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Married a Thai freelancer: worst decision

stinkynuts

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This is a good watch if you have 30 minutes.

Too long didn't watch: The guy fell in love with a Thai freelancer. He tried to buy her love, and showered her and her family with gifts. They got married and moved to Australia , and she changed and became very cold. She got a job and became independent and cheated on him. He took her back multiple times. In the end, he was left broke, broken-hearted, and wasted his time and money on her, instead of his dying mother.

So sad, but it happens all the time.
 
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stinkynuts

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I will share my own personal story.

Luckily, I had ZERO feelings or intentions for this girl, it was strictly for fun, since I am not naive.

About a year ago I went to the Philippines for the weather, girls, and exotic lifestyle. I had been to Thailand, and wanted to compare the two. Were the girls going to be more friendly and less about money? At least we could communicate in English.

Well, I saw only a few girls during my three weeks there. Philipinas are not attratctive to me. Most of them are mothers with mother bodies, fat, terrible hygiene downstairs and bad breath, tattoos. Although friendly, they are gold diggers trying to extract every penny from you.

During the last couple days, I saw a girl about 25, who was maybe a 6/10. I wanted to spend the last few days doing something more than just having sex. So I invited her to the mall for lunch. She was very late,, almost two hours. I was pissed, but she eventually showed up. I bought her a bunch of stuff from the mall (mostly food items), and we had a nice lunch. She told me to take my watch off, and she put in her bag for "safekeeping". She was just trying to steal it if I forgot to ask for it back, but I remembered.

Anway, I paid her the going rate each time we had sex (two times total). I said that I wanted to see her family, since she mentioned they live far away. I wanted to see what a typical Philipna family lived like. The next day, I paid for the taxi there. I was stunned by just how bad the situation was. Her entire family plus several other families were living in a tiny, run down house. It was incredibly hot and stuffy, and they had no AC. Also, her brother was mentally disabled, and the old father was taking care of him. I felt so bad, that I gave all my money to each family member. This was around $300. I was leaving the next day, and the money would mean much more to them than to me.

I also bought them a whole bunch of food: five whole barbecued chickens, pork, lots of beer and side dishes and ice cream. This was another $80-100 if I remember correctly. Only some members of the family ate though, since they had just eaten.

We went back to the hotel together, and I said I would pay her for her time. Even though we did not have sex, and I had given a ton of money to her family. Since I had not given any money to her that day, I felt bad. I had no money on me, so I went to my hotel room and took out $200 of Canadian dollars and exchanged it a nearby exchange. I gave it to her, expecting her to be happy and grateful for all that I did for her. Instead, I was shocked at what happened next.

She was furious, and said that I was not paying her enough. I became angry, and incredulous, since I had just done so much for her family, and on top of that was paying her for it. She grabbed the money and stormed off.

Later, she texted me and apologized, but I was having none of it.

I blocked her, but later kept getting messages and calls from her using a new number. I'm pretty sure she needed money, lol.
 

stinkynuts

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Also, my best friend is Vietnamese American. He married a girl from Vietnam. She was so sweet when she came, but over time, she changed completely. She became bossy and demanding, and had really bad attitude. She would work, but all her money would go to her and her family. She wouldn't pay any of the bills. They have an autistic son, and he loves him to death, an is always spending time with him, while working a full time job. She works as a manicurist. She basically runs everything: decided which car and house they would buy, etc.

When his back hurt, and he needed a new mattress (they sleep in different rooms), but did not have the money to buy a new one, he asked her if she could buy the mattress for him. She said no.

He is the nicest guy, and very selfless. It's hard to see him so sad. He was completely used, and his finances are in shambles now. I'm surprised he's stil with her.
 

IM469

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My first trip to Thailand was an eye opener. I was in Pattaya and met a hot bar girl that was drop dead gorgeous. We hit it off and I continued to pay her longtime fee (~ $50 USD) to her bar so that I could spend 24 hours with her. She took me on my first elephant ride, wonderful restaurants and I met her friends. After a few days, she told me that she couldn't meet with me anymore because she had to meet up with a friend. I told her not to worry - I'm here on vacation nothing more. I guess she didn't want me jealous - who knows - but she told me that this was a guy from England that he was sending her money and wanted to marry her / take her back to England. I told her that was wonderful - good luck. No, you don't understand - I don't love him but he sends me lots of money. I tell him I go to school and not stay in bar.

I actually saw the guy - I can understand why he was so desperate to send money. He only had a week off and spent a couple days before he had to fly back. Sad but I learned that this is quite common.

I still highly recommend Thailand - just understand that what happens in Thailand - stays in Thailand.
 

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I will share my own personal story.

Luckily, I had ZERO feelings or intentions for this girl, it was strictly for fun, since I am not naive.

About a year ago I went to the Philippines for the weather, girls, and exotic lifestyle. I had been to Thailand, and wanted to compare the two. Were the girls going to be more friendly and less about money? At least we could communicate in English.

Well, I saw only a few girls during my three weeks there. Philipinas are not attratctive to me. Most of them are mothers with mother bodies, fat, terrible hygiene downstairs and bad breath, tattoos. Although friendly, they are gold diggers trying to extract every penny from you.

