Low Female Libido

[Jade4u]

It depends on what men you are with imho my ex husband for example I would not want to go near him at all and never felt horny while with him he totally turned me off sex and more onto anger and avoidance and tricks of how to avoid etc... Now if you are not angry at someone and have good sex or had good sex you will seek out sex and want sex. If in a good mood and you have no sex you will miss sex.

It has been 3 days since I have had sex and it was ok sex. Now I want excellent sex.


sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex.


oops thought of my ex. shit bye bye sex drive.

 

[Meister]

It depends on what men you are with imho my ex husband for example I would not want to go near him at all and never felt horny while with him he totally turned me off sex and more onto anger and avoidance and tricks of how to avoid etc... Now if you are not angry at someone and have good sex or had good sex you will seek out sex and want sex. If in a good mood and you have no sex you will miss sex.

I think you just summed up the whole fucked up issue in our society. Guys can have sex with their wives or girlfriends regardless of mood or happiness or relationship harmony. Girls make sex dependent on emotions, harmony, power struggles, entitlements etc...

What women don't get is that guys will do everything to keep their SO more than happy in exchange for great sex. But, women choose to withold sex to force an issue and end up creating resentment. And then everything goes downhill.

 

[bob_sapp]

women withholding sex is the cause of 90% of the world's problems.

 

[Meister]

women withholding sex is the cause of 90% of the world's problems.

Ok, now that W is outta office that percentage has changed to 93% unless Laura had something to do with it.

 

[tboy]

Yeah, I can see those percentages being accurate......heck, Every guy I know, who has been in a long term relationship or marriage, complains constantly that their wife or gf doesn't want to have sex as often as they used to.

See, women use sex to get a guy, men get a woman for sex. The wedding cake comment isn't far off either, once the words "I Do" are spoken by a man? The words "I don't" go through a woman's head......

 

[shepP]

Sheesh... someone invent a pill already to solve this problem.. I know I'd pay through the.....

 

[tboy]

I think you just summed up the whole fucked up issue in our society. Guys can have sex with their wives or girlfriends regardless of mood or happiness or relationship harmony. Girls make sex dependent on emotions, harmony, power struggles, entitlements etc...

What women don't get is that guys will do everything to keep their SO more than happy in exchange for great sex. But, women choose to withold sex to force an issue and end up creating resentment. And then everything goes downhill.

You nailed it there Meister......

You hear all the time from men saying they hate having to beg for it and then women wonder why men cheat?

 

[Rockslinger]

Why am I not surprised. According to Vinay Menon in his December 16, 2008 Toronto Star column, 99% of all females would rather eat sand than be stuffed with an 8" woody.