ur search criteria is flawed…there are more singles in paired lot who are looking for short term options than in the officially single lot. They want safety though. they want to get spoiled but they want someone who takes lead and push them to the extent so that they can put the blame back on u, that u pushed me into this else i was clean.
if u hv ever dated some married women, you will exactly know wht i am talking about and how true it is.