I no longer live in Durham, but I visit often, so most of my hobbying happens while traveling.
It’s important to note that I’m generally a very gentle person. In most sessions I’m passive and let the lady take the lead. I’m 50 years old, maybe 20 lbs overweight, and I maintain impeccable hygiene. Most providers seem genuinely happy to see me.
I was back in my hometown when the insatiable urge hit. My family was out of town, so I thought, why the hell not?
It’s a small city with a decent number of providers, but I struggled to arrange anything. I finally reached out to a well-known young woman (27/28, BBW) and asked about rates and services. We hadn’t even settled on a time when a friend of mine called with a small household emergency. I texted the SP that I could no longer make it. She immediately blew up my phone, demanding a full cancellation fee of $260 for the hour. I refused—I’d been very clear that we hadn’t confirmed anything.
She kept texting, first demanding the full amount via EFT, then dropping it to half. I apologized again but held firm. Then she started telling me how hard her life was, how she was just a lonely girl trying to make it and that she wanted the money. I began to feel bad for her.
After thinking it over, with the wheels turning in my head; thinking of a session I always wanted so I texted back. I had $400 in my wallet—nearly double her rate. I texted that could have it all, but I wanted the filthiest session possible. She was to not say no to anything unless she felt unsafe or it caused real pain. I wanted to use her as my fuck toy with unlimited SOG for the full hour. She agreed. I double-checked that she was sure, and she confirmed yes.
I arrived at her place and immediately sensed this might be a problem. She was very timid and shy. I was kind, chatted with her for a bit, gave her a kiss, and asked if she was ready. She said yes. I told her “Bubblegum” was the safe word to stop everything if needed.
I had her strip. She seemed slightly uncomfortable—probably used to keeping her corset on. When I went for DFK she kept pulling away. I reminded her she told me she would do what I asked. I kissed her more forcefully, pushing my tongue into her mouth. She still pulled back a little.
I told her to kneel and suck my cock. She said “Yes, Daddy,” as I’d instructed. Her blowjob was timid—just the tip. I wanted face-fucking, sloppy deep-throat, gagging. What I really craved was to fuck her face, cum in her mouth, snowball it, and have spit it back on her. As she sucked the tip I told her “no hands” and pushed hers away. I’d get a few strokes in before she pulled back and grabbed my hands again. After reminding her of our deal, I managed a couple more decent thrusts. She pulled away once more, so I slapped her face with my cock and told her she wasn’t being a good slut. She looked up with a look of reluctance. I immediately asked if she was okay and wanted to continue. She said yes.
I led her to the bed and went down on her (DATY). She got extremely wet. I worked in one finger, then two, then three, eating her out while finger-fucking her hard. Her pussy took it all. At one point she pushed down so hard on my hand and I had nearly my whole hand inside, pumping. (I never quite got past the knuckles for a full fist.) This went on for about 20 minutes. I alternated by reaching up to twist her nipples. She finally came hard, squirting all over both of us.
I told her it was time to suck me again. I stood over her. She started the same timid tip-sucking. When I pushed deeper she pulled away. I grabbed her hair and pumped my cock into her mouth for one solid thrust. She looked very uncomfortable, so I checked in again. She said she was okay. I gripped the back of her head and started pumping. She pulled away as I got several good deep strokes.
I decided to take a break from that and told her to make me cum with a handjob. She did, and I came all over us.
After a quick cleanup, I told her we were going to continue the face-fucking training (it had me rock hard). We were only at the 30-minute mark, and I had clearly reminded her via text that this was a multiple-nut session. She looked upset, so I ended it early. I got dressed, gave her a peck on the cheek, and left. She seemed relieved to see me go.
I feel bad that I made her uncomfortable - I don't think I was super rough or aggressive and I really did try to make clear this was a domination / submissive session and that was why I was paying a premium and she agreed.
MY QUESTIONS TO THE BOARD ARE:
It’s important to note that I’m generally a very gentle person. In most sessions I’m passive and let the lady take the lead. I’m 50 years old, maybe 20 lbs overweight, and I maintain impeccable hygiene. Most providers seem genuinely happy to see me.
