local women - are they all that cold??

[wantoplay]

Hi Folks,

I have been pushed to the point of looking overseas for my 'second half' I was wondering if a lot of local woman are cold like written below.

I was turned down by a young single mom. She has a nice secure job, and she stuck her nose up in the air at me. Then had the nerve to bitch to a mutual friend that no one wanted her. I laughed when he told me that, but was also more mad inside that she actually said that to him after treating my offer like shit.

Fuck her.

I know some other 'nice' single women, who also look at me like I stole from their purse, when I have the nerve to ask them out, and after being turned down, they go and bitch about being single, and unwanted.

I have a nice secure job, and am not so ugly that the sight of my face would make a train take a dirt road.

Or am I the one who is fucked??

 

[winstar]

wantoplay, you're not fucked. Toronto women are. Trust me, I have also come to the same conclusions. Life's too short, go out and find happiness, especially if that means to look outside Canada to find her. Don't rely on waiting for the girls here to change their ways to find that happiness. Rely on what you've observed, and trust your judgements. Go find that girl that will love, appreciate you and treat you with respect and like a king, and invest your time in that. She isn't in Toronto, or possibly even Canada.

Best

 

[Questor]

Yes, it can be hard to meet women. It also sounds like you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder. Maybe they are picking up on that. They might not be attracted to you for any number of reasons. But just because they are single and looking doesn't mean that they must date you.

 

[luckyjackson]

I can't put my finger on why, but I get the feeling you're both fucked.

Ok...I'm just teasing. But if you've convinced yourself that girls outside of Canada are that different, you are in for a disappointment my friends. If a woman outside Canada treats you that differently, it's probably because you represent cash to her.

 

[wantoplay]

Yes, it can be hard to meet women. It also sounds like you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder. Maybe they are picking up on that. They might not be attracted to you for any number of reasons. But just because they are single and looking doesn't mean that they must date you.

I hear you there. But they seem to throw out the "ask me out" signals, unless I am reading them wrong. But needless to say, both of them are still single, still looking, and still complaining about it to anyone who will listen.

 

[elassowipo1]

Don't worry about it, sometimes beggers can be choosers. Both men and women alike.

 

[Tokyo Heights]

The toronto females are pretty cold like its severe winter, that is why i call them cold fishes, whereas girls in Quebec, & Nova Scotia, are much hotter and trust worthy too.
Any day i would prefer a French girl from Quebec or a N.S. girl to be my trusted friend cum something more too. In Toronto its hard to trust its weather, as well as women, they are totally frisky, unpredictable, and materialistic from head to toe.

 

[Toguy54]

Perhaps because I grew up here, I don't find Toronto women either cold nor unapproachable. I don't find it pays to be too forward though. Keep it low key, keep it respectful and see what happens. Works for me..

 

[winstar]

Yes, it can be hard to meet women. It also sounds like you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder. Maybe they are picking up on that. They might not be attracted to you for any number of reasons. But just because they are single and looking doesn't mean that they must date you.

I would agree with that if I didn't observe my friends also coming to the same conclusion. My observations are a single isolated incident, but when it's about 10 close friends from all walks of life, all age, race and financial positions, many of whom are good looking, rich, smart, and responsible, then I have to disagree that it is not a problem with women. I have had many women say to me that their group is fucked up, many women who have told me they have no female friends, because women don't know how to be friends (either to each other or to guys), and women who have recently immigrated, who think the women here are fucked. Having put all that together, I think that it's fair to say that the women here are fucked.

Even if you take a trip across the border to America, the women there really appreciate guys and make them feel like kings. American girls rock, and I have lived in Canada all my life. So do french Canadian Montreal chicks. They rock also. The rest of the women in Canada really are a joke, and you don't really understand how pathetic they are until you see how women in other parts of the world do it and what you're missing out on.

 

[dudeboy]

buddy thats the game, and esp single moms, who were probably in an abusive relationship, or were too trusting and was submissive to the guy, or got dumped..whatever the reason they are psychologically damaged goods, there are a lot of women these days like that and my advice to you like many here is to move on and enjoy your life and spoil yourself, nevermind finding a woman and having them dictate who you are as a person, and yes women from Toronto and these big cities are cold, they all live in a well and think that Toronto is the world and there is nothing else out there, and they think men are all cheaters, go out and just find yourself an educated woman of the world

 

[luckyjackson]

Maybe you need to brush up on your skills. Here ya go.

