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Edeard

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Some people consider kissing more intimate than actual sex - oral or coital. I was wondering if anyone has ever done something with a SP that you would consider "intimate" in that sense. One example I can think of would be caressing the face, or brushing his/her hair. I'm not a fetishist, just wondering what people do in the bedroom. In that sense I guess I am a bit of a voyeur.
 

fun-guy

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No, I don't find kissing more intimate than any other sesual act.. Many, many Lladies find kissing more intimiate than intercourse, greek and even BBBJCIMSW, go figure, but it's not for me to understand, it's for me to accept and respect the ladies' wishes.
 

LKD

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unrealated but I don't understand girls/sps who will willingly give me a bbbj, even cimsw but just refuse to kiss or even lick, let alone suck my balls.. what gives?
 

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A womens most erotic organ is her brain... that is where intimacy begins.
 

Edeard

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That makes a lot of sense. Often a simple physical act can trigger something deeper and more intimate. Are there some things that are not for sale? It depends on the person of course. I think it's interesting to see where those limits are sometimes.
 

bucky88

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For me, a kiss tells me a lot about a woman and her mood. There is nothing better than soft sensual inviting lips. If the lips are not so soft, that means the woman has something on her mind or she's just not into it or me. Call me a sap but I need kissing to have the chemistry and connection to enjoy sex with a women - SP or not.

B88
 

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I think if your spouse broke both arms and had them in casts, or some similar physical difficulty, so that you had to help them go to the washroom, that might be the most intimate thing. The opposite of sexual, but pretty fucking intimate.

Now, if you had said most passionate I guess I would agree that kissing, if done right, can be more passionate than fucking, although you CAN kiss and fuck at the same time, so I'm not sure it's an either/or question.
 

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Outside of sex, most intimate has to be sharing something of yourself that you don't tell anyone else.

Most intimate sex activity, bareback sex and cum in pussy.

Kissing is done with strangers in bars and clubs. I can't see this as the most intimate activity.
 

tywillis6969

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Outside of sex, most intimate has to be sharing something of yourself that you don't tell anyone else.

Most intimate sex activity, bareback sex and cum in pussy.

Kissing is done with strangers in bars and clubs. I can't see this as the most intimate activity.
Totally agree - But BBBJCIMSW... IMHO is very intimate aswell.
 

Haus

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Outside of sex, most intimate has to be sharing something of yourself that you don't tell anyone else.

Most intimate sex activity, bareback sex and cum in pussy.

Kissing is done with strangers in bars and clubs. I can't see this as the most intimate activity.

Yup.
 

capncrunch

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Oh, man, I honestly think the most intimate act has nothing to do with sex.

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I think the most intimate act is standing beside him/her when they're totally crushed by a life event (death of a parent, child or spouse or similar event) and being with them as they go through their grief. Showing them that while it may seem like the world is crushing them, you'll stay with them no matter what happens.
 

krayjee

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For me, a kiss tells me a lot about a woman and her mood. There is nothing better than soft sensual inviting lips. If the lips are not so soft, that means the woman has something on her mind or she's just not into it or me. Call me a sap but I need kissing to have the chemistry and connection to enjoy sex with a women - SP or not.

B88
Same here. Can't figure out how to get intimacy without kissing and caressing.
 

Brill

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Oh, man, I honestly think the most intimate act has nothing to do with sex.

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I think the most intimate act is standing beside him/her when they're totally crushed by a life event (death of a parent, child or spouse or similar event) and being with them as they go through their grief. Showing them that while it may seem like the world is crushing them, you'll stay with them no matter what happens.
Sounds good, might be tricky to set up though.
 
Some people consider kissing more intimate than actual sex - oral or coital. I was wondering if anyone has ever done something with a SP that you would consider "intimate" in that sense. One example I can think of would be caressing the face, or brushing his/her hair. I'm not a fetishist, just wondering what people do in the bedroom. In that sense I guess I am a bit of a voyeur.
Discussing one's personal life or feelings towards others in their personal life. Once trust comes into it, this is the most intimate.

These days, as spoke about in many posts, almost ANYTHING is for sale. A Sp makes a choice what it is she keeps back for herself. Morals and values should never be for sale. When two people involved in this industry client vs SP begin sharing intimate details of their personal life and turn to each other for friendship, that's the most intimate act - Trust.
 
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