Married Women

[MissTakes]

I received an e-mail yesterday from a gentleman looking to hook up with me for an afternoon appointment. The man knows that I am retired and that I am married. It turned out that those were the reasons why he contacted me. It is a fantasy of his to "do another dude's wife."

Is this a common fantasy for you guys? Do you get a rush out of knowing that the S/O could bust in at any moment with a 12 guage? Comments please, either here or in pm.

Thanks.

 

[nss]

Ack!

Oh my god. Not for me. Frankly, I think it's pretty inconsiderate of him to have done that. He knows you're married, and he knows you're retired, but it's more important for him to get your notch in his belt? That's pretty freakin' arrogant and selfish as hell. If you wanted to stay in the business, and your spouse is ok with that, then fine. Consenting adults and all that. But I don't find the prospect of staring down the business end of a 12-gauge remotely erotic. All the Viagara in the world would make a damn bit of difference at that point!

I received an e-mail yesterday from a gentleman looking to hook up with me for an afternoon appointment. The man knows that I am retired and that I am married. It turned out that those were the reasons why he contacted me. It is a fantasy of his to "do another dude's wife."

Is this a common fantasy for you guys? Do you get a rush out of knowing that the S/O could bust in at any moment with a 12 guage? Comments please, either here or in pm.

Thanks.

 

[daKoolGuy]

I received an e-mail yesterday from a gentleman looking to hook up with me for an afternoon appointment. The man knows that I am retired and that I am married. It turned out that those were the reasons why he contacted me. It is a fantasy of his to "do another dude's wife."

Is this a common fantasy for you guys? Do you get a rush out of knowing that the S/O could bust in at any moment with a 12 guage? Comments please, either here or in pm.

Thanks.

I don't think that the idea is to do the deed in your hubby's turf. But, yes, it is a matter of desire for some ppl when they know that you are with somebody else and hence sort of no longer accessible to anybody else.
It is a matter of rush for some to "do another dude's wife." as you put it. But then again, it usually happens between mutually consenting adults. This is so common. Infidelity is the word , I believe.

 

[Questor]

Maybe on an unconscious level, yes. I think it is common for people to want what is unattainable. Or to want what belongs to someone else. But in the context that is described here, I think it is quite bizarre.

 

[hunter001]

No. I perfer not knowing about the provider's personal backgroundi is.

If possible I would perfer not to mess with someone else's personal life but it is a business after all.

 

[nautilus]

You're missing the point. She's retired from the business.

 

[Guy7]

Just recently i saw an ad on C.L. that a married girl advertised as
some one's prized possession is available for some wild fun and folic
for a very limited time to clear her bills? pls. contact immediately for an appointment, which was intresting and sad too, where is her better half to take care of her and to support her with her bills, that she has to go Public Ltd, to clear her bills and what not, could not understand the logic, was she really in need, or maybe horny as hell to have some variety in her young married life for a shorter span....

 

[xarir]

I think this whole industry / hobby exists in large part because people generally want what is otherwise unattainable in civilian life.

Having said that, the fact that this guy knows you're retired doesn't make this particular proposal correct. If he really wants to do some other dude's wife, he should try to pick one up in a cougar bar. If a lady wants to unretire, I think she will do so all on her own without active encouragement from us hobbyists.

 

[Aardvark154]

I received an e-mail yesterday from a gentleman looking to hook up with me for an afternoon appointment. The man knows that I am retired and that I am married. It turned out that those were the reasons why he contacted me. It is a fantasy of his to "do another dude's wife."

Is this a common fantasy for you guys? Do you get a rush out of knowing that the S/O could bust in at any moment with a 12 guage?

Perhaps I'm a weird person but the very last thing I want to do is be with a married SP! I know this probably sounds quite strange to many people here on TERB, but I've never hobbied when I was married, and it deeply troubles me to be an unknowing adulterer. I can live with being a "fornicator" with a consenting unmarried partner but Adultery is a whole other kettle of fish.

