Looking for help with resources.

[WiggleRoom]

With all the scams and difficulties finding legitimate SPs, everyone here knows that 70% of LL adds are scams and fakes. I am hoping someone may add something constructive to us newer members in regards to a better alternative. I personally am having trouble finding another site that provides advertising for SPs other than the scam saturated LL. Any suggestions for better alternatives would be helpful for all us newer inexperienced hopefuls.
Thanks

 

[yours2discover]

With all the scams and difficulties finding legitimate SPs, everyone here knows that 70% of LL adds are scams and fakes. I am hoping someone may add something constructive to us newer members in regards to a better alternative. I personally am having trouble finding another site that provides advertising for SPs other than the scam saturated LL. Any suggestions for better alternatives would be helpful for all us newer inexperienced hopefuls.
Thanks

I would check here and the other blue forum before securing any SP. Look for reviews before you indulge. More importantly, once you have seen a SP or MP, please provide your feedback, even if she is stellar and you don't want to share the wealth! There is also another site than LL, EB (But I could babble on for hours)... that site has usually less quality SPs and far fewer ads
Some tips:

1. Avoid New User status
   
   
2. Avoid Latina and French Canadian, there are exceptions to this rule but there would be reviews
3. LL "Verified" are mostly not really Verified
4. Asian Pics are virtually all B&S, but you can still get a quality start but not from the one who's pic enticed you in the 1st place. Do you honestly think you are getting these 2 if you were to ask for a duo?
   
5. Look for number of times viewed in LL. Usually a sign they have been around for a while, it doesn't mean they are any good though
   
   
6. I personally avoid the younger ones, anyone between 20-27, there are exceptions (i.e. Candiice). They usually suck, no pun intended. Again check for reviews. I get that if you are young you want young. I find the quality of an SP is like a fine Scotch, it gets better with age
7. A new fad seems to be those that post in varying cities all at the same time. If you see one you like, go check in another region using the same name. If they show up there you know they are just for online services only:
   

 

[DiscreetRocker]

Reinforcing some of what y2d mentioned above, either:

1) For independent women advertising on boards like Leolist, always always always verify that they're well-reviewed before going to meet them. Search here on TERB, and if you find positive reviews, make sure the person making those claims has been around for a while and has well liked posts. Someone who's only posted 4 times and always about the same person could be a "shill" account, meaning it's the escort herself promoting herself under a fake name.

or

2) Contact an agency and ask them for help deciding who to see. Tell them you're new, the type of experience you're looking for (NOT mentioning particular sexual activities... for example, it's okay to say "Looking for a busty redhead who takes charge" but not "I want someone who lets me go down on her" - it's a legal thing), and your budget. Read through their website beforehand, reviewing their policies, their roster, etc. And search TERB for reviews on a few names as well. Agencies can be wonderful resources. Their business model is making sure you're happy and that their roster is amazing.

With respect to sending deposits:
You'll read a lot of people on TERB saying you should never send a deposit to a Leolist advertiser. And I think that's an ignorant claim. Some of the most well reviewed women advertise on Leolist and demand deposits. But many scammers also demand deposits in order to scam you. So as with anything, verify who they are and that they're trustworthy before sending any money to anyone. (You'd prepay in full for an iPhone off a well reviewed seller on eBay but you wouldn't etransfer to some stranger off Craigslist.) If she's got no reviews, don't send a deposit. If she's well known and well reviewed and others mention sending a deposit with no issue, feel comfortable sending a deposit. And if you don't feel comfortable sending a deposit regardless, then don't complain, just move on to another provider.

Screening questions:
Some escorts require we go through a screening process. This might mean sending a deposit, or sending a photo of your ID, or sending them your LinkedIn profile, etc. Understandably, some clients are uncomfortable with this. That's okay. Don't complain, just move on. We're concerned about our privacy. But escorts are concerned about their safety. I fully support any escort demanding any number of screening questions or requirements, asking us to jump through any number of hoops. Their safety is paramount. But if you're not comfortable, just move on to another provider. It's that easy.

Best of luck

With all the scams and difficulties finding legitimate SPs, everyone here knows that 70% of LL adds are scams and fakes. I am hoping someone may add something constructive to us newer members in regards to a better alternative. I personally am having trouble finding another site that provides advertising for SPs other than the scam saturated LL. Any suggestions for better alternatives would be helpful for all us newer inexperienced hopefuls.
Thanks

 

[yours2discover]

Reinforcing some of what y2d mentioned above, either:

1) For independent women advertising on boards like Leolist, always always always verify that they're well-reviewed before going to meet them. Search here on TERB, and if you find positive reviews, make sure the person making those claims has been around for a while and has well liked posts. Someone who's only posted 4 times and always about the same person could be a "shill" account, meaning it's the escort herself promoting herself under a fake name.

or

2) Contact an agency and ask them for help deciding who to see. Tell them you're new, the type of experience you're looking for (NOT mentioning particular sexual activities... for example, it's okay to say "Looking for a busty redhead who takes charge" but not "I want someone who lets me go down on her" - it's a legal thing), and your budget. Read through their website beforehand, reviewing their policies, their roster, etc. And search TERB for reviews on a few names as well. Agencies can be wonderful resources. Their business model is making sure you're happy and that their roster is amazing.

