I was wondering what folks think on here about the subject. If you have a SO (significant other, wife, long time GF, what have you), do you consider it cheating to go and get a massage with a happy ending? Would they?
Looking for input: Do rub 'n tugs = cheating?
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Might as well see an SP the end result if they found out would be the same.
I don't think you would be thrilled if someone was doin digits on your gal.
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Yes I would consider it cheating.
I can't imagine any S/O that would be ok with it unless she was in some form of adult entertainment herself.
What about that Girls?
Those of u who r SP's or MP's if u have an S/O and u found out he went out for a happy ending how would u feel about that?
Yes I would consider it cheating.
I can't imagine any S/O that would be ok with it unless she was in some form of adult entertainment herself.
What about that Girls?
Those of u who r SP's or MP's if u have an S/O and u found out he went out for a happy ending how would u feel about that?
Are you in a relationship with the boys (and gals) on this board? Why ask our opinion, rather than the person you are committed to???
It's cheating if the person you have a relationship with considers it cheating. Simple.
It's cheating if the person you have a relationship with considers it cheating. Simple.
There is no objective list of activities that constitute 'cheating'. That is a fairly immature concept to believe.
The simple rule is whether or not somethimg is cheating is would you would tell your SO about it, or hide it and lie?
The real issue is trust and communication, not who touched what naughty bits. If you go to an MP but won't tell your SO, you're cheating, no matter how you want to justify it or pretend you're not.
If you're not behaving the way she expects you to (sexually or intimately), I say its cheating. Which is fine, but be honest with yourself.
The simple rule is whether or not somethimg is cheating is would you would tell your SO about it, or hide it and lie?
The real issue is trust and communication, not who touched what naughty bits. If you go to an MP but won't tell your SO, you're cheating, no matter how you want to justify it or pretend you're not.
If you're not behaving the way she expects you to (sexually or intimately), I say its cheating. Which is fine, but be honest with yourself.
So by your rule, I made a $20 bet with a friend on the Leafs (stupid I know) and I lost. My SO may be inclined to be upset that I bet therefore I didn't tell her, but in no way do I consider this cheating.
This may be considered a breach of trust.
I'm in the same predicament.
I visit MP's and SPs, not frequently, but once in a while.
Is it cheating though, when you scream our you're SO's name while cumming (on another girl of course).
I visit MP's and SPs, not frequently, but once in a while.
Is it cheating though, when you scream our you're SO's name while cumming (on another girl of course).
So by your rule, I made a $20 bet with a friend on the Leafs (stupid I know) and I lost. My SO may be inclined to be upset that I bet therefore I didn't tell her, but in no way do I consider this cheating.
This may be considered a breach of trust.
Bit of a category mistake. Depending on what promises you've made to each other about your financial commitments together you could have "cheated" on her financially, but no one would call you an adulterer over it.
Cheating is all about what promises have you committed too. If you're supposed to be monogamous a rub and tug is cheating, if your only not supposed to be dating other people there's room there to say no, and if your in an open relationship it's not.
Of course it's cheating. The reason why you are thinking of doing it is because you are unhappy with your SO. If you are unsure, then don't do it. If you are sure that it is what you want, then go for it and be guilt free.
I told my wife that I was going to start visiting prostitutes and she was aware that I was going when I left to meet my appointments, but it is still cheating.
I told my wife that I was going to start visiting prostitutes and she was aware that I was going when I left to meet my appointments, but it is still cheating.
with out a doubt
Look at it this way if your woman was getting fingered from some dude after a rub I am sure you would get mad at her doing that behind your back
Look at it this way if your woman was getting fingered from some dude after a rub I am sure you would get mad at her doing that behind your back
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