MA’s who provide good service and altitude

[golfer1948]

Bad take…. Super bad take actually. A tip for someone’s service (regardless of the industry and type of service) is a sign of appreciation for said services, a sign that the person went out of their way to ensure you had a good time and that you did in fact enjoy it. At a restaurant a waitress doesn’t have to smile and laugh at your jokes, or ask how your day has been, nor do they have to ask if you’ve enjoyed your meal, keep checking on you to see if you need anything, or offer to do anything to make your experience better, they do that to make you happy and for a tip. Service providers are the same way. We don’t have to be nice when providing our services, but if we want repeat clients or to get more than the cost of the services (because in some spas girls don’t get to choose their prices, and have to pay room fees, cleaning fees, etc, meaning we have to pay out of our own pocket to give you a good time) so yes a tip is always appreciated and will almost guarantee that you always have great service. In North America, not tipping, regardless of what industry/service you’re paying for, just makes you cheap.

I agree that a tip will normally almost guarantee good service as you say, but I think that is only true if you are a repeat client. I recently tipped at a spa because I did receive superb service, but if I see other attendants because I like variety, I don't see how tipping one attendant guarantees good service with another attendant.

 

[Mandalorian]

i tip when I see a nice girl and receive good service. It keeps the relationship professional and if I plan to see them again it paves the way for a great repeat session. Non tippers are just cheap, plain and simple.

thanks for the Abby reco. I just saw her this week for the first time and it was awesome.

 

[eaststeve72]

i tip when I see a nice girl and receive good service. It keeps the relationship professional and if I plan to see them again it paves the way for a great repeat session. Non tippers are just cheap, plain and simple.

thanks for the Abby reco. I just saw her this week for the first time and it was awesome.

Is that Abby from kijiji.ca? I still can't seem to find her ad

 

[LexiLeyla]

I agree that a tip will normally almost guarantee good service as you say, but I think that is only true if you are a repeat client. I recently tipped at a spa because I did receive superb service, but if I see other attendants because I like variety, I don't see how tipping one attendant guarantees good service with another attendant.

girls talk, that’s how to simply put a response to that. It may not guarantee it necessarily because every girls sessions are different but it increases the odds of a good session with a new girl. If you tip your provider and she’s in a spa she will most likely tell other girls in that spa and 9/10 times those girls will be happy to see you walk through the door

 

[user4903]

Ok so your line about "a tip will guarantee great service" applies to providers other than yourself because you always provide great service you just like getting tips.

Tipping in NA isn't commonplace amongst 99% percent of industries, it's only a select handful where it's actually expected and normalized...that's why it doesn't make sense.

Currently minimum wage adjusted for inflation is the highest it's ever been in the past 60 years. This past year there was such a shortage of labour anyone willing to work full time could walk into a $20 an hour position. Wait staff positions were being paid over $18/Hour plus tips. The wage rates have never been more livable.

The normalization of tipping in your workplace exists only in your mind. If you cannot live off your income without tips I highly suggest you increase your rates, reduce your spending or seek alternative employment.

I’m rarely chiming in here, but has it not been stated that we are not buying groceries here. These ladies incur all the risk to brighten perfect strangers’ day. No, we’re not paying for their time, we’re paying for what they can add to our lives. It’s not the hour+ we’re w them, it’s the lifetime of experience they’re NOW profiting from that is worth more than the normal rate.

I’m highly selective w who I see and when all the boxes are checked (fun, brave, kind + exciting) I venture in and when I leave, I’m at full calm. Full peace. That’s not a dollars and cents thing for me; it’s the most intimate vulnerable thing someone can do for you and NO, not all time is equal. Not even repeats w the same girl are equal. I express gratitude w touch and gift and tips…bc there are actual angels among us doing shit for some really undeserving clients bc it’s their reputation if they don’t so yah. Tip the girl. Not tipping IS communication of your appreciation. Or maybe you’ve never had a true connection w someone? Either way. Each of us are here for something oddly specific that we cannot get elsewhere…if we could, would we be doing the pay-to-play thing? I’m a better lover/kinder man when my confidence is high after I’m visiting my favourite healers. I can’t quantify that. I don’t tip a lot, but I always bring lunch/gift cards bc that’s still a fraction of what I’d pay to take my SO out and my satisfaction is significantly greater.

This debate is more about what our perceived “ceiling” is for an experience than it is about wage-standards or inflation. What I want is SPECTACULAR and there are some incredible women that give me SPECTACULAR. Usually days/weeks afterwards. DMs. Some actually give me a gift when they think it’d make a difference in my day. It’s a relationship after all (for me anyways). It’s full trust-for-hire which is absolutely insane that we can do that. My therapist cannot even come close to what I feel and the perspective I get after time w a great woman.

Lexi I appreciate you’re weighing in here, especially against the grain it seems but IMO you don’t owe any of us that bc not everyone you’ll meet/interact w wants the best for you. Period. We’ve not met but to stay in this world, you and your friends/peers, again, incur all the risk.

