Multi-Hour or Single Hour?

[qwerty222]

I have a few questions. Hoping some guys (and/or SP themselves) have opinions

I'm 30 and I've seen a few SP in the past less than a handful. Outside the SP world I have had some more experiences.

The times I book an SP I find that no matter what happens there is never any SOG. I try to book for 2 hour sessions (once I booked for a single hour because of the Lady's policy of first time clients). I don't think it is a medical issue since outside the SP world it also takes a really long time to get warmed up but eventually the event is over. I find I love the time just doing everything. I find that the experience itself is more fulfilling than reaching the end. That said it would be nice to reach the end once in a while.

I am just on the fence now since I have a fairly large TDL (I'm out east - Durham way but Toronto has a few as well). What would you suggest? Do I keep booking the 2 hour sessions and hope that someday I'll eventually reach a finish in that short time. The problem is the TDL will start to get quite pricey doing longer sessions. Alternatively do I simply book hour appointments for cost and just experience the wonderful women we have in our area without worrying about the endings?

The thing is I always feel bad at the end when after a perfect session just doesn't end the expected way and I feel I let them down (I think to myself they put all the effort into trying to give the best session and somehow I showed that I was not satisfied when that is not true at all).

Do I let them know up front the problem or don't worry as I'm simply over-thinking?

Anyone else with similar experiences and alternatives?

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

If you have difficulty finishing it would be considerate to let the lady know ahead of time, that way she will not feel that she is doing something wrong and can relax and enjoy pleasuring you. Sex is not just about the orgasm, it is the entire experience.

 

[S.C. Joe]

huh, I do MSOG in one hour

Something is wrong dude, are you take any medicines or drinking

Only time I have had problems is with those new party drugs. Those can fuck you up for over a week and some jackasses sell their weed with that crap laced on it.

 

[Teal]

huh, I do MSOG in one hour

Something is wrong dude, are you take any medicines or drinking

Only time I have had problems is with those new party drugs. Those can fuck you up for over a week and some jackasses sell their weed with that crap laced on it.

I have the same problem too.

My solution? BBBJTCIM. Tell her to suck you off if you realize your time is almost over.

 

[ackack]

From my end...have you been to a massage parlour?

It's not the same as an SP mostly, but if you are having trouble there, looking for something different, you could try it out. At least once anyway, or as a change in between SP visits.

 

[qwerty222]

huh, I do MSOG in one hour

Something is wrong dude, are you take any medicines or drinking

Only time I have had problems is with those new party drugs. Those can fuck you up for over a week and some jackasses sell their weed with that crap laced on it.

Nope totally clean on medications/drugs. Drinking only socially (once every few months)

If you have difficulty finishing it would be considerate to let the lady know ahead of time, that way she will not feel that she is doing something wrong and can relax and enjoy pleasuring you. Sex is not just about the orgasm, it is the entire experience.

Thank you for your insight. I think that might be the best course of action. Very true about the entire experience

From my end...have you been to a massage parlour?

It's not the same as an SP mostly, but if you are having trouble there, looking for something different, you could try it out. At least once anyway, or as a change in between SP visits.

Never tried MP but might be a suggestion to try.

 

[esoterica]

I can have intercourse or a BJ and on the whole, I orgasm when I want. Add massage oil and a body slide, and I'm a 2 minute man. Even with shot two.

I echo the MP suggestion.

 

[S.C. Joe]

Have you tried Outcalls ?

To me its a big difference. I can enjoy both but it took more blocking out the scene and trying to relax more doing Incalls. I thought back to my days of fucking in the front seat of my old car and figured its still better and nothing is going to go wrong.

Your own bed or at your own hotel room that you have been in for awhile just seems to make it nicer all around, IMO

 

[mickmasterson]

There's some good advice above.

I went through a phase during which I watched a lot of porn. Too much, in retrospect. After a while, I found I had ED-type issues when faced with the real mccoy. Cutting down on the porn got me back to normal, but it took several weeks.

I also find I enjoy hobbying more when I'm already in a good mood going into the session. Happy, confident, and aroused. The lady helps me celebrate. If I'm feeling low or stressed-out, I can't expect the lady to make me feel better. More likely, my worries will follow me into the session and ruin the experience.

You might consider discussing the issue with a doctor.

Chin up, old sport.

 

[Amber Rosa]

I have a few questions. Hoping some guys (and/or SP themselves) have opinions

I'm 30 and I've seen a few SP in the past less than a handful. Outside the SP world I have had some more experiences.

The times I book an SP I find that no matter what happens there is never any SOG. I try to book for 2 hour sessions (once I booked for a single hour because of the Lady's policy of first time clients). I don't think it is a medical issue since outside the SP world it also takes a really long time to get warmed up but eventually the event is over. I find I love the time just doing everything. I find that the experience itself is more fulfilling than reaching the end. That said it would be nice to reach the end once in a while.

I am just on the fence now since I have a fairly large TDL (I'm out east - Durham way but Toronto has a few as well). What would you suggest? Do I keep booking the 2 hour sessions and hope that someday I'll eventually reach a finish in that short time. The problem is the TDL will start to get quite pricey doing longer sessions. Alternatively do I simply book hour appointments for cost and just experience the wonderful women we have in our area without worrying about the endings?

The thing is I always feel bad at the end when after a perfect session just doesn't end the expected way and I feel I let them down (I think to myself they put all the effort into trying to give the best session and somehow I showed that I was not satisfied when that is not true at all).

Do I let them know up front the problem or don't worry as I'm simply over-thinking?

Anyone else with similar experiences and alternatives?

Thanks for sharing your honest experience qwerty. A friend of mine once said "overanalysis leads to paralysis." Maybe being very focused on that part is what prevents it? Sounds like you might do better connecting more authentically than making it a sport. Some SPs offer special rates for dinner dates etc etc.

Good luck!

Kisses,
Amber

 

[S.C. Joe]

From a physical standpoint, have you tried abstinence for a little while (meaning no masturbating either!) to see if that yields more explosive results? I always recommend about two or three days of no dates with the left hand before seeing me.

Sometimes good, sometimes not. To me after 3 days it takes me awhile to get going again. I found I went softer quicker after waiting "too long". Sure after a few hours or the next day, its fuck away time, lol

So I found sometimes its best to wait a few days like you suggest but then jerk off the night before or even that morning if its a late night call.

You gotta know your body and your body changes over time. Not jerking off used to work great until I gottan older and then noticed I was losing the erection before I came.

Can you jerk off just fine ? ,,,,,if so, you likely have a mental problem of relaxing or something. Why not let her jack you off and see if it helps. If so, it may be the feeling part, thin skin condoms would likely help.

 

[Imperius]

Great advice from all those above.

I always recommend about two or three days of no dates with the left hand before seeing me.

Shhhh... I've been cheating on my left hand with my right hand for years...

You gotta know your body and your body changes over time.

Know thyself. This is key. Sometimes I finish suddenly with little warning, even to myself. I'm starting to figure out how to recognize the situations that cause this and how to adjust appropriately.

The above suggestions are really great to help you experiment and fine tune your experience.