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bigbooby

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well here it is, after many posts and receiving huge amounts of abuse for them, its time to give my impressions of the KW scene and recommendations for how to properly use this forum to help you hobby wisely and safely.

Many of these points I have made earlier in various threads but i am puting them here all together to we have a thread for those who wish to contribute, debate or even flame.

From my first impression, KW is much like other smaller areas in that the players a few, the advertising outlets are numbered and many clients don't know what to expect, have nothing to comapare to and in many cases, must settle for whats left. Even worse, the SP's/Agencies take the client for granted, have no incentive to improve their customer service and think that by changing or duplicating names, they can fool the client.
Fine, thats acceptable. And that makes it even more important to have a forum that gives us the info and "intelligence" we need to keep track of the many shady operators out there.

This is for you hammertm...no hijacking right?!
What do we get now?
This suggestion from hammertm:
..."I have now seen 4 girls in the past 2 weeks that will be forever on my repeat list and haven't seen a negative review on any of them. Instead of constanly gambling on the record ads and the street scene why don't you try one of them...."
Brilliant deduction...And just where does one look for all this talent hammertm, if not the Record?

everygirl you see since i have been around is at the top of his list. seems you are more than happy to repeat no matter the level and having experienced a couple of his "listees", have determined that your expectations are different to mine and it seems that most of your good experiences recently come from an agency with a previous poor rep (until your flurry of reviews...hmmmm)and are outcall based only. (i can oly do outcalls once in a while)
Then when questioned, you tell me not to bother with the Record (great, so again, where else do you look here brainsurgeon?) I don't go to strip clubs, don't go to MP's
so where else do you look for leads??


There are many more of you that do have good info to share.

Many of you want to hobby as safely as possible and that includes not puting yourself in "dodgy" situations with shady people in "hot" (LE) areas or locations. I myself prefer a descreet incall in an apt building. Never go to houses!

Here are some hints that will make this a more valuable forum:
- when a new ad appears in the record, but you i.d. it and confirm it, as being a new name, old girl scenerio, please post that info and any experiences you had as to why to avoid or partake. ( i noticed in my first few days this was common practice here)
-when a girl switches agencies, post that info
-when you were treated poorly. mislead, stood up, or put in danger by your experience, post it.
-if you visit a "Hot" location, such as a house on a residential street where the occupants aren't very descreet about hiding the high traffic in and out of their place. post it.
This information is much more productive, more helpful, less controversial and ultimately the info many of us need.

What you can do try to improve the level of service?

This is a tough one but you can make a difference little by little.
-When you receive a great service, call them back and tell them so, and tell them you will refer them appropriately. (if you feel its right to mention Terb, then that is at your descretion - I wouldn't, but sometimes I have said I will refer you to my network of computer guys) when others come to them and mention they were referred, it will start to register with them.
-When you receive a poor service, or were mislead, or plain ripped off, tell them the same. That you will never repeat, and you will refer...etc etc
-When calling, ask if they have a personal or agency Website. If they don't, then if you don't like what you hear, tell them very politely. Sorry, but I no longer see anyone new unless they have pictures and a Web presence. It can be used as an excuse not to book, but more importantly, if they start to receive many such requests a day, they will soon start to understand. (there is no excuse nowadays to not have something. No one is suggesting they show their faces, just a good accurate account of their body type, hair colour and in many cases, their clothing or shoes - a picture is worth a thousand words)

Anyone please ad to these suggestions

Finally, my point here as always been that YMMV and that each one of us has different motivations for the hobby.

So instead of a forum being bogged down by garbage, treat the info as a commodity, to be offered, received and traded and hopefully this forum will improve and benefit everyone.

BB
 

Kassidy

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BB,

In response from the other thread:

There are good and bad in every area, just KW/Guelph/Cambridge has such little in the way of selection it is much easier to find the bad. There are many excellent providers in this area though. I do agree with you that sometimes the guys here will hold onto a "gem" even if there are difficulties with her (schedule/no show/etc.)

I get offended when anyone makes a balnket about any topic. Not just this one. Blanket statments tend to be offensie to those of us who don't fit in the blanket. Ie. All black women wear wigs. The black women with naturally beautiful hair will get upset at that statement. KW is a crappy area with no talent. Those of us who like to think we are pretty damn good, and fun to be with will get offended as the good side is not really getting to stand up and be counted.

I do also see both sides of the arguments though (the tough luck of being a Libra). I personally like the fact that I know the men in this forum will have my back if any crap starts. But I also can see where that "devotion" can cause problems or lapses in judgement.

Your suggestions above are sound ones. But again, in a section with so little selection as KW/Guelph/Camb. there would barely be any posts if we didn't take time to engage in some friendly banter. I also think that it gives both clients and providers an opportunity to gauge eachother. I know when I recieve a PM for an appointment I will often check the posters history. The way they interact with others can be a strong indicator for me wether or not the session will be an enjoyable one. I love what I do. And I want to have fun doing it. A person whose post make them come across as crass or ignorant, will most liekly get a politely worded refusal. How someone acts behind the safety of their computer screen is often a strong indicator of how they will act in person. Also to add to this. I wouldn't judege on one post alone. I know that I myself have made a few ranty posts here that taken alone might make people think I am pretty bitchy. But those who know me, know I am a pretty fun loving gal, with a quick wit and a easy smile.

