Let's Spend the night together

[Macator2003]

Just wanted to hear back from any guys or from any SPs who have been involved in an overnight. Many ladies advertise it. Does seem rather expensive with some (+) and (-)s.

For guys that are 40plus, it would give you a chance to recharge your batteries so that you could move onto round two (around 2:00ish) and then round three, at daybreak. For the cuddlers, it would be a chance to snuggle with your ATF and fall asleep in each others arms.

As far as (-)s. There's the safety factor on the potential of unprotected sex. Some guys are horny, heavy sleepers that might let the little head make decisions if semi-conscious. I've known some GFs that appear to be awake in the middle of the night, in acts of passion. The next day they claim having no memory of the event at all (even though it resulted in some great sex). There's also the snorers (men and women), the flagelaters -spelling??, people's appearance -first thing in the morning.

IMHO, I don't think an overnight should be considered as a first contact but I'd be interested in hearing from those who have been involved for an extended period and decided to spend the night together.

 

[hotsex2]

I'd done some in Costa Rica, when I was there last May. I am planning to have one before or on my birthday. I think it is great as long as the the sp and you click together, otherwise it will very awkward.

 

[shack]

If you pick the right lady a sleepover can be a gas (just the figurative kind).

As to the other gas and snoring issues, just remember that it's only for one night, during which you'll hopefully both be having great sex which will make those issues minor. You'll be too busy having a good time and she'll be too busy thinking about the money she's making (as well as thinking about how well you're treating her, including your performance ).

Hopefully, as two adults, you can laugh about a fart as well as make proper, consensual decisions regarding safety issues.

For sure, as you said, you should already know and have spent some time with the lady.

 

[Dutch too]

Paid sleep?

I, for one, would not consider it unless it was really heavily discounted. In effect you are paying (at least partly) for the time the SP is sleeping. Keep you money and book two appointments one in the night and the second the next day.

 

[scouser1]

I have done over nighters with SP's in Russia, in Moscow its usually about 200 dollars U.S. but trouble is dont go expecting a GFE, as some of them will not let you LFK or DATY. but for the price it was worth it

 

[tboy]

If memory serves the going rate is about $2000.00 for an overnighter....pretty steep considering that the sp is getting paid to sleep. (I know I know, we pay for their time whether we are having sex, talking or sleeping!).

As suggested, if you're looking for multiple rounds spaced apart and are not into the cuddling then book your lady at 11 pm then again at 8 (if she is available)

 

[JANDA]

who want to sleep with a lot of $$ in one day??

Overnight meeting, I never sleep. Guys had beg me to sleep,please...
I am dancing the all night,making love,drinking,saying jokes,laughing and more

 

[great bear]

Done the overnight quite a few times. First Rule is: get to know the lady very well before popping the question. Try and make it a two or three nighter and not a solo night. Try and make it a out of towner taker her to Montreal or Quebec City. If you follow these simple rules you might find the overnight regular charge will drop considerably.

 

[luv4lust]

over nights are the best

i've done one night or weekends it's like having a sexy pj party without the pj's lol and room service is like a picnic in the nude lol

 

[baltimoron]

Don't recommend it!

I used to do this a lot with SPs in the States.

Yeah, it's fun while it lasts, but:

1. Add up the numbers. Let's say you book for 12 hrs: You're paying for her to sleep for 8 hours, and you only get 4 hrs to do anything. You might as well just booked a cheaper 4 hr dinner date.

2. Do separate sessions. In the 12 hr example, suppose you get 2SOG. For less than half the amount of a 12 hr session, you could do 2 seperate 1 hr sessions with 1SOG each.

3. If you're booking her for days, then what will you guys be doing? Travelling, dining, seeing movies, shopping?! Guess who's footing the tab for all these activities? (I will say that the one time I saw a Canadian SP for a 4 hr session, we went shopping, and she refused to let me buy her anything!)

4. Perhaps the more damaging effect is that the more time you spend with her, the more you become attached to her. What happens when she eventually leaves? To her, you're just another client. To you, you may have been entertaining thoughts of GF or relationship. Once she's gone, you end up being more hollow and lonely than before. Withdrawal sucks!

So in the end, I'd say it's something you can do if it's a very special occasion, and even then, with an SP that you know very well.

Save it for a very special birthday or sudden windfall of fortune.

 

[luv4lust]

some of us don't cost a fortune or charge for sleeping

 

[TheIronLady]

An overnight can be great. It is best when (like said many times here) you already know each other and you really click.

As far as paying for sleep...if you are the type of guy that is up late and likes the night then you will have a great time. Most girls are there for you. They know ahead time and prepare and sleep most of the day away before so they are awake and perky just for you.

Well an overnight...should include
- good conversation
- good wine
- a shower for two
- a lot of fun
- a little room service
- some candle light
- more fun
- better conversation
- lots of cuddling
- lots of giggles
- some dessert and champagne
- some soft slow erotic fun
- by this time te sun should be raising for morning coffee and breakfast.

Wow twelve hours and you are both exhausted and you had a great night with a girl that you enjoy being with.

 

[C Dick]

I think that great bear is right, that taking her away for a few days out of town is ideal. You should be paying for all the expenses, and perhaps for one basic session per day, and she is investing her time for the flying/sleeping/eