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Hey folks,

I have been a long time lurker but am now in a serious relationship. This may not be the best place to ask but does anyone know of a way to stop this hobby? I just seriously feel that the time has come to put an end to this hobby for me. Worried about disease, etc. and more importantly I want this relationship to work. I don't want to make a mistake and lose what I have. Any advice would be great!
 
Give all your credit cards and extra cash to your S.O. :p
 
jessiejames said:
Hey folks,

I have been a long time lurker but am now in a serious relationship. I don`t want to make a mistake and lose what I have. Any advice would be great!
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I am sure you know the answer. Only you can execute that decision.
So for starters if you want your IP & https://terb.cc account banned let me know, but so long as you hang around here and browse the escort ads it will not be easy for you to quit.
 
Number one: Stop checking TERB! the more time you spend on here the more your gonna think about booking.

number two: Find some sort of hobby that when you want to book an SP you go do that instead (doesn't matter what it is.) If you keep yourself occupied with spending time with your GF, spend a little extra time on work, get involved in a sport/game/group/charity. That way you've got something else to do to distract you.

Eventually it'll either work out so well with your GF that you wont be able to justify the risk, or you'll just not think about it because of the other stuff your doing, or it'll have not worked out at which point we'll be here (those not attempting the same thing anyway) to welcome you back.

Good luck :)
 
Sup bro.

Don't quit. Just go to MP's. Bring your ladyfriend with ya. Therefore you can spend quality time with her and still have all of the benefits.

It's really too easy!
 
I know this hobby can be extremely addictive, and inherently risky. And like any addiction it can be very hard to quit. But Joy is no doubt right ... the only way out is to go cold turkey. You have to find the will to just end it ... period. Counselling might help, but I'm afraid there is no other way. And if you truly love your new SO, then I suggest you do it. Or the guilt may eat you up.
 
Two suggestions:

1) Get a joint bank account and credit cards and deposit all of your funds into it. She'll eventually start questioning why you use so much money. It may not be ideal if you've just started being together and don't know whether it's going anywhere.

2) Get help from a therapist. Many of us are addicted, or exhibit addictive behaviour. A therapist can help in this respect.

Good luck!
 
Fred Zed,

That would be great. Can you ban my account and IP. Its been a fun ride. This is a great board. I wish the best for everyone.
 
Accept the fact that, as a male, you are by nature, polyamorous. Men do not do well in single-mate relationships.

Stop deluding yourself that you are "in love" forever and that you'll never cheat again.

In stead, face the fact that you are a horny, happy, guy and like to fuck a variety of women. There's nothing wrong with it!

Do not tie yourself down to one mate unless she knows everything about you and accepts you as you are... anything else is a lie and will eventually lead to the breakup of the relationship.

How do I know all this about you? Because you are a male.
 
Joy said:
What advice is there to give? If you want "out" ... stop making the calls... stop booking appointments...
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LOL you took the words right outta my mouth......

And yeah, give all your spare cash to your S.O. now, she's gonna get it all anyways lol.....
 
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