I can always only speak to my own experience. And yes, that is affected by my being a woman. It's also affected by age, disposition, chemistry, the provider's day, what's going on in their lives atm, etc etc. That's why we always say ymmv around here.
I had a great time with Mila and found her to be both professional and warm/engaging. I would expect most men would have a similar experience but, as always, ymmv