With respect to sending deposits:
You'll read a lot of people on TERB saying you should never send a deposit to a Leolist advertiser. And I think that's an ignorant claim. Some of the most well reviewed women advertise on Leolist and demand deposits. But many scammers also demand deposits in order to scam you. So as with anything, verify who they are and that they're trustworthy before sending any money to anyone. (You'd prepay in full for an iPhone off a well reviewed seller on eBay but you wouldn't etransfer to some stranger off Craigslist.) If she's got no reviews, don't send a deposit. If she's well known and well reviewed and others mention sending a deposit with no issue, feel comfortable sending a deposit. And if you don't feel comfortable sending a deposit regardless, then don't complain, just move on to another provider.

Screening questions:
Some escorts require we go through a screening process. This might mean sending a deposit, or sending a photo of your ID, or sending them your LinkedIn profile, etc. Understandably, some clients are uncomfortable with this. That's okay. Don't complain, just move on. We're concerned about our privacy. But escorts are concerned about their safety. I fully support any escort demanding any number of screening questions or requirements, asking us to jump through any number of hoops. Their safety is paramount. But if you're not comfortable, just move on to another provider. It's that easy.

Best of luck

Very well written! Sometimes as part of their screening process, an SP will ask for another reputable provider to vouch for you. In other words instead of providing your ID, the SP will say give me the contact info of another provider that will know you and vouch for you. I have never done that . Echoing DR's comments, just pay the deposit assuming there have been plenty of good reviews regarding the provider.

 

[WiggleRoom]

I would check here and the other blue forum before securing any SP. Look for reviews before you indulge. More importantly, once you have seen a SP or MP, please provide your feedback, even if she is stellar and you don't want to share the wealth! There is also another site than LL, EB (But I could babble on for hours)... that site has usually less quality SPs and far fewer ads
Some tips:

1. Avoid New User status
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2. Avoid Latina and French Canadian, there are exceptions to this rule but there would be reviews
3. LL "Verified" are mostly not really Verified
4. Asian Pics are virtually all B&S, but you can still get a quality start but not from the one who's pic enticed you in the 1st place. Do you honestly think you are getting these 2 if you were to ask for a duo?
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5. Look for number of times viewed in LL. Usually a sign they have been around for a while, it doesn't mean they are any good though
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6. I personally avoid the younger ones, anyone between 20-27, there are exceptions (i.e. Candiice). They usually suck, no pun intended. Again check for reviews. I get that if you are young you want young. I find the quality of an SP is like a fine Scotch, it gets better with age
7. A new fad seems to be those that post in varying cities all at the same time. If you see one you like, go check in another region using the same name. If they show up there you know they are just for online services only:
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Thank you this was super helpful. Thank you so much for the help.

 

[WiggleRoom]

Reinforcing some of what y2d mentioned above, either:

1) For independent women advertising on boards like Leolist, always always always verify that they're well-reviewed before going to meet them. Search here on TERB, and if you find positive reviews, make sure the person making those claims has been around for a while and has well liked posts. Someone who's only posted 4 times and always about the same person could be a "shill" account, meaning it's the escort herself promoting herself under a fake name.

or

2) Contact an agency and ask them for help deciding who to see. Tell them you're new, the type of experience you're looking for (NOT mentioning particular sexual activities... for example, it's okay to say "Looking for a busty redhead who takes charge" but not "I want someone who lets me go down on her" - it's a legal thing), and your budget. Read through their website beforehand, reviewing their policies, their roster, etc. And search TERB for reviews on a few names as well. Agencies can be wonderful resources. Their business model is making sure you're happy and that their roster is amazing.

With respect to sending deposits:
You'll read a lot of people on TERB saying you should never send a deposit to a Leolist advertiser. And I think that's an ignorant claim. Some of the most well reviewed women advertise on Leolist and demand deposits. But many scammers also demand deposits in order to scam you. So as with anything, verify who they are and that they're trustworthy before sending any money to anyone. (You'd prepay in full for an iPhone off a well reviewed seller on eBay but you wouldn't etransfer to some stranger off Craigslist.) If she's got no reviews, don't send a deposit. If she's well known and well reviewed and others mention sending a deposit with no issue, feel comfortable sending a deposit. And if you don't feel comfortable sending a deposit regardless, then don't complain, just move on to another provider.

Screening questions:
Some escorts require we go through a screening process. This might mean sending a deposit, or sending a photo of your ID, or sending them your LinkedIn profile, etc. Understandably, some clients are uncomfortable with this. That's okay. Don't complain, just move on. We're concerned about our privacy. But escorts are concerned about their safety. I fully support any escort demanding any number of screening questions or requirements, asking us to jump through any number of hoops. Their safety is paramount. But if you're not comfortable, just move on to another provider. It's that easy.

Best of luck

Thank you for the help and advice it is much appreciated. I was considering someone today but couldn't find any reviews and decided against it.