Married men who got into this hobby any regrets?

[desert monk]

Number 1: it's ADDICTIVE. It is not easy to quit.

Number 2: it may become very expensive

Number3: it may occupy a LOT of your time - not necessarily doing it, but searching through ads - that in itself becomes addictive - LOL looking at reviews on review boards

number 4: It MAY lead to your inability to form a normal lasting relationship because you become accustomed to always looking for something just a bit new, a bit better

Number 5: This to me is a positive - a considerable number of women I have been with in this industry are very nice people and have become friends

Number 6: Also a positive - you will likely become much more confident around normal women, as you don't need them as much so you just become more relaxed around them


Regardless, I really don't think that, laying on your deathbed, super orgasms you have had are going to be on your mind. You are going to care most about the REAL relationships in your life.

Number 7: You will keep visiting these forums forever, long after you quit seeing SP's. Try explaining that to your SO when you get busted.

 

[trippingwalker]

Love always finds a way.

i would have thought that after years of being together, even more years of knowing each other, and a couple years of marriage that at least the blowjobs would have gotten longer if not way better! Alas, i'm a dreamer lol and i'm here!

 

[franz888]

Agreed, this hobby is potentially addictive and fund draining. There is also something to be said about the negative long term effect of getting instant gratification of one's sexual desires, with putting in zero effort to impress, seduce and attract women or becoming a better man.

So true.