I already posted a +1 in the GFE thread, but I wanted to briefly offer my thoughts on this "spectacular" lady...
I had never met her and even though we butted heads a little in some threads, my instincts told me to DM her and have a discussion away from the public eye. Even in the DM's, we had differing opinions and viewpoints , but we both remained respectful towards each other. I suggested I come see her and she agreed, and we began texting to set something up. It took a lot of back and forth between us, I think we are very similar in personality, and we finally agreed for me to visit her at Hush.
It took all of about 3 minutes for me to feel as comfortable around a lady as I have been in a very long time. Text and Dm's offer no context or mood, and a lot of times things get misread. We spent some time talking about the things that brought a little tension between us and quickly realized that we both agreed on a lot of issues. I knew the face to face would be good but it went beyond my expectations...
We all think we know what we want when we are by ourselves, but things quickly change when similar interests and outlooks align. It's not difficult to make someone feel like they matter: just listen to them and offer feedback and actually be interested in what they have to say.
This lady made me feel like that and then some.... I cannot say enough good things about her and how she treated me. If you're looking for the complete package, she is it....
Thanks A