ExoticSpirit said:If you want to fantasize about having a French girlfriend or wife, be my guest. But don't necessarily expect her to speak to you in English all the time. Even if she's bilingual, if she had her way, she would want the relationship conversations in at least 50% French.
This is probably true to some extent when you are with a lady from another ethnic group. I dated an Italian lady for a while and I knew whenever she spoke in Italian, it was because she was upset about something or me. Also, dinner with her family was a constant switching from Italian to English to Italian which really was hard for me because my Italian is almost non-existent.

