MP for Women?

[Svend]

The best clients as you describe are probably the rarest, no?
Probably the most you can hope is that the average client is muted when it comes to discussing his relationship with his wife.

 

[twizzler2]

another dream crushed

I'm sure you're right Joyful.

My fantasy of dozens of hot desperate asian housewives paying me to service them will probably have to go unfulfilled.

Oh well, I still have the hot desperate Eva Longoria fantasy.

 

[JoyfulC]

If a guy demonstrates respect for his wife, then it's a lot more likely that he's capable of respecting his SP. Sometimes the best way to respect a partner is to keep mum about her. At the very least, don't complain about her!

I don't think, in this day and age, that such clients are "rare." At least not for an SP in my age range who prefers gentlemen in the same age range or older. Many women of my generation, or older, tend to view sex as something to be dispensed with once marriage is secured and the children are born. I can sort of see that, when one considers the limitations and judgements that are placed on women's sexuality.

I know many, many men who would probably be just as happy to be enjoying sex with their parters, if their partners were willing -- they're not looking for "Barbie Doll" young chicks. Nor are they looking for PSEs. This is not a case of their turning their backs on willing wives in search of Pamela Anderson.

All they want is a partner who is willing to play and adventure and enjoy the fun of sex. And if they were getting it at home, they'd probably never stray. But regrettably, more often than not, their wives aren't into it. They feel they don't look good enough or they believe that sex is something for younger people.

Still, I get a distinct sense from the majority of my clients that they admire, respect and truly love their wives, their partners. And that makes me feel more relaxed with them, because it makes me feel that they're better equipped to respect me.

..c..

 

[mapsonburt]

You hit the nail right on the head so to speak (ow!). You obviously have good insight into your clients. A very well written post.

 

[hooktonsc]

now there was an expisode of Sex and the City where the horny blonde goes to a spa and finds out about a male attendant who gives extra service, and when she asks for the extras, she gets kicked out, then she complains that another member got the service and then the guy gets fired. Now that would be a fantasy come true - where the women going to the spa are actually attractive and just downright horny, rather than just resentful and depressed. The only drawback the Sex and City type spa was there was absolutely no indication that there was any nude reverses!

 

[DavidO]

Men always give us the most massage around our tits and crotch -- as though that's where we have the most muscle tension or stress.

Well, ma'am, I've been told by a number of folks that I give a great massage. One particular SP (who is well known around these parts) loves to have me work on her hands; it's very intimate, and very soothing, and not sexual. Some of my SO's female friends ask her to send me over to work on their backs at certain times of the month, or when they're under stress, or have worked too hard.

Do I grab for their crotch or their boobs when working on them? Heck no; the point is their gratification, not mine.

Do I get pleasure out of this? Heck yeah! Sure, there's the sensuous fun of close physical contact with another human being. But more is the sheer high I get out of seeing somebody feel good and knowing I did it.

Perhaps, C, when next we meet, we can set aside some time and I'll massage you.

Besides, when I get "old," I'm hoping to run a male-for-female escort service and have a bunch of sexy young men at my beck and call. ;-)

I can't imagine you being "old", m'dear. Your calendar age may increase, but I figure you'll just improve like a fine wine (er, a good Scotch?). I'd offer to work for you, but if you're old, and I'm older than you, I miss out

DavidO