Mistakes to avoid when planning a 3some

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Akila Besos

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1000% this is how I talk like with those around me who don't know what I do :p.

It's worse when your flirting with another female and she thinks your straight and then I have to basically show signs that I'm bi and wanna play or learn more about her in private 😉
 
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GameBoy27

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That story sure does sound like it was written by a 21 year-old. I've had several threesomes and couples play with my wife. While I much prefer another female in the mix, my wife wanted to be with two guys at the same time so we did that was well. No interaction between the guys though. It was her fantasy and I figure if she lets me play with her and another female, it's only fair I make her happy by making her fantasy come true. As far as setting up a threesome or a couples evening, they were never planned. That goes for the ones with my wife or the ones I had before we met.
 

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I agree with this. For the most part. I mean there are couples that are into this on a regular, but that is hard to find. Most times it is a check list experience that a partner wants to have once or twice to try it out and then they are good with moving on. So unless you know it is a life style for you, do it on a throwaway relationship for sure. This is why people in their 20s should be fucking, not getting married. People need to get it all out of their system before settling down.
Yes, you are right. It is hard to find and to be honest, when he first asked me to try this nearly two years ago now, my first answer was a big no. Primarily because I feared it would affect our relationship and I didn't want anything to screw up such a great thing. I know a friend of mine has a friend who had a threesome with her husband a couple of times and they eventually divorced because of it. I'm so glad that I gave it a second thought though because it's something that we both enjoy and it's more of a "bonus". it's exciting and turns us both on so much! We already have a solid relationship and an amazing sex life but this is just something "fun" that we do here and there. We also trust each other completely and are both very mature. What we love the most about it I think, is the fantasizing about it before and after. It's kind of hard to explain.

The one thing I should mention is there is no penetration between him and the other woman. This is a rule that he came up with actually and it's the only rule that we have. He can do anything else. Same goes for me when we have a male with us.
 

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The one thing I should mention is there is no penetration between him and the other woman. This is a rule that he came up with actually and it's the only rule that we have. He can do anything else. Same goes for me when we have a male with us.
All your encounters sounded FUN until this statement.

You man is either fucking around behind your back or he soon will. Can't ask a wolf to smell the meat, taste the meat, but not eat it.
 

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The one thing I should mention is there is no penetration between him and the other woman. This is a rule that he came up with actually and it's the only rule that we have. He can do anything else. Same goes for me when we have a male with us.
How would you feel if there was penetration?
I would love to have a relationship like yours btw. 😅 😅 😅
 
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The one thing I should mention is there is no penetration between him and the other woman. This is a rule that he came up with actually and it's the only rule that we have. He can do anything else. Same goes for me when we have a male with us.
Okay, for a moment I was actually jealous about your situation.
 
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Akila Besos

Okie so I allow 3sums in my personal life and swapping etc

But my partner and I have to be upfront and honest with eachother when it comes down to who we are pursuing/ interested in for some sexy fun.

Two I allow him to like have safe sex but he made the decision that he won't receive a bbbj from a female that I haven't approved of or isn't down /okie with him being a married dude and a father

Three outside of work it's only ffm or fmf that is the decided method of 3sums we go for. He finds it hot seeing me and another girl interactive with eachother and him. Plus I find it hot watching him fucking another girl because end of the night I know he is mine in all aspects 😌😈
 

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Okie so I allow 3sums in my personal life and swapping etc

But my partner and I have to be upfront and honest with eachother when it comes down to who we are pursuing/ interested in for some sexy fun.

Two I allow him to like have safe sex but he made the decision that he won't receive a bbbj from a female that I haven't approved of or isn't down /okie with him being a married dude and a father

Three outside of work it's only ffm or fmf that is the decided method of 3sums we go for. He finds it hot seeing me and another girl interactive with eachother and him. Plus I find it hot watching him fucking another girl because end of the night I know he is mine in all aspects 😌😈
Yessss... my partner also loves seeing me with another girl. He turns him on BIG time. And I find it super hot to see him with another woman! It's a huge turn on! And exactly what you said, he's still mine ... the girl leaves and then we continue on to the grand finale of the night and hehe 💖💜👿

We also are very open and honest with each other about the whole process. We always check with each other on who we pick. Usually it's me looking for a lady and showing him the pics and asking if he is ok with my choice. 🙂 hehe.
 
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Yessss... my partner also loves seeing me with another girl. He turns him on BIG time. And I find it super hot to see him with another woman! It's a huge turn on! And exactly what you said, he's still mine ... the girl leaves and then we continue on to the grand finale of the night and hehe 💖💜👿

We also are very open and honest with each other about the whole process. We always check with each other on who we pick. Usually it's me looking for a lady and showing him the pics and asking if he is ok with my choice. 🙂 hehe.
Sometimes we are better at picking/ talking to the possible female we are interested in




I love 3sums with this one lesbian girl I know ughh it's amazing 🤤🤤😈
 
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The one thing I should mention is there is no penetration between him and the other woman. This is a rule that he came up with actually and it's the only rule that we have. He can do anything else. Same goes for me when we have a male with us.
We have that rule but that may change. There's a couple we play with. I'll call them Jeff and Kate . We've had same room fun and sex with our partners where the females interact with each other. We've also gone to Oasis a few times together. When my wife and I were having sex (just the two of us) the subject of our friends came up. I told my wife I'd like to see Jeff fucking her. She liked the idea and said we should try full swap. She thinks they would be into it. I said okay, why don't I speak to Jeff and you speak to Kate. Fast forward, my wife said Kate is totally into it. Jeff said he'd love to watch me banging Kate while he's doing my wife. Unfortunately COVID has put a damper on things but with vaccines and restrictions being lifted, we're all looking forward to our next encounter. I'm getting hard just thinking about it. lol
 
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