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drlove

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When starting a long term relationship, how long do you usually wait before doing the deed??
 
it just depends on the people and the chemistry.

I've had LTR's where it took quite a while..and very satisfying.

Other's where we never got through dinner! Again very satisfying.

I don't think there is a set in stone rule for this sort of thing.

M2
 
If you see each other on a regular basis, then less than a month for sure.
 
Bella6969 said:
Thanks Mark thats exactly the type of thing i was looking to say ;)
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You are more than welcome sweet Bella!

M2
 
I've always thought that it depends on how the two people involved define the relationship. However, I was hoping that the individual posters here would give some examples e.g (some of the relationships they've been in) and how long it took - a few weeks?? three months?? etc..
 
Since sexual intimicy tends to draw people closer faster it's sometimes better to wait a bit so that you know that your amorous feelings for your new mate is 100% justified and not just clouded by the joy of sex. On the other hand getting to know someone over a period of time and then having sex with them and then discovering that they are terrible in the sack kinda makes breaking up with them a little more difficult too. Assuming that is that sexual chemistry is that important to you.

But what do I know, I eat cake :p
 
I have been in quite a few LTRs and they have varied from going on the first date and her spending the night and actually staying for 3 months with non-stop sex from day one to my current situation where we have been on 4 dates and very little has happened.

The 3 month one was short but very intense and passionate but some have taken 2 months until the deed happens and went very slowly but were as equally satisfying as the latter and lasted longer.
 
If it is a new relationship and a guy hits on me within the first 3 dates he will find himself out my door faster than a train can derail off a broken track. After all imho a man has to prove his sincere interest in me before showing interest in what he can get.

Or maaaaaaaaybeee now I will just tell a guy that I meet if he offers me a massage etc... that sure if you pay me. :p
 
In my experience a relationship with a woman that does not at least start out fairly passionate is simply not going to last. Stop being such a nice guy. She doesn't appreciate it anyway, even if she seems to. Make a move.

Here is how women think:

They use sex to form bonds in relationships. If they feel like the relationship is threatened they will use sex to try and cement it. In the beginning of a relationship when it's pretty unclear they will use sex a lot to try and establish it, if it's what they want. If the woman is not putting out that means one of two things: (a) she doesn't care whether or not she forms a bond with you, or (b) you've made her feel too secure, so she figures she doesn't have to.

I guess it's possible there's some ultra conservative women out there that just don't put out at all, but I don't really believe they exist. They just pretend to be conservative. They'll put out if you give them the right excuse, becuase that's what women do.

This is also why they stop putting out once they get married--they feel too secure about the relationship, so they don't feel any more need to form the bond by having sex. Let them experience a few weeks of free fall and then bust a move on them and you'll get the best sex of your life, assuming they're interested in keeping you around.
 
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