I would have a hard time spending time with a woman I did not find attractive, whether it be in my personal life or a provider.
Fortunately, I have only had one or two instances over the years where I have seen a woman for the first time who was highly recommended or with whom I had gone on a blind date and was like "Ummmm, no".
With the abundance of fantastic women available in Toronto and in this pastime, I have never felt I had to choose one or the other.