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dave_75

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Hi Everyone !

First off .. Forgive me for the low post count .. I'm more of the lurker but should start sharing my input ..

I've been a hobbyst for several years and I've had my share of bad, good and great experiences mainly with incall ladies ..

The past several months I've been on a few business trips to ** CITY** ( prefer not to say which city ) and have seen the same SP from a reliable agency.
This particular girl I connected in all facets .. emotionally, sexually etc etc ... Bravo if she provides the same service for everyone ... anyways .. she gave me her contact info and asked me to contact her directly next time I visit .. So my question is ... little bit weary .. is this a good idea or not .. she wants me to visit her place and spend the day/evening etc ...

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dave_75

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I've seen her a few times ... At no time has any payment been discussed .. I'm not trying to 'tweak my own horn' but maybe she is not even expecting payment .. If she does .. I have no issues with that especially for the fact she has provided me the best service of any SP I've had ... On a side note .. We've exchanged several emails

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If you've seen her a few times and she trusts you, could be she want's to cut out the agency.

Does she expect to get paid? If not, then you need to decide if you want to "see" her when you're in town.
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dave_75 said:
I've seen her a few times ... At no time has any payment been discussed .. I'm not trying to 'tweak my own horn' but maybe she is not even expecting payment .. If she does .. I have no issues with that especially for the fact she has provided me the best service of any SP I've had ... On a side note .. We've exchanged several emails
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Proceed with caution my friend. I've done this several times over my hobbying career. In some cases it ended up costing me more money than if things had been done at "arms length". I suggest going into it with little to no expectations as to where it might lead and just expect that you're still going to be paying for whatever you get. If it works out differently then good for you!
 
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Scott Evil

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Just ask if she is "working" when she will see you.

If she says no, enjoy yourself, just keep your expectations managed.

If she says yes, then I'd suggest go for it, but feel free to negotiate a slight better rate as she will keep 100% of the money. I had a great situation like this once. Rather than $240 for an hour, I think I was at $300 for 1.5 - 2 hours minimum (was not watching clock with our arrangement). And the meeting was much more fun. Much more milage, etc. When she retired we actually became friends (to a point). But that's another story. Good luck



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I've done the same with a few SP's in both Toronto and Vancouver and never with any problems; in most cases, the SP feels comfortable enough with you to see you in private, with the extra earnings as an added benefit. Much more enjoyable and relaxing than tightly-scheduled agency sessions.
 
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Scuse me but isn't the reason you pay that you do not want to get involved? As someone once said you poay them to leave.

If the scene has changed to a non-commercial relationship. then it's pot luck. I have known ladies who have given up the biz when they found someone and both parties seem to be happy.

If the lady has baggage -- emotional issues or drug addiction, it might be wiser to "pay and go."

My 2c (I charge more to non-TERBites :)) )
 
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Dave, there is no right answer to your question. I know most guys here would be against dating a SP for reasons already discussed a million times on this board, but unless you give it a try you will never know. IMO SPs are like any women - they want to be respected and loved, so why not go date her for a while and see how it goes? As long as you go in not expecting anything and let things just play out you will be fine. I have dated 2 SPs in my life, one for 4 months, and the other for about a year. They didn't work out not because I didn't like their job, but rather just personality difference that eventually stalled us. We are still good friends (no sex).

Go with your gut ... and let it play out.
 
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frankcastle

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Yeah good question how do you determine her intentions.

Likely she wants to cut out the agency. But what are her rates.

Slim possibility that she wants to hang out......probably unlikely at best.

Dave..... what do you want?

What do you guys think about meeting her and not saying a thing about cost and she how she plays it?

Or ask her if she wants to go out or stay in. Then do the afforementioned?
 
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Rockslinger

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jiiimmm said:
??? are they not capable of real feelings like everyone else? Why so jaded?
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Ok, here is the golden rule again.

Bosses don't date their subordinates.
Teachers don't date their students.
Lawyers don't date their clients.
Doctors don't date their patients.
Escorts don't date their "dates".
 
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mrsCALoki

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dave_75 said:
......... have seen the same SP from a reliable agency...... she gave me her contact info and asked me to contact her directly next time I visit .....
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I did my research on indi vs. agency a little over a year ago. The advantage of an agency is they handle all the advertising, answer and screen calls at all hours, and allow you to not deal with the business side. The down side is they take 40 to 60 % of the gross.

If any agency girl is booked a few times by a regular, she may decide it is safe to bypass the agency and have him book directly. When this happens there is a lot more flexibility. She can provide twice the service and break even financially. Or give you a significant discount / hour.

Although it is possible she wants to see you socially, I would assume she is just trying to increase her profit :)

PLease remember never to tell the agency. They frown on being cut out of their share.
 
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Rockslinger said:
Ok, here is the golden rule again.

Bosses don't date their subordinates.
Teachers don't date their students.
Lawyers don't date their clients.
Doctors don't date their patients.
Escorts don't date their "dates".
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it might be the rule but all of those happen in real life
 
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69Shooter

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mrsCALoki said:
I did my research on indi vs. agency a little over a year ago. The advantage of an agency is they handle all the advertising, answer and screen calls at all hours, and allow you to not deal with the business side. The down side is they take 40 to 60 % of the gross.

If any agency girl is booked a few times by a regular, she may decide it is safe to bypass the agency and have him book directly. When this happens there is a lot more flexibility. She can provide twice the service and break even financially. Or give you a significant discount / hour.

Although it is possible she wants to see you socially, I would assume she is just trying to increase her profit :)

PLease remember never to tell the agency. They frown on being cut out of their share.
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In other words, if you somehow lose her contact info do not call the agency asking for it!
 
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