I'm hoping to find someone I can enjoy time with semi-regularly.
I'm getting exhausted of doing research on girls, seeing who has good reviews, only to get ghosted / no reply. I'm friendly and respectful, giving as much info as I can think relevant, and I rarely get anything in return.
At this point, I care less about looks than I do communication.
Who is 100% reliable, replies like a person, not a robot.
Preferably west end but honestly I'd drive to Texas to avoid "yes" as a reply when I'm looking for more details.
Thanks
Im just responding out of curiosity/helpful interest (please don’t take this condescendingly).
When you’re contact providers, are you using their preferred method of contact?
personally, if I get a text I redirect all new clients to my booking form on my website. This weeds out time wasters and speeds up the booking process.
Often times when I get a message that isn’t through my booking form it can be much more time consuming. It can feel like pulling teeth to get some clients to just provide simple information such as time/date/length of booking incall/outcall etc.
(let alone screening information).
If a client doesn’t provide the specifics, asks a dozen questions that can already be answered on my website or has to send 10 messages before nailing down a time or day, it doesn’t set the best first impression.
I’m not saying you’re doing any of the above, but if you are reaching out to a provider to book a date my best advice is to be very concise in your initial contact.
First messages should always include:
- preferred date, time and length of booking
- incall or outcall
- any special requests (ie: PSE/GFE/Kinks/fetishes)
- politely ask “do you provide xyz”
- your required screening info
Never:
- hey, hi, you available?
- explicit sexual details
- ask for a “menu”
- a dick pic or explicit pictures of yourself or porn stars your hoping to emulate
- a short novel of your life or of your desired sexual experience
- ask “will you do X for Y amount”
- haggle
Before contacting a specific provider I’d suggest making sure you’ve read their ad/website thoroughly so you know how they prefer to be contacted and what details you may need to include in order to get a response. If for whatever reason you don’t get a response… I’d suggest just moving on. If you can be, try to be patient, especially when corresponding by email. I know many ladies, myself included have busy lives outside SW and can’t respond to inquiries at the drop of a hat. Some providers also schedule days specifically for responding to emails and doing admin work. So if there’s a lady you are dying to meet, patience is a very important quality to have!
Lastly, I think it’s important to remember that when setting up a date with a new provider; sometimes less is more. Save the meaningful conversation for when you’re together and getting to know one another. While I believe good communication is the foundation of a fantastic, mind blowing, toe curling experience…saving some of that conversation for in person can be a crucial ice breaker to a much smoother experience.
I hope this was helpful and you can connect with a fantastic provider soon!