I'm not sure where I should post this. I'm a married guy looking for a regular mistress. I've tried sugardaddie.com but find that most of the women are incredibly naive. Maybe someone more experienced like a part-time or former MPA or SP who wants to have an ongoing relationship might be a better fit. I'm willing to pay a good allowance for the right person - ie. as much or more than it would cost me per encounter with an SP. Does anyone have any ideas?
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I was a member there for a very short time so maybe I did not give it enough of a chance
but I left as I found the men naive.
Some would suggest flying down south to have coffee and meet to be screened out. So unless has a lot of faith in them and a lot of air miles it is often just a lot of chat
but I left as I found the men naive.
Some would suggest flying down south to have coffee and meet to be screened out. So unless has a lot of faith in them and a lot of air miles it is often just a lot of chat
that site
a) the men are generally liars and relatively pathetic. This quickly becomes apparent to the girls, who often don't stick around to search further
b)the girls can be naive - in believing obvious shtick from the men (yeah sure, by seeing you in a bikini I'm certain I want to get to know your mind beter) - and can be pathetic too (way too many girls want to find a husband through the site - forgetting that the site is called "sugardaddie.com".).
Sugar babes are hard to find - you can try advertising - but that's a real crap shoot. I could also suggest strip joints and massage parlours - but that's labour intensive - you probably want a girl who isn't putting out for all her "clients" (that's easy to find), but will be putting out for you. You have to do a lot of searching and repeat visits to talk your way into such a relationship. If you're smooth enough and well off enough, it can work well.
a) the men are generally liars and relatively pathetic. This quickly becomes apparent to the girls, who often don't stick around to search further
b)the girls can be naive - in believing obvious shtick from the men (yeah sure, by seeing you in a bikini I'm certain I want to get to know your mind beter) - and can be pathetic too (way too many girls want to find a husband through the site - forgetting that the site is called "sugardaddie.com".).
Sugar babes are hard to find - you can try advertising - but that's a real crap shoot. I could also suggest strip joints and massage parlours - but that's labour intensive - you probably want a girl who isn't putting out for all her "clients" (that's easy to find), but will be putting out for you. You have to do a lot of searching and repeat visits to talk your way into such a relationship. If you're smooth enough and well off enough, it can work well.
Personally, I'm not looking to be a sugar daddy, but I'd love a regular, maybe somebody who's left the biz, but still will see a few occasional clients at a mutually convenient time.
So hard to find the right match for the right dollar.
So hard to find the right match for the right dollar.
I think you could find a sugarbabe quite easily..are you looking for someone who isn't an sp anymore though? a girl who is willing to just tend to your needs and no one else's?? cause that could be tough lol!
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For me the attraction of the mistress type situations IS the naivety. Although it can be a pain to deal with, you wind up with someone who is NOT hardened by months of experience in "the business" (and months is all it takes to harden).
I had one for about a year and a half but I had to get rid of her in the end because she started becoming more attached to me than to my money, which was a problem.
I had one for about a year and a half but I had to get rid of her in the end because she started becoming more attached to me than to my money, which was a problem.
Sign of a Sugar Babe -
1. Shopaholic - we're talking about uncontrollable.
2. Bad with $$$ - savings, what savings?
3. Want finer things in life but don't want to work for it.
A MPA (now out of biz) once tried to feel me out as she & GFs "do it on the side".
Don't PM me. She's a messy headcase & no 411.
1. Shopaholic - we're talking about uncontrollable.
2. Bad with $$$ - savings, what savings?
3. Want finer things in life but don't want to work for it.
A MPA (now out of biz) once tried to feel me out as she & GFs "do it on the side".
Don't PM me. She's a messy headcase & no 411.
NAIVE = HE is hoping to have lots of sexy and paying very very little for it.
