I have read the postings on this thread which only provide the male perspective. "Hobbyists" can choose who to see and who not to see without explanation or recrimination so why can't a provider do the same thing without being labelled a "racist"?
Frankly I am tired of the "racist" label. It is easily applied and hard to remove. If someone who expresses a dislike of another person who happens to be of another race it is easy for that person (or a third party for that matter) to say it is due to "racist attitudes". That doesn't make it so. At times being "politically correct" goes too far.
On forums such as this there can be no prejudgement based on race or ethnicity because it is unknown (unless the poster's handle or avatar indicates such). Posters are judged solely on the words they write, the thoughts they express and the way they interact with others in the forum.
I dislike assholes, child molestors, liars, thieves, woman abusers, etc, and do not associate with same regardless of their racial or ethnic origin. These types come in all races. Their commonality is that in my eyes they are scumbags.
One of my colleagues used to teach at an inner city school in a large American city. You should hear the "war stories" he tells. If you did not know him many of you would undoubtedly label him as a "racist" because over 80% of the students were Black. However some of the experiences he describes are not characteristic of racial attributes. They are more cultural (or lack thereof) found in the "inner city" environment. If you don't live or work there you have no idea of what it is like. However I can assure you that the lifestyle and culture predicated largely on drugs and violence would not be to your liking. It's a helluva place for a decent person to live.
It has nothing to do with race - it's class.
And if you are wondering, yes, my colleague is Black.
As far as I am concerned Lulu or any other individual can be as selective as they want in choosing with whom to be intimate without having to justify their actions to anyone. If that makes her a "racist' in your eyes then don't see her. At least she's up front about it. It's better than not having the door answered when you get there.
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