Letters from Johns

Questor

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This web site offers some interesting perspectives and stories on why men P4P and what they get out of it. I've just read the first few letters, and it doesn't offer any huge insights that most posters at terb have not heard before. All the same, I plan on going back and reading some more.
http://www.lettersfromjohns.blogspot.com/
 
I read the first five...

...and I can sympathize and to some degree empathize with each of them.

That said, guy 3 and 5 I feel sorry for, because IMHO, hobbying is making things worse, and not better, because it enables them to avoid dealing with their issues. That is the thing the leads me to honestly and genuinely worry about some of you guys, as a fellow guy. As much as they might think they are better off now, just think how much more they would enjoy the experience of having a break through and actually establishing a positive relationship with a woman they liked and were attracted to...
 
its important to keep this a hobby. if its your only or main form of sex, I think it could eat you up.
 
red said:
its important to keep this a hobby. if its your only or main form of sex, I think it could eat you up.


I agree even if it is an sp keeping a man on the side for purely pleasurable sex. Then comes the day you get accused of liking sex too much by said man and told you cannot live without sex. ha ha ha :p
 
red said:
its important to keep this a hobby. if its your only or main form of sex, I think it could eat you up.

I think this is why I post far more then I hobby. While I do at times go to SC's quite a bit, I've limited my other hobbying to when it would be purely fun and not be theraputic.
 
red said:
its important to keep this a hobby. if its your only or main form of sex, I think it could eat you up.
Oh god no! I have sex with my right hand far more than I see SPs. ;)
 
LOL But...

red said:
its important to keep this a hobby. if its your only or main form of sex, I think it could eat you up.

..what a way to go!

As I have said before, I never want to date a civilian again. Having said that, I am ancient, and have been married before, in love, and had lots of free sex.

I also tend to sympathize with those who have never had other types of relationships. On the other hand, the world has always had many folks who cant develop relationships. In that case, a good GFE beats the hell out of beating off!
 
Bear669 said:
the world has always had many folks who cant develop relationships

you rang?
 
You guys can donate $600.00 to the Great Bear fund and stop me from paying for escorts. (for a week).