Feedback is important, both to clients and providers. I like when my clients give me feedback about my performance. Give me pointers. I am after all only 24 and there are lots of things I am hardly a pro at. At the same time, I think that clients need feedback sometimes too. Perhaps hygeine is and issue or they are overly agressive. I find tactful ways to let this be known to those I do wish to see again. And also to those who I won't see again for the reasons I explain to them.

Now please do not take this as an insult, as it is not meant as one. I am glad to see you are finally articulating what you wanted to say. There are good ways and bad ways to get your point across, and I think you an admit that some of the ways you chose in the past were not the best alternatives. No one wants to be made to feel stupid or belittled. There are always gracious ways to tell someone that the advice (or whatever) they provided to you was by your standards, inaccurate. But since every man has a different idea of what is great and what sucks, chances are some other mans dream SP will not be yours.

Anywho, let all get back to the friendly stuff...being eman to each other makes Kassie cry!

*kisses*
Kass
 

bigbooby

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man you just don't get it hammertm,
I am telling you that you and I seek different things, outcall vs incall, we have different expectaions etc
All i am saying is that i don't trust your "assesment" of anyone. Why would i continue to see the rest of the girls on your list if a: they may only do outcalls, and b: if the first 2 were complete duds!?
Based on what I have read from you, not me, i have the perception that you are easy to please...and thats great, its your business, just accept it. its not an insult.

your response of:"...Blowing out your ass again it seems..."
is quite immature and uncalled for.

Next,
your comment of:
"...I am not spending extra money to update you on certain sp's new lifestyles and problems to keep you happy..."

I never asked you to, i just ask that you update with something like you told me when i posted a negative review.
"Oh, It has been a while since i saw her, she must have changed"
Hello!!
of course she changed, they all change, its only human nature that this business can , and mostly does have an effect on the girls in some way...
But when i saw her, I was lead to believe by all your postings, boastings and lists, that you were the expert here and in many ways you are. But a simple "Please note that I have not seen Tia since my review many months ago would have been cool"

Like I suggested in this thread, enough of useless info about topping your lists, it means nothing to others that don't share your interests and tastes...
"wow she was great etc etc everytime you see a girl, just give out useful info like
was she on time
hygene
was she dressed as requested (if applicable)
did she stay a full hr
what was her looks/body quality
was she restrictive - if so, what/why
price
attitude
etc etc

hammertm, when i first posted, i was not angry with you for the poor recommendations, thats the nature of this hobby. but you bit and bit hard. you started insulting etc so I had some fun with it...you may not like what i have to say, but i'm not into trading insults and namecalling with anyone.
And am i acusing you of schilling for platinum
Lets just say that your good buddy made the suggestion, albeit in jest, a while back.
Here we had an agency that both you and calloway told me and others was dubious at best.
Thay also have a presence on Terb
All of a sudden, they start getting glorious reviews one after the other...yet only from you???
hmmm, if it smells like a rose...

and yes, I have seen one of the other girls on your list and guess what,
you failed again!

see ya
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Kassidy

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Seriously now...if this bickering doesn't stop we will soon have our section of the board moderated like NF and I know that atleast I for one do not want that. Please pretty please, live and let live. I think I made a very good post which covered both sides of this argument. Let sleeping dogs lie.

BB: Don't take anymore of hammertm's recs
Hammertm: Don't blow a gasket if you and BB don't have the same tastes.

I really hope I am not shooting myself in the proverbial foot here, but guys, we are all too old for this school yard crap!

*huge sighs*
Kass
 
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COOL IT

As I said in other thread, if personal attacks, insults and accusations don't cease, this thread will be locked.

If you wish to have a dialogue do so in a civilized manner.
 

Master_Bates

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I think you guys just need to agree that you have different tastes and therefore should not rely on each others reviews of SPs.... Neither opinion is wrong, just different... can you two not just agree to disagree and leave it at that...

Bigbooby, why not instead of attacking hammertm who has helped many a terbite with his reviews, do you not post some of your own so that we can also learn from your experiences/insights when they differ? That would be much more useful.
 

bigbooby

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do a search master, you will find my reviews. Both good and bad.
I am not posting anything negative right now because of what happens when i do so. I'm sure you can understand that until poeple follow your , and others suggestions that we are not all looking for the same thing, i think its best to not post these negative reviews. It will also add fuel to the fire for those who think I am being overly negative for the wrong reasons.

Again, do a search, see what i have said in many threads and you'll know exactly where I stand in terms of hobbying.

see ya
BB
 

edsock

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BB you are not posting any reviews at all. You are just continuing on with this useless flaming! I defended some of your views earlier but your continued ranting is wearing thin. Why don't you put up or shut up. I'd rather read the fun, socializing threads (even though they weren't reviews)that were happening out here before than your continuous harping.
 

bigbooby

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???!!
do a search
kayla
tia
shelby
jenna
which of those reviews were you not able to read

there would have been a streett review too but someone barged in and accesed me of picking up a guy.
also, i have traded reviews with many who have pm'd me with good info of their own to share.

christ, i was only in KW for 8 days and spent 3 of those days being lead around like an idiot.

learnt a while ago, best to keep it private around here.

by the way, you have been around since at least early this year and haven't contributed as much as me so maybe it is you that should start puting up or even better...shutting up?

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Meesh

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Congratulations!

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