in the middle of changing careers so I went to college. Thus, not having the luxury to see them often even if they were still active.
I was also challenging myself to build attraction to women and get them on dates so I wasn’t hobbying.
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Don't try to make a change, you HAVE to make the change. You seem very naive, your lucky you haven't ran into the wrong escort who could of easily scammed you of your life savings.
You don't need to memorize your burner number. Just create a new contact on your burner phone and ask for her number or let her enter it for you.
Some of them may have moved on - no longer in the business, started a new life somewhere else etc... Maybe they don't want a connection to their past. Perfect example: I had a regular here in Niagara back in 2016/17 who was going through teacher's college at Brock. The following summer after graduation she got a job teaching Alberta. She nuked all her social media when she moved out west. I still know her name but I'm never going to contact her. She's retired and she's moved on. Do the fucking same! Move on!
I seen this on a YT video. The chick had female names for male contacts that she had on the side. This way any new boyfriend won't question her, even if she showed him her contact list.
IF your family , friends don't have access to your cell it doesn't matter, but the moment you have a GF then it is a lot of work to change the names of your side chicks or SP's.
I help a superintendent so I need to add some tenants of the building on my cell. I use the keyboard symbols on top of the numbers. So say...
&_Joe
&_Jane
This way I know it's one of the tenants calling. For family I decide to use two symbols one for father side and other for mother side. My life is easier this way.
IF your family , friends don't have access to your cell it doesn't matter, but the moment you have a GF then it is a lot of work to change the names of your side chicks or SP's.
I help a superintendent so I need to add some tenants of the building on my cell. I use the keyboard symbols on top of the numbers. So say...
&_Joe
&_Jane
This way I know it's one of the tenants calling. For family I decide to use two symbols one for father side and other for mother side. My life is easier this way.
Really?? How so?...
Judging by your threads and the way you approach this hobby it doesn't take a scientist to figure out, you are easy money. And if you don't get it or understand why, godspeed...
um.... they dont monitor your usage that closely... um.. if you're making long distance phone calls to australia or russia, yeah sure. they notice that. but not local calls. the main thing they monitor on the work phone at my work is your location as they can actually look up where you're at by the gps on the phone...to see if you're actually on the work site on company time.
um. if a girlfriend or someone called me on the work phone. it wouldn't really show up as they dont monitor so closely as to every single phone call. so ya you could get away with phone calls on the work phone easily. just say its a scammer or solicitator or someone you dont know..do they listen in on your phone calls? i highly doubt it. this isn't communist russia and the kgb. but you never know.
well at my workplace. just because they say they can do it. doesn't mean they do do it. they simply dont have the time or manpower to check in on your every phone call and check in on your location every hour to every half hour. you know? they have other things to do. like work.
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This is quite a mischaracterization on your part. I’m not as gullible as you assume.
This industry actually made me more vigilant about women than ever before…
Please learn the art of letting go and moving on in life.
And imho this is not just for the SP/escort world - even in your normal civilian life, I am sure you have to let go of friends/family/SO's over time. This is inevitable as people grow, evolve and make new friends/new connections and life goals change. While you are together with someone, do your best and make the most of your time together with them. When someone wants to leave despite your best efforts, nothing much you can do about it. Some may even depart before you and that is just a fact of life buddy. This is how life is structured. In fact, as you yourself have put it, the SP world teaches us very important life lessons about not depending on any one person for our emotional needs.
Some people learn this naturally because they grew up in a supportive family where they could learn by watching their elders/teachers/guides etc. Others like yourself (and many others) struggle with this concept of letting go - for example, I have an older friend who holds on to every letter he has received from high school, he is over 50, but he still gets very emotional about his high school/college friends/lovers. I have advised him to not indulge in such self-pity, but in vain. This is just not healthy imho.
Get psychological/counseling help like people have already recommended here. Depending on your upbringing/culture, you may want to try out spiritual help too. Human life is transient and you simply have to learn the art of letting go in a nice, responsible manner. Take care.
Look dude, i'm not trying to attack you. All im saying is don't take this escort thing too seriously. This is a hobby where men fulfill their fantasies or because their boring wife is not giving them pussy (Well in my case, my wife is giving but i'm just a horny fuck and i like variety). Put your emotions aside and walk away from it, your obsessions with your previous escorts pretty much sums it all.
To the OP what if your actions were reverse?
Say old flames start contacting you out of the blue? ... and you are getting married next week on your 5th marriage; or you have a new GF and this is the one you want? you are married - roll with me here - and have children and you have job with the GOv't that pays over 100k and can't afford to be seen with someone else?
Do you want that? let it go....
I can understand if you look back at great memories by searching their photos in social media and that is it. And you don't contact them, that in a way is fine but still silly or crazy but contacting them is past the point of wooh hhooo or Crazy.
Say old flames start contacting you out of the blue? ... and you are getting married next week on your 5th marriage; or you have a new GF and this is the one you want? you are married - roll with me here - and have children and you have job with the GOv't that pays over 100k and can't afford to be seen with someone else?
Do you want that? let it go....
I can understand if you look back at great memories by searching their photos in social media and that is it. And you don't contact them, that in a way is fine but still silly or crazy but contacting them is past the point of wooh hhooo or Crazy.
Well I said that I felt sad for my ATFs blocking me because I loved them as people. Then you made the claim that I’m lucky that I didn’t get scammed for my life savings. I asked you to expand on your reasoning and then you answered because I’m easy money. Suggesting that because I felt sad of my ATFs blocking me, I am easy money. I don’t see where you thought that me getting sad for my ATFs blocking me makes me an easy person to get scammed. Where’s the correlation?
Since you just clarified further to illustrate your point even more. I don’t see the relevance of your claim that I’m an easy target to get scammed supports it. But thanks for your input.
Some of us sympathize with you, as we've made poor decision with sp's. Logic sometimes goes out the window when dealing with them.
The problem with you is that you don't even realize there is a problem, that is the problem. Its no coincidence everyone here is asking you to get help, and because you don't think there is a problem which makes you even more fucked. Your ATF's blocked you because you were probably creeping the shit out of them.
He didn’t just base his opinion on this one thread and he stated that. You have multiple threads showing your warped sense of this industry. It is not rocket science to think you would be east money.
However / if one digs deeper - they would know that is not the case. You are trying for a girlfriend and will spend as little money as possible so they can prove they “love” you too.
Both are equally an issue. but for you and your issue - again, go get help.
