Could also be a size thing.It is her choice, if she doesn’t feel comfortable, you wouldn’t enjoy it either.
Could also be a size thing.It is her choice, if she doesn’t feel comfortable, you wouldn’t enjoy it either.
let’s look at other way round. Does this filter guarantee that clients of other colour who she sees will be a pleasure to deal with? I know some of the most praised clients on this forum by providers are people of colour she does blocks out. I know it’s a personal choice but it’s flawed and should not be generalized.It is her choice, if she doesn’t feel comfortable, you wouldn’t enjoy it either.
This is mutual thing and you cannot force the providers to take everyone. Just like you will make a choice when picking them. You not going to try every provider here.let’s look at other way round. Does this filter guarantee that clients of other colour who she sees will be a pleasure to deal with? I know some of the most praised clients on this forum by providers are people of colour she does blocks out. I know it’s a personal choice but it’s flawed and should not be generalized.
There is a stark difference between discrimination and preference. If you'd like to know her reasons for not seeing a certain client base, you're welcome to ask her and she'll tell you herself. In most cases, from what SPs have both told me and said on here, usually why an SP won't see a certain type of client is because it's a "bad apples spoil the whole orchard" situation. So unfortunately, while you may be one of the good few, all of the bad ones have ruined that for you.let’s look at other way round. Does this filter guarantee that clients of other colour who she sees will be a pleasure to deal with? I know some of the most praised clients on this forum by providers are people of colour she does blocks out. I know it’s a personal choice but it’s flawed and should not be generalized.
An example of preference would be "I prefer to only see Caucasian males". The "no blacks" is the very definition of discrimination. Also, many sp's put in their ads, "I do not discriminate". Every SP has the right to see who they choose, but let's not pretend it's not discriminatory.There is a stark difference between discrimination and preference. If you'd like to know her reasons for not seeing a certain client base, you're welcome to ask her and she'll tell you herself. In most cases, from what SPs have both told me and said on here, usually why an SP won't see a certain type of client is because it's a "bad apples spoil the whole orchard" situation. So unfortunately, while you may be one of the good few, all of the bad ones have ruined that for you.
So yes, as you said, let's look at this the other way around. You have your preferences in women too, whatever those may be. You may not be interested in a certain ethnicity, body type, hair colour, etc. You may not be interested in women who party or have a certain lifestyle/attitude. Well, women have those preferences too. They don't have to see clients they don't want to see and you don't have to see women you don't want to. It works both ways.
For all of the guys on here that unfortunately struggle with this issue, when you're searching for SPs on LeoList just type in the search bar "all races" or "all races welcome" or something to that affect. Will make your search much easier than getting discouraged by constantly seeing "no [enter ethnicity here] gents" over and over again.
As a white guy I have experienced discrimination. This is the group of immigrants like Jews, Irish, Germans and Italians. Just because you are of color doesn't mean you're the only ones. I prefer tiny Asians and rather not get naked with a white bbw. I guess I'm racist as well.An example of preference would be "I prefer to only see Caucasian males". The "no blacks" is the very definition of discrimination. Also, many sp's put in their ads, "I do not discriminate". Every SP has the right to see who they choose, but let's not pretend it's not discriminatory.
Please see definitions below
Discrimination
to make a difference in treatment or favor on a basis other than individual merit. discriminate in favor of your friends. discriminate against a certain nationality.
Preference
a greater liking for one alternative over another or others.
Finally, I'd like to pass a motion that Caucasian hobbyists refrain from commenting on this issue as many of you have likely never experienced discrimination in your lives. As a minority, I'd prefer not to take advice on discrimination from people who aren't a victim of it.
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I am not the original poster. I simply provided a definition for preference and a definition for discrimination. Again, you are stating that you prefer Asian, that's a preference. Saying "no whites" is discrimination by definition. Personally, I don't care but I thought it valuable to explain the difference for people like yourself, who may not be able to differentiate between the two.As a white guy I have experienced discrimination. This is the group of immigrants like Jews, Irish, Germans and Italians. Just because you are of color doesn't mean you're the only ones. I prefer tiny Asians and rather not get naked with a white bbw. I guess I'm racist as well.
Your post reads "she doesn't like me so there's something wrong with her." Also your comments read, "she doesn't like me so she's racist." Maybe she just prefers Caucasians and you are taking it in an offensive manner. Maybe it's you and not her.
Her body her choice ....my cock my choice as well.
This is a review board on experiences not for your grievances.
Lots of other girls out there no need to dwell on one girls preferences. No need to play the victim card here since there is no victim but a matter of choice.