During the last couple days, I saw a girl about 25, who was maybe a 6/10. I wanted to spend the last few days doing something more than just having sex. So I invited her to the mall for lunch. She was very late,, almost two hours. I was pissed, but she eventually showed up. I bought her a bunch of stuff from the mall (mostly food items), and we had a nice lunch. She told me to take my watch off, and she put in her bag for "safekeeping". She was just trying to steal it if I forgot to ask for it back, but I remembered.

Anway, I paid her the going rate each time we had sex (two times total). I said that I wanted to see her family, since she mentioned they live far away. I wanted to see what a typical Philipna family lived like. The next day, I paid for the taxi there. I was stunned by just how bad the situation was. Her entire family plus several other families were living in a tiny, run down house. It was incredibly hot and stuffy, and they had no AC. Also, her brother was mentally disabled, and the old father was taking care of him. I felt so bad, that I gave all my money to each family member. This was around $300. I was leaving the next day, and the money would mean much more to them than to me.

I also bought them a whole bunch of food: five whole barbecued chickens, pork, lots of beer and side dishes and ice cream. This was another $80-100 if I remember correctly. Only some members of the family ate though, since they had just eaten.

We went back to the hotel together, and I said I would pay her for her time. Even though we did not have sex, and I had given a ton of money to her family. Since I had not given any money to her that day, I felt bad. I had no money on me, so I went to my hotel room and took out $200 of Canadian dollars and exchanged it a nearby exchange. I gave it to her, expecting her to be happy and grateful for all that I did for her. Instead, I was shocked at what happened next.

She was furious, and said that I was not paying her enough. I became angry, and incredulous, since I had just done so much for her family, and on top of that was paying her for it. She grabbed the money and stormed off.

Later, she texted me and apologized, but I was having none of it.

I blocked her, but later kept getting messages and calls from her using a new number. I'm pretty sure she needed money, lol.
You could find prety much the same thing in CA before most of. Familys would be in better shape, though... the SCs closed
 

xix

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Pay as you go is the way to go overseas and most cases here also.

Rarely have I heard someone who is happy with their foreign spouse that they met there and brought here. Or they met her here but she arrived after 25 years old.
Maybe one but that arrangement happened in the 1980's.
After that I never heard of a happy couple. Except the guy in the radio from Cuba who is still with his Canadian wife. She brought him here.



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SexB

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From what I've heard, if you go to Thailand or the Philippines for sex tourism, whether it's escorts or through hook-up apps, bring condoms, go on PReP and as an added precaution, get a vasectomy.

Sex ed and contraceptive use are supposed to be non-existent and HIV is rampant. Though I've also heard not to believe everything you see on Porn Hub or read on blogs or Reddit and if you meet women over there, they'll ask you to wear a condom.
 

Zipperpants

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Honestly all I can say is…meh

I have seen and heard this happen here a bunch of times. Guy falls for international student from Asia. She act all caring, nurturing, open minded. Then they get married and or have a kid then things change. She becomes mean, distant and demanding. Totally opposite from what she once was. Then comes the messy divorce and/or she take the kid land moves back home.

I have warned some of the guys but they thought it was a fairy tale story they were living.
 
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bazokajoe

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Honestly all I can say is…meh

I have seen and heard this happen here a bunch of times. Guy falls for international student from Asia. She act all caring, nurturing, open minded. Then they get married and or have a kid then things change. She becomes mean, distant and demanding. Totally opposite from what she once was. Then comes the messy divorce and/or she take the kid moves back home.

I have warned some times of the guys but they thought it was a fairy tale story they were living.
Lots of Canadian women do this to. Except they take the house and half his stuff and paycheck.
 

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Lots of Canadian women do this to. Except they take the house and half his stuff and paycheck.
I’m personally aware of very similar stories involving marrying Cuban and Mexican wives. The desire to escape poverty can be a very strong motivator. Once that is taken care of, the desire to be free to make one’s own choices is not far behind, as demonstrated in maybe 90% of this site’s threads. Successful marriages (interracial or otherwise) that I know of have not involved significant economic imbalance. Not the sole factor of success, but I suggest a significant one.
 

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I have an on again/off again many year thing with a Thai Canadian woman. Looks much younger than her age and can be humorous at times.
Guess what ? 90% of our conversation revolves around money. I will no longer be in contact with her, it was not interesting or in good taste to talk
about her finances and my finances pretty much all the time.
 

kherg007

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BTW these stories repeated around the world. Knew a bloke who fell for a Russian whom once she got a married and legal she totally changed and basically ignored him and did what she wanted to do.
 

danmand

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It is exploitation both ways. I, myself, some time ago brought a drop dead gorgeous girl here, who would not normally have given me a second look. Yes, she took advantage of me.
 

stinkynuts

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This is a forensic files episode where a weatlhy man brought over his filipina wife. She repeatedly cheated on him with the gardener, without protection and left him. The jury, it seems, thought that it was a mitigating factor, and he was only sentenced to 8 years. They seemed disgusted by her behavior.

 
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