Male Advice 101: WTF????

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Ms.FemmeFatale

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Scenario:

-Couple in bed.
-Woman's favorite toy is finishing its re-charge
-lube and vibrating anal beads on the night stand
-30 feet of new rope waiting to be used

All that is missing is the blind fold.

Try a bandanna and doesn't quite to the trick
Try a housecoat tie and that doesn't quite cover the eyes

Woman tries to make a suggestion on something else to use.

Man is dismissing her and saying no to the idea before she can finish her sentence.

Woman says "no wait, listen to me for a second"

Man cuts her off and gets pissed.

Night ends with neither party getting laid.

Please explain why?????
 
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pastor hyman

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Sound to me like she needs to learn her place :thumb:
 
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K Douglas

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Clearly something that trivial was used as a reason for him to bail on the activities. Maybe he wasn't in the mood.
 
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Respect and communication are an important part of a relationship, whether it be just a sexual relationship or an exclusive relationship. Respect comes into play when you listen to the opinions, thoughts and feelings of the other person. The communication comes into play when there is an exchange of information. Both of these are vital to a healthy relationship. It appears this man, who I would say is a very lucky man, doesn't respect the woman and is not interested in communicating. Men have been accused of not being good communicators, but I hope that trend is beginning to change.
 
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AJstar

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Maybe he feels like he went along with all her toys and after a while decided her toys were more important than he was.
Sounds like he wasn't really into all the diversions.
 
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GrandBlasterK

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AJstar said:
Maybe he feels like he went along with all her toys and after a while decided her toys were more important than he was.
Sounds like he wasn't really into all the diversions.
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No, the man is the ultimate toy and all her accessories are just part of the foreplay. When you're in bed with a woman, you still need to communicate with her!
 
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TheDr

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Simple answer..... He's an idiot. A sure fire thing and he let his ego great in the way.
 
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d_jedi

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He's an idiot. I can maybe understand being a little annoyed if he wants to get on with it, and she keeps delaying things.. but there are only a few reasons why, personally, I would turn down sex. This.. is not one of them.
 
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james t kirk

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She is bottoming from the top.

Topping takes a huge HUGE amount of effort and planning. It's not an easy job.

She should learn that unless she's running the scene to let him solve the problem as best as he can and work with it. (Men are natural born problem solvers (women are problem makers) and once we're on a certain track, we don't want to be told how to do it. This applies to topping a woman in bed, or changing a toilet seat.)
 
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Ms.FemmeFatale said:
Scenario:

-Couple in bed.
-Woman's favorite toy is finishing its re-charge
-lube and vibrating anal beads on the night stand
-30 feet of new rope waiting to be used


ADD:-
-Feather
-barely liquid wax
-Warm oil

All that is missing is the blind fold.


Please explain why?????
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Missing requirement. Me...........................:wink:
 
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Allejandro2011

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He ain't type of open-minded guy.

Essentially, there are two ways to look at the world, ie from rational and irrational perspectives (can't remember how exactly psycho analysts call it, but it doesn't change the concept). Thus, society is usually more inclined towards the rational one. All the roles are clear, certain expectations are developed and, therefore, we get typical mediocre type of behaviour someone tries to play, if not even live all their lives.

On the other hand, irrationally is not always the safest and clearest ways to go, but it does at the same time to explore the beauty of life, emotions (as many men don't even know what they are, but then struggle at some point in their life to connect to their most precious partner), creativity and etc, you name it, however, in fact, some things that artists might explore themselves could only be understood years from that creation. Not even mentioning that such path is usually criticed by the public, definitely against traditional values, so because of that some people are afraid to cross the line and some others still dogmatically believe into something that was downloaded into their heads, but does not necessarily implies their real life.
 
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JackBurton

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I have the answer, something everyone has missed:

She probably said it in a nagging or smart mouthed way. this is his way of letting her know he is in charge and if she is going to behave like that then she will get nothing. All those toys sound like it was all about her and she was just being a "Do Me" Queen.

Sounds like a real man to me. I am sure he called a booty call after he left so he could get off.
 
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bazokajoe

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Who cares.It's between those 2 people.I don't care what happens in someone elses bedroom.
 
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