Very simple term to understand
Very simple term to understand
There are no hard and fast rules or standard rates because you've left "the industry". Some of the women you'll run into have no previous experience doing anything like this so they really have no idea what they should charge, unlike SP's who can see everyone else's rates in the back of Eye.vavog said:
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I suspect that the majority of men who want a sugar babe want effievly a part time sp, somone who acts like an sp /gf hybrid who has only one client; them; safer. Likewise, a girl in this relationsihp wants a guarrenteed income for rent fund and extras and wants few clients (if they could most probly would have 2-3 regualars instead but sugar daddeis are a compromise) But there lots of variation an expecation. For example, some fresh girls think they deserve $5 000 plus for a GFE experience; maybe they do but the market does not bare that out. And a lot of fressh clients for their part don't think safe. Its not until one enters a community of expectation that ones own version of the world gets moderated by others. IT was not that long ago that greek was unheard of by working girls (the shortform, not the act but the act was rare) and way in the past bj where someting only sps did and was the meat and potatoes of the sp business.
I suspect that the majority of men who want a sugar babe want effievly a part time sp, somone who acts like an sp /gf hybrid who has only one client; them; safer. Likewise, a girl in this relationsihp wants a guarrenteed income for rent fund and extras and wants few clients (if they could most probly would have 2-3 regualars instead but sugar daddeis are a compromise) But there lots of variation an expecation. For example, some fresh girls think they deserve $5 000 plus for a GFE experience; maybe they do but the market does not bare that out. And a lot of fressh clients for their part don't think safe. Its not until one enters a community of expectation that ones own version of the world gets moderated by others. IT was not that long ago that greek was unheard of by working girls (the shortform, not the act but the act was rare) and way in the past bj where someting only sps did and was the meat and potatoes of the sp business.
To me,
what's interesting is how fact gets laced with myth.
So - from what my personal experience tells me:
Pricing: The least expensive sugar babe found over the past 10 years was $1200 a month. On the positive side, she was very attractive, very young, not otherwise in the sex industry (and therefore naive about pricing to an extent).
From there you can go on up. The highest I've been asked for was $10,000 a month - two women have asked for this, one of whom was delusional.
I've found many seem to congregate around the $2,000/month mark. That's good for an afternoon a week kind of arrangement.
If you're paying more than that, you should be wanting to get more in return.
By far the hardest thing wasn't coming to terms - it was finding the right girl. Really, that's been the only issue.
what's interesting is how fact gets laced with myth.
So - from what my personal experience tells me:
Pricing: The least expensive sugar babe found over the past 10 years was $1200 a month. On the positive side, she was very attractive, very young, not otherwise in the sex industry (and therefore naive about pricing to an extent).
From there you can go on up. The highest I've been asked for was $10,000 a month - two women have asked for this, one of whom was delusional.
I've found many seem to congregate around the $2,000/month mark. That's good for an afternoon a week kind of arrangement.
If you're paying more than that, you should be wanting to get more in return.
By far the hardest thing wasn't coming to terms - it was finding the right girl. Really, that's been the only issue.
LordLoki
There are ways to address the tax situation, if you put your mind to it.
A previous piece of sugar happened to be a "personal trainer" in her regular line of work. I paid for her to incorporate her own company (which was to her own advantage - now being able to expense gas, etc.), and she provided billing to me for personal training.
Believe it or not, I did use her for personal training above and beyond the requirement of taking care of my penis.
There are other possibilities, depending on your situation.
There are ways to address the tax situation, if you put your mind to it.
A previous piece of sugar happened to be a "personal trainer" in her regular line of work. I paid for her to incorporate her own company (which was to her own advantage - now being able to expense gas, etc.), and she provided billing to me for personal training.
Believe it or not, I did use her for personal training above and beyond the requirement of taking care of my penis.
There are other possibilities, depending on your situation.
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long term client, sugar daddy, special friend..whatever you call it,
im always keen to work something out with someone i have chemistry with
long term client, sugar daddy, special friend..whatever you call it,
im always keen to work something out with someone i have chemistry with