I’ve been scammed before. It sucks. But at the end of the day, I was reckless w my money and had it not happened when it did, it would’ve happened again another time wsomeone else so this discussion here, IMO, is our only protection fr bad actors in the industry. Any such shady shit by one can change the opinions on many others but it doesn’t negate the fact that there are some women we get to see in this city that are directly from heaven. How can you or I reason an actual angel, in my eyes not yours, isn’t worthy of feeling that appreciation w 0.001% of a $100k income ($100). Is the benefit to me not greater than 8.76hrs of my life, which is (0.001x8760hrs in a year).

Don’t @ me bc I’m right and don’t care. Do what you like but don’t act like this discussion respects the value of these women. They’re not machines or consumables. They’re selling time and a basic service but beyond that they’re literally giving something we didn’t know we wanted or even needed. For me, that’s worthy of appreciation and if she appreciates a tip then that’s what it is for me.

 

[MikeO]

I’m rarely chiming in here, but has it not been stated that we are not buying groceries here. These ladies incur all the risk to brighten perfect strangers’ day. No, we’re not paying for their time, we’re paying for what they can add to our lives. It’s not the hour+ we’re w them, it’s the lifetime of experience they’re NOW profiting from that is worth more than the normal rate.

I’m highly selective w who I see and when all the boxes are checked (fun, brave, kind + exciting) I venture in and when I leave, I’m at full calm. Full peace. That’s not a dollars and cents thing for me; it’s the most intimate vulnerable thing someone can do for you and NO, not all time is equal. Not even repeats w the same girl are equal. I express gratitude w touch and gift and tips…bc there are actual angels among us doing shit for some really undeserving clients bc it’s their reputation if they don’t so yah. Tip the girl. Not tipping IS communication of your appreciation. Or maybe you’ve never had a true connection w someone? Either way. Each of us are here for something oddly specific that we cannot get elsewhere…if we could, would we be doing the pay-to-play thing? I’m a better lover/kinder man when my confidence is high after I’m visiting my favourite healers. I can’t quantify that. I don’t tip a lot, but I always bring lunch/gift cards bc that’s still a fraction of what I’d pay to take my SO out and my satisfaction is significantly greater.

This debate is more about what our perceived “ceiling” is for an experience than it is about wage-standards or inflation. What I want is SPECTACULAR and there are some incredible women that give me SPECTACULAR. Usually days/weeks afterwards. DMs. Some actually give me a gift when they think it’d make a difference in my day. It’s a relationship after all (for me anyways). It’s full trust-for-hire which is absolutely insane that we can do that. My therapist cannot even come close to what I feel and the perspective I get after time w a great woman.

Lexi I appreciate you’re weighing in here, especially against the grain it seems but IMO you don’t owe any of us that bc not everyone you’ll meet/interact w wants the best for you. Period. We’ve not met but to stay in this world, you and your friends/peers, again, incur all the risk.

I’ve been scammed before. It sucks. But at the end of the day, I was reckless w my money and had it not happened when it did, it would’ve happened again another time wsomeone else so this discussion here, IMO, is our only protection fr bad actors in the industry. Any such shady shit by one can change the opinions on many others but it doesn’t negate the fact that there are some women we get to see in this city that are directly from heaven. How can you or I reason an actual angel, in my eyes not yours, isn’t worthy of feeling that appreciation w 0.001% of a $100k income ($100). Is the benefit to me not greater than 8.76hrs of my life, which is (0.001x8760hrs in a year).

Don’t @ me bc I’m right and don’t care. Do what you like but don’t act like this discussion respects the value of these women. They’re not machines or consumables. They’re selling time and a basic service but beyond that they’re literally giving something we didn’t know we wanted or even needed. For me, that’s worthy of appreciation and if she appreciates a tip then that’s what it is for me.

EXCELLENT post and thanks. You are correct that, properly researched and selected, a number of these lovely and legitimate ladies can add wonderful memories to your life... believe me, this from a retiree.... you will appreciate these memories more as you age. Knowing who I'm seeing and how the experience is likely to unfold, never fail to tip or bring a gift or both.

 

[Lovestoplease]

My votes for this thread would be and not in any particular order,
Harmony @ alpha
Veronica @ alpha
Charlotte @ alpha
Peach @ hush
Nellie @ Hush
Anna @ Hush
Ella James @ Hush

LTP out

 

[canesc]

Grace @ CMJ
Duchess @ CMJ

 

[booby25]

Kelsey at CMJ

 

[canesc]

I have many great providers who would give me extra service or extra time without even mentioning any extra charges. I have ones who would even refuse tip and gave it back to me. The good ones care more about your personality and respect. The ones who want only more money, I would not go back.

 

[murty]

I was looking on this post and been looking for MA 's but im more in the fetish/dom side of thing (and i never have experienced this kind of service )anyone got a suggestion of any workers available for these kind of request
Thx
English is my second language sorry for the misspelling

 

[haplessinquiry]

I was looking on this post and been looking for MA 's but im more in the fetish/dom side of thing (and i never have experienced this kind of service )anyone got a suggestion of any workers available for these kind of request
Thx
English is my second language sorry for the misspelling

Try Jasmine/It's J, she provides a fetish type of massage service if requested. You can search for her thread somewhere here.