LIGHTS ON or OFF???????????????

Autumn-desilva

Toronto's Statuesque Beauty
Jan 18, 2016
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Hello,
I was having a conversation with a good friend who confessed, (after a couple glasses of wine, and good laughs) that she has never had sex with the lights on!! I asked what do you do in day time? She only has sex at night... I'm curious if that is common? What do you prefer Lights ON or OFF?
 
I like to see in the light because visuals excite me.

However, if it's a romantic interlude or in the middle of the night (as in an overnight or sleeping with a lover), dim or dark works too.
 
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I agree, I enjoy the visual, every moment of it. I love moonlight thou, especially on a clear cool,night, and my curtains wide open. Moonlight and candles are very romantic, especially if there are silhouettes of our bodies on walls.
 
I really like a nice subtle light. I don't like the dark, but really bright lights are annoying. I hate when someone's going full DATY and all I can think about is the bright light hurting my eyes. Candles, other mood lights. Those are my favorite for sure.
 
If it's night time, then only candle or soft light will do. If it's daytime, then having the drapes a bit open (or if you have sheer drapes) lets in the perfect amount of sunlight. If it's porn, then give me tons of light!