 

[TQM]

the brutal truth

For those who are actually interested in understanding sex and sexuality....

I was involved in a "sugar" relationship with a young woman for close to 3 years. During this time she wasn't either an SP or MPA. I doubt she ever was. It was my second such relationship and she taught me much about (my) sexuality.

I was aware she had a boyfriend, but didn't give it much thought. I saw her on one occasion - which she advised would be strictly oral that day. It was bbbjtccimrepeated. (Actually, in spite of having had a number of relationships, she was the first girl who was really good at everything.)

At no time did she get up to rinse her mouth or gargle. She never asked for a drink.

She drained me well. She then surprised me and asked me to follow her out the building, walking well behind her - her instructions were that I was to just watch what she does.

I did as she asked. She walked about a half dozen blocks and met a guy (who I later found out was her boyfriend) and gave him a long slow kiss on the mouth. Thirty minutes earlier she had been finishing me off with that mouth. The guy had no particular reaction - didn't seem to taste anything.

We talked about it the next time I saw her and she just said she "knew" it would turn me on.

Well, the more I thought about it, the more it did.

Sex is a very competitive thing - even when you are paying for it. It's not about getting your rocks off - it's about what it is that gets your rocks off.

In more recent years I've had short affairs with married women and there's no denying that the "married" aspect of these women heightened the experience for both them and I. Their infidelity fueled their lust (who knows - maybe they wouldn't have been available to me if they weren't married!). And for my part it was a turn on to get another man's chick.

It's interesting (to me): being a mother doesn't add anything to my lust for a woman - the milf thing mystifies me. But the wilf thing is another matter.

 

[Esco!]

why do they still have your e-mail? Why not cut off e-mail contact with your customers if you're retired?

Maybe she made a MissTake


sorry someone had to say it

 

[Aardvark154]

For those who are actually interested in understanding sex and sexuality....

Not to get into a P__ing contest. But the above sounds a good bit like "my way or the highway" rather than this is a complex issue and can be approached from many different directions.

Hopefuly I'm merely misunderstanding you or being overly sensitive.

 

[Lochlan651]

And she didnt change her phone number?

 

[zekestone]

At no time did she get up to rinse her mouth or gargle. She never asked for a drink.

She drained me well. She then surprised me and asked me to follow her out the building, walking well behind her - her instructions were that I was to just watch what she does.

I did as she asked. She walked about a half dozen blocks and met a guy (who I later found out was her boyfriend) and gave him a long slow kiss on the mouth. Thirty minutes earlier she had been finishing me off with that mouth. The guy had no particular reaction - didn't seem to taste anything.

We talked about it the next time I saw her and she just said she "knew" it would turn me on.

I've done that. And the husband knew about me - even spoke with him a few times and met him in person.

One evening stands out in my mind... she fucked her husband, we got together and fucked (Mmmm... sloppy seconds), then she went home and got fucked some more by hubby (Mmmm... sloppy thirds).

Another time, we went to her place, fucked her in their bed and she deliberately left a stain on the bed.

Her husband was really turned on by the concept of being married to a slut.

Being with a slut also turns me on and she was also good looking.

She was also a MILF. I like MILFs... A LOT.

Having kids changes women... I think it gives them more character - it forces them to lose the immaturity (most of the time). It also seems to cause women figure out what they like which helps when it comes to sexuality.

 

[Hard Idle]

Originally Posted by Alexa Taylor
why do they still have your e-mail? Why not cut off e-mail contact with your customers if you're retired?

And she didnt change her phone number?

Busted!

 

[Hard Idle]

As for the whole turn-on issue, I must say it does nothing for me. Too me, knowing a woman is somebody else's makes me view her as somewhat "soiled" in a way.

I could possibly look past it in a moment of weakness, if the girl is the kind of out-of-reach dream that comes along only a few times in a lifetime, but she'd have to be "to die for", or pretty damn close.

