I believe that it really depends on the person but for me, I really love a manscaped man. If youre looking for lots of BLS from me and your balls are super hairy... Im not into it. Mainly because when I get a hair in my mouth during a BJ and it tickles my throat, I gag. Its a mental thing for me too, to know a hair is in my throat.
Im a pleaser and with the right person I'm a great submissive. But I want to enjoy it too, and from my experience not many men really love a huge bush.
I shave once a week, and allow stubble to grow because I understand how time consuming it is to shave all the time, also it causes ingrown hairs when you shave back to back. Its painful on the kitty to be shaving stubble. I suggest, do it once a week, or a few days before your appointment.
If youre looking for rimming, personally for me I require you to be shaved in that area, I dont like hair in my mouth, hair holds onto smells and sweat even after being washed.
Hope that opinion helps shed a light <3
XO Char