Looking for input: Do rub 'n tugs = cheating?

[coolcat]

If you have to ask I think you pretty much know the answer already. If she knows and has no problem with it then you are not cheating. But if you are going behind her back and hoping she never finds out, yup you are a cheating!!!!!

 

[cableguy51]

Yeah, i think its cheating. Its amazing what a guy can get himself to believe to justify the behavior. I used to feel that if you had sex but used a condom it wasn't technically cheating since there was no "skin to skin" contact. LOL. Anyway, i don't tell my SO since i'd be missing an appendage.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

Is stealing against the law if you don't get caught? Is your SO fucking the gardener cheating if she douches out his cum?

I nominate this thread for stupid post of the year ..........

 

[Sammy the Bull]

Bill Clinton says no!

 

[wop]

I was wondering what folks think on here about the subject. If you have a SO (significant other, wife, long time GF, what have you), do you consider it cheating to go and get a massage with a happy ending? Would they?

How the fuck is it not cheating??? Look if you want to do it, then do it, but stop trying to fool yourself. Only fools fool themselves.

 

[Cycleguy007]

How the fuck is it not cheating??? Look if you want to do it, then do it, but stop trying to fool yourself. Only fools fool themselves.

Exactly! Why is it that every couple months or so... some one starts one of these threads (on an escort review site no less...) to try and justify what they do in their own minds...

I think gen said it best: If you wanna know if one act or another is cheating ASK YOUR Significant Other! She (ummm... or he for those that practice that lifestyle), will give you the only opinion that matters!

 

[Hangman]

So by your rule, I made a $20 bet with a friend on the Leafs (stupid I know) and I lost. My SO may be inclined to be upset that I bet therefore I didn't tell her, but in no way do I consider this cheating.

This may be considered a breach of trust.

Read closely. I said sexually or intimately. Not betting.