Massage vs. Escort

[Wes2017]

Hello there, This may seem obvious, but I am struggling to find the difference between services offered in some Massage places and the services typically offered by escort agencies. I know the locations and format is different, however, once behind closed doors, the service seems to be the same.

I have tried and enjoyed escort services. I have yet to try massage services.

Thanks!

 

[managee]

Hello there, This may seem obvious, but I am struggling to find the difference between services offered in some Massage places and the services typically offered by escort agencies. I know the locations and format is different, however, once behind closed doors, the service seems to be the same.

I have tried and enjoyed escort services. I have yet to try massage services.

Thanks!

Bodyslide, which is ordinarily the highest level of service offered inclusively (door fee plus service fee - $$ depends on spa), is a naked body to naked body massage, where she uses her body to massage you, usually covered in massage oils or creams. At the end, an HJ is the standard finish but this may vary with some spas.

Any service that is above and beyond a standard finish is not something that would be discussed on TERB for legal reasons (read the rules).

Please consider posting this in the massage reviews section of the board, and while you’re there, do a bit of reading. It’s a review board. They review the massage services, so you’ll find what you’re looking for there.

 

[sempel]

Services provided by escorts are usually standard in the price versus MPA's where the price advertised is usually for a basic massage/bodyslide. Anything else that approaches SP like services is dependent on the girl, the MP, and involves extra cash, hence the term "extra". Yes, there are some places where the MPA's are unrestrictive and you are basically getting SP services but that's not every place or every girl.

Here's the thing. If you are hoping for SP services from MPA's, there is always the chance the answer will be no. Some girls the answer is always no, for others its YMMV and you're getting a no while others get a yes (could be looks, connection, impression, respect/treatment, hygiene, etc. - there are a number of things you will be judged on). So beware that YMMV and personal preferences (by the MPA) are a factor.

 

[jcpro]

You get a $200+ hand job in the massage parlor. It helps when the MP actually knows how to massage. It's the only reason I visit a massage place, from time to time.

 

[Wes2017]

Thank you, this is helpful. It is hard to detect a YMMV situation when reading reviews.

 

[massman]

Some escorts offer massage service, some massage attendants offer escort type service. At most reputable MPs in town, service that is informally considered "within MP limits" doesn't include BJ/FS.

For me, escort and massage services offer me totally different experiences. With an escort I want a two way interaction, where we focus attention on each other, and of course include specific intimate activities. At the MP, I'm looking for more of the session to focus on me, and my total relaxation (thats what the massage part is for). The best massage sessions IMO combine some of that two way connection, with a slow gradual sensual build to the ending. A "massage" session that is basically an escort session leaves me wanting for the relaxation part of it. Its often rushed and also not an ideal environment for the fs type stuff, and is quite limiting. There is also a concern that escort type activities may attract unwanted attention for MPs. (tho some may get off on the thrill of getting something they are not supposed to)

 

[Wes2017]

Some escorts offer massage service, some massage attendants offer escort type service. At most reputable MPs in town, service that is informally considered "within MP limits" doesn't include BJ/FS.

For me, escort and massage services offer me totally different experiences. With an escort I want a two way interaction, where we focus attention on each other, and of course include specific intimate activities. At the MP, I'm looking for more of the session to focus on me, and my total relaxation (thats what the massage part is for). The best massage sessions IMO combine some of that two way connection, with a slow gradual sensual build to the ending. A "massage" session that is basically an escort session leaves me wanting for the relaxation part of it. Its often rushed and also not an ideal environment for the fs type stuff, and is quite limiting. There is also a concern that escort type activities may attract unwanted attention for MPs. (tho some may get off on the thrill of getting something they are not supposed to)

Good point about the distinction between the two types. Thanks, now I am tempted to try an MP to “focus on me and relax”

 

[massman]

I mean I love a great romp with a sexy and enthusiastic girl as much (maybe more) than anyone! But also love that totally relaxed, whole body still tingling afterglow after a skillful erotic massage. Perfect for when you are super stressed, sore from sports or working out, still slightly hung over etc....

 

[DaleyDDD]

If I was a female looking to get into the sexual service industry I would definitely go MPA vs SP.

A MPA has the right to decline a customer and once behind closed doors she is not obligated to do anymore than a perfunctionary massage and HJ.

But if she likes the guy and wants to do more she can (as in YMMV).

Just to provide some clarification on this, though I don’t believe you intended it in the way it may have come across, an SP also has the right to decline any service, and is never obligated to do anything either. That’s YMMV. Though I think we can all agree that one might not be as successful if she sits her clients down for some Monopoly and hot chocolate, but an SP always has the right to refuse any service. That said, assuming the girl has the ability to choose her place in the industry, she has likely done enough research herself to know the difference between service with the two.

 

[wigglee]

I prefer an escort over an MP because with an escort you know you are getting at least a covered BJ and having sex. With an MP it is annoying and distracting to go through the whole haggling and upselling routine ( and who wants to pay a hundred bucks for a HJ?). If I want a relaxing therapeutic massage , I will go to a real RMT and expect no HJ.