I agree with everyone else. You set the wrong tone by telling her you wanted to use a timer because you didn't trust her not to scam you. Of course she would be irritated by this. If everyone tells you you're being weird and nobody defends you, maybe take the hint and do some self reflection.
Also she didn't "make you" waste your time by driving 35 min there and back, getting gas, or whatever. Those are things you chose or needed to do. She took your booking, let you in the room, then got creeped out by your behavior. That's lost income for her too, which means she was willing to forgo your money for her comfort.
Also while I understand some of your instincts about the locked door and curtains, these are not realistic concerns if you really think about it. Room service can't just walk into the room. *If* she ordered room service (which she almost certainly didn't), they would knock, and if they knocked she could ignore them, or tell you to hide then let then in *briefly* to collect her food. As for the balcony, do you really think someone you know happened to be staring at your room and was ready to snitch on you? I've literally stood on a balcony and got a BJ while I stuck my arms out like the Christ The Redeemer statue in Brazil.
Also she's not a "potential scammer" based on her justifiable reaction to your weirdness. You're engaging in wild speculation about her motives when it's understandable why she was weirded out by you. Maybe she doesn't prefer "fast" clients, she just prefers "normal" clients. A scammer would have taken your money then kicked you out.
Maybe you should leave this country sooner rather than later. You don't seem to understand why everyone gets weirded out by you. Maybe some desperate broke ass third world bitches will be more tolerant of your weirdness.
Also she didn't "make you" waste your time by driving 35 min there and back, getting gas, or whatever. Those are things you chose or needed to do. She took your booking, let you in the room, then got creeped out by your behavior. That's lost income for her too, which means she was willing to forgo your money for her comfort.
Also while I understand some of your instincts about the locked door and curtains, these are not realistic concerns if you really think about it. Room service can't just walk into the room. *If* she ordered room service (which she almost certainly didn't), they would knock, and if they knocked she could ignore them, or tell you to hide then let then in *briefly* to collect her food. As for the balcony, do you really think someone you know happened to be staring at your room and was ready to snitch on you? I've literally stood on a balcony and got a BJ while I stuck my arms out like the Christ The Redeemer statue in Brazil.
Also she's not a "potential scammer" based on her justifiable reaction to your weirdness. You're engaging in wild speculation about her motives when it's understandable why she was weirded out by you. Maybe she doesn't prefer "fast" clients, she just prefers "normal" clients. A scammer would have taken your money then kicked you out.
Maybe you should leave this country sooner rather than later. You don't seem to understand why everyone gets weirded out by you. Maybe some desperate broke ass third world bitches will be more tolerant of your weirdness.