I was back in my hometown when the insatiable urge hit. My family was out of town, so I thought, why the hell not?
It’s a small city with a decent number of providers, but I struggled to arrange anything. I finally reached out to a well-known young woman (27/28, BBW) and asked about rates and services. We hadn’t even settled on a time when a friend of mine called with a small household emergency. I texted the SP that I could no longer make it. She immediately blew up my phone, demanding a full cancellation fee of $260 for the hour. I refused—I’d been very clear that we hadn’t confirmed anything.
She kept texting, first demanding the full amount via EFT, then dropping it to half. I apologized again but held firm. Then she started telling me how hard her life was, how she was just a lonely girl trying to make it and that she wanted the money. I began to feel bad for her.
After thinking it over, with the wheels turning in my head; thinking of a session I always wanted so I texted back. I had $400 in my wallet—nearly double her rate. I texted that could have it all, but I wanted the filthiest session possible. She was to not say no to anything unless she felt unsafe or it caused real pain. I wanted to use her as my fuck toy with unlimited SOG for the full hour. She agreed. I double-checked that she was sure, and she confirmed yes.
I arrived at her place and immediately sensed this might be a problem. She was very timid and shy. I was kind, chatted with her for a bit, gave her a kiss, and asked if she was ready. She said yes. I told her “Bubblegum” was the safe word to stop everything if needed.
I had her strip. She seemed slightly uncomfortable—probably used to keeping her corset on. When I went for DFK she kept pulling away. I reminded her she told me she would do what I asked. I kissed her more forcefully, pushing my tongue into her mouth. She still pulled back a little.
I told her to kneel and suck my cock. She said “Yes, Daddy,” as I’d instructed. Her blowjob was timid—just the tip. I wanted face-fucking, sloppy deep-throat, gagging. What I really craved was to fuck her face, cum in her mouth, snowball it, and have spit it back on her. As she sucked the tip I told her “no hands” and pushed hers away. I’d get a few strokes in before she pulled back and grabbed my hands again. After reminding her of our deal, I managed a couple more decent thrusts. She pulled away once more, so I slapped her face with my cock and told her she wasn’t being a good slut. She looked up with a look of reluctance. I immediately asked if she was okay and wanted to continue. She said yes.
I led her to the bed and went down on her (DATY). She got extremely wet. I worked in one finger, then two, then three, eating her out while finger-fucking her hard. Her pussy took it all. At one point she pushed down so hard on my hand and I had nearly my whole hand inside, pumping. (I never quite got past the knuckles for a full fist.) This went on for about 20 minutes. I alternated by reaching up to twist her nipples. She finally came hard, squirting all over both of us.
I told her it was time to suck me again. I stood over her. She started the same timid tip-sucking. When I pushed deeper she pulled away. I grabbed her hair and pumped my cock into her mouth for one solid thrust. She looked very uncomfortable, so I checked in again. She said she was okay. I gripped the back of her head and started pumping. She pulled away as I got several good deep strokes.
I decided to take a break from that and told her to make me cum with a handjob. She did, and I came all over us.
After a quick cleanup, I told her we were going to continue the face-fucking training (it had me rock hard). We were only at the 30-minute mark, and I had clearly reminded her via text that this was a multiple-nut session. She looked upset, so I ended it early. I got dressed, gave her a peck on the cheek, and left. She seemed relieved to see me go.
I feel bad that I made her uncomfortable - I don't think I was super rough or aggressive and I really did try to make clear this was a domination / submissive session and that was why I was paying a premium and she agreed.
MY QUESTIONS TO THE BOARD ARE:
- Did I cross any lines? I made multiple tests to make clear what I wanted, and gave a "safe word" and also "checked in" multiple times. I also ended when it was clear she did not want to continue.
- I honestly thought this was all "par for the course" with most SPs - nothing I was doing was super intense.
- Who in Durham could fulfill this fantasy session properly - super submissive SP who can do a good face fuck/gagging etc..
just tell me what you want…….”
