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As men do you think we are perfectly capable of loving 1 woman (SO) and lusting over hundreds?

I am a relatively younger single guy who seldom indulges in the hobby but I want to keep that option open as I age even if I am in a relationship. Also indulging in this hobby without the consent of SO is cheating in my books.

I will tell her about my hobby past and my intention to keep hobbying if my libido is higher than hers or just for the variety as soon as I sense the relationship is going somewhere. And no I will make it clear she can't sleep with other men (hypocrite 101)

Also what percentage of young civvie ladies do you think will allow their men to hobby and how many will indulge with their man? (dream scenario)
 
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canad2233 said:
As men do you think we are perfectly capable of loving 1 woman (SO) and lusting over hundreds?
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Yes and No IMO. I would say yes men are capbable of loving and being faithful to one woman if she keeps sex exciting and frequent enough that you don't stray. The problem is too few of them do making men suffer in misery or look for action on the side.

canad2233 said:
I will tell her about my hobby past and my intention to keep hobbying if my libido is higher than hers or just for the variety as soon as I sense the relationship is going somewhere. And no I will make it clear she can't sleep with other men (hypocrite 101)
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lol good luck with that. Just keep your mouth shut about hobbying or give up the notion that she cannot fuck around.

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Also what percentage of young civvie ladies do you think will allow their men to hobby and how many will indulge with their man? (dream scenario)
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low single digits especially if you tell them upfront. A woman who has been married and discovers her husband cant be faithful might put up with it because he is a good father or provider or because she prefers to stay in a marriage rather than start over (especially if older) but you are not going to find many women who say sure you can fuck other women while i remain faithful.
Your better approach would be to seek women open to inviting another woman into your sex life if she has any bi fantasies but odds are she wont be cool with you playing without her with others.
 
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Male4Strapon said:
Yes and No IMO. I would say yes men are capbable of loving and being faithful to one woman if she keeps sex exciting and frequent enough that you don't stray. The problem is too few of them do making men suffer in misery or look for action on the side.



lol good luck with that. Just keep your mouth shut about hobbying or give up the notion that she cannot fuck around.



low single digits especially if you tell them upfront. A woman who has been married and discovers her husband cant be faithful might put up with it because he is a good father or provider or because she prefers to stay in a marriage rather than start over (especially if older) but you are not going to find many women who say sure you can fuck other women while i remain faithful.
Your better approach would be to seek women open to inviting another woman into your sex life if she has any bi fantasies but odds are she wont be cool with you playing without her with others.
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Male4Strapon said:
Yes and No IMO. I would say yes men are capbable of loving and being faithful to one woman if she keeps sex exciting and frequent enough that you don't stray. The problem is too few of them do making men suffer in misery or look for action on the side.



lol good luck with that. Just keep your mouth shut about hobbying or give up the notion that she cannot fuck around.



low single digits especially if you tell them upfront. A woman who has been married and discovers her husband cant be faithful might put up with it because he is a good father or provider or because she prefers to stay in a marriage rather than start over (especially if older) but you are not going to find many women who say sure you can fuck other women while i remain faithful.
Your better approach would be to seek women open to inviting another woman into your sex life if she has any bi fantasies but odds are she wont be cool with you playing without her with others.
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Greatly appreciate the advice. I am iffy about marriage and kids. Also I have never been in a relationship so that is definitely clouding my judgment here. A part of me still believes dreams come true lol.

Yeah I have thought about a bi woman and I think I would be ok with seeing ladies only with her if that is frequent enough for me and she enjoys it too.
 
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canad2233 said:
As men do you think we are perfectly capable of loving 1 woman (SO) and lusting over hundreds?

I am a relatively younger single guy who seldom indulges in the hobby but I want to keep that option open as I age even if I am in a relationship. Also indulging in this hobby without the consent of SO is cheating in my books.

I will tell her about my hobby past and my intention to keep hobbying if my libido is higher than hers or just for the variety as soon as I sense the relationship is going somewhere. And no I will make it clear she can't sleep with other men (hypocrite 101)

Also what percentage of young civvie ladies do you think will allow their men to hobby and how many will indulge with their man? (dream scenario)
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You’ve better luck finding a unicorn.
 
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Male4Strapon said:
Yes and No IMO. I would say yes men are capbable of loving and being faithful to one woman if she keeps sex exciting and frequent enough that you don't stray. The problem is too few of them do making men suffer in misery or look for action on the side.



lol good luck with that. Just keep your mouth shut about hobbying or give up the notion that she cannot fuck around.



low single digits especially if you tell them upfront. A woman who has been married and discovers her husband cant be faithful might put up with it because he is a good father or provider or because she prefers to stay in a marriage rather than start over (especially if older) but you are not going to find many women who say sure you can fuck other women while i remain faithful.
Your better approach would be to seek women open to inviting another woman into your sex life if she has any bi fantasies but odds are she wont be cool with you playing without her with others.
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Agree 100% mate. Keep this lifestyle to yourself till the day you die and leave it at that. Enjoy the lifestyle right to the end.
 
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