Even that flexibility is a compromise out of necessity - the grim realization that my chances of scoring A-list ass on my own terms are non-existent.

I can live with knowing a woman sleeps with other guys, as long as it's not any sort of committed relationship scenario. A truly awesome girl should not belong to anybody to begin with, she should be a free agent and her guy and/or girls ought to be content just with being on the list.

But I couldn't participate in a cheating scenario. I'm turned off by disrespect or loss of face on anyone's part and wouldn't want to be involved. Everyone would have to be informed and consenting.

 

[Jade4u]

Just recently i saw an ad on C.L. that a married girl advertised as
some one's prized possession is available for some wild fun and folic
for a very limited time to clear her bills? pls. contact immediately for an appointment, which was intresting and sad too, where is her better half to take care of her and to support her with her bills, that she has to go Public Ltd, to clear her bills and what not, could not understand the logic, was she really in need, or maybe horny as hell to have some variety in her young married life for a shorter span....

Maybe she wants to save some money so that she can leave him.

 

[TQM]

aardvark

Yes, it's a complex issue, but you aren't being overly sensitive.

I believe most men (and women) might know what they like (sexually), but aren't all in touch with why they like it.

I'll agree with you it's complex because in fact desires can manifest themselves in many many different ways.

But to ignore what I'm calling the "competitive nature" of sex as a driving force or to think that there is "non-competitive" desire, I'm saying, is generally, but not always, a simple mistake.

That doesn't mean that every guy wants to fuck a married (to somebody else) woman. (then again, we already know a fairly large percent of men do have such affairs with women married to someone else, and we can be confident there are men who would want to but don't succeed!!!)

Sexuality is of course complex - and this shows that it isn't just straightforward physical attraction. Mainly, it is a pyschological phenonenon - impacted by ideas more than by physical assets.

But the fact that so many men are pursuing married women means that the fact that they are married isn't viewed as an overall disincentive - in fact it's viewed as icing.

 

[MissTakes]

To Alexa and Lochlan651

First of all, thank you for contributing to the thread. I wasn't particularly upset by his request, I was more curious about it than anything else.

I was contacted by e-mail here, at the forum, not at my personal e-mail. Perhaps I misled you by saying e-mail when private message may have been more appropriate. Sorry for the confusion. My phone number has nothing to do with this contact. He doesn't know it and isn't about to find out what it is.

Have a great day and sorry again if I confused you.

 

[petemeat]

For those who are actually interested in understanding sex and sexuality....

I was involved in a "sugar" relationship with a young woman for close to 3 years. During this time she wasn't either an SP or MPA. I doubt she ever was. It was my second such relationship and she taught me much about (my) sexuality.

I was aware she had a boyfriend, but didn't give it much thought. I saw her on one occasion - which she advised would be strictly oral that day. It was bbbjtccimrepeated. (Actually, in spite of having had a number of relationships, she was the first girl who was really good at everything.)

At no time did she get up to rinse her mouth or gargle. She never asked for a drink.

She drained me well. She then surprised me and asked me to follow her out the building, walking well behind her - her instructions were that I was to just watch what she does.

I did as she asked. She walked about a half dozen blocks and met a guy (who I later found out was her boyfriend) and gave him a long slow kiss on the mouth. Thirty minutes earlier she had been finishing me off with that mouth. The guy had no particular reaction - didn't seem to taste anything.

We talked about it the next time I saw her and she just said she "knew" it would turn me on.

Well, the more I thought about it, the more it did.

Sex is a very competitive thing - even when you are paying for it. It's not about getting your rocks off - it's about what it is that gets your rocks off.

In more recent years I've had short affairs with married women and there's no denying that the "married" aspect of these women heightened the experience for both them and I. Their infidelity fueled their lust (who knows - maybe they wouldn't have been available to me if they weren't married!). And for my part it was a turn on to get another man's chick.

It's interesting (to me): being a mother doesn't add anything to my lust for a woman - the milf thing mystifies me. But the wilf thing is another matter.

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