 

[WhaWhaWha]

Hi Folks,

I have been pushed to the point of looking overseas for my 'second half' I was wondering if a lot of local woman are cold like written below.

I was turned down by a young single mom. She has a nice secure job, and she stuck her nose up in the air at me. Then had the nerve to bitch to a mutual friend that no one wanted her. I laughed when he told me that, but was also more mad inside that she actually said that to him after treating my offer like shit.

Fuck her.

I know some other 'nice' single women, who also look at me like I stole from their purse, when I have the nerve to ask them out, and after being turned down, they go and bitch about being single, and unwanted.

I have a nice secure job, and am not so ugly that the sight of my face would make a train take a dirt road.

Or am I the one who is fucked??

After my divorce in 1998, I recall being in the same situation. I was a single parent of (then) small girls and found myself more in the company of other single parents (moms) than my male friends.

I struck up many a 'friends with benefits' relationship with them. I formed a particular attachment to one of them (I'll call her 'E') E and I were exclusive for a while but we were still NSA. Then she stopped seeing me that way and started seeing others. I got over it and remained friends. Then she complained that she wasnt meeting anyone suitable. Knowing that I was once suitable, I asked her what about the offer in front of you? Never a clear answer. It all went downhill from there. To this day we could have remained friends if she hadn't said that to me. Our mutual friends agreed with me. That was just bad manners. I don't think this behavior is exclusively attributable to Toronto women. And I didnt have to leave the province to meet my second wife.

 

[Toguy54]

The rest of the women in Canada really are a joke, and you don't really understand how pathetic they are until you see how women in other parts of the world do it and what you're missing out on.

I've worked in over twenty other countries during my career and I don't agree with your statement. It may be your experience, but it's not mine.

 

[roblestone]

Dont get so upset by one rejection. It's much better to shrug it off and keep smiling with a positive attitude. Only SP's are almost guaranteed not to reject you. Sometimes even SP's will reject you. Are you fit? Do you dress nice? Do you read body language? Feel her out before you ask her out. And remember foriegn woman that are out of your league here will only use you and eventually reject you no matter what they say before you marry them. Hang in there Wantoplay. No one ever said the dating game was easy, but it is always a game.

 

[smylee52]

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If you are serious then you need to ask your friends what they think you need to do to be more attractive to women . If you are at least average in appearance , can carry on a conversation and have a sense of humour (I'm not feeling that through your post ) then there has to be character flaws .

Are you cheap ?
Do you smell OK?
Is your hair well kept or head shined ?
Do you wear Argyle sweaters and striped pants at the same time ?
Does it look like a chia pet is sticking out from your open shirt collar ?
Is there more hair growing out of your nose and ears than on your head ?
Do you believe garlic is a right ?
Do you have English teeth ?

When it seems like there is something wrong with everyone around you , well , if I need to finish this sentence you have your first answer .

You might as well fix this now or one day you will be starting a thread about :" oversea's brides are they all gold diggers " .

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[wantoplay]

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" oversea's brides are they all gold diggers " .

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That is a stereo type , nothing more.

 

[smylee52]

That is a stereo type , nothing more.


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You mean like "local women - are they all that cold?? "

Thanks for coming out though .

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[shack]

But if you've convinced yourself that girls outside of Canada are that different, you are in for a disappointment my friends. If a woman outside Canada treats you that differently, it's probably because you represent cash to her.

Best response to the question.

If women in Toronto, or Canada for that matter, were so different then Canadian comics would be the only ones making jokes (pronounced "complaining") about their women. Men universally complain about their women (and then cheat on them).

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

After my divorce in 1998, I recall being in the same situation. I was a single parent of (then) small girls and found myself more in the company of other single parents (moms) than my male friends.

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I wonder if anyone thought you had the kids so you could live of welfare? hmmmmmmmm KIDDING GEEZ

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

I just don't get young women these days,,,,a guy is half decent looking and has a good job and she does not want him? w.t.f.? So what if he is probably a lying, cheating, egomaniac who sees himself as Gods gift and women as gold digging, stuck up bitches.....they are way too picky in my opinion.