How is it NOT creepy! I'm thinking also a clapper for the lights and a button that lights a candle and turns on some music. It's nutty!
Did not read the whole thread, so pardon me if I'm repeating something that may have already been mentioned.
From a hobbyist point of view, I just cannot understand WTF these rich guys were thinking.
I've been fortunate to have some pretty good jobs, well paying and in environments where there were often many attractive women around. Some reported to me, others didn't. No matter what, I always do my level best not to rock the boat at all at work.
This is where my money comes from. This is what allows me to do much of what I'm lucky to be able to do in life.
Why the hell would I do anything to risk that?
Some of these celebs who are being accused have enough money to go out and pay for whatever kind of services they desire. No strings attached.
I know some will say it's the power trip they seek. Not very well thought out, IMO.
I think some people feel they are in a position of power where
1) the victim will not complain out of fear
2) the ego that says the victim must want them because of who they are and their power/status
3) the fact that for a long time this behavior was swept under the rug. We go from Mad Men style harassment to years of it being wrong but companies doing nothing and settling with the victims to now with the exposure and consequences. Biggest difference is social media where everyone finds out everything pretty quick.
4) I think part of the sweeping under the rug was the person was important to the company. Might be the ego of the individual thinking they can't be fired because they are too important.
It's a known quote - "Don't shit where you eat" - these guys are paying the price for arrogance.
I just saw a news headline that says Matt Lauer has apologized for his actions and vowed to fix the damage. How? This isn't something you can undo and take back. Just read a newspaper article on victims of sexual assault. Takes them a while to feel comfortable enough to have sex. Some require therapy, some are unable to feel safe and get intimate with their partner. I don't know what the circumstances of Lauer's offences but I'm thinking if the lady doesn't want it, she's going to be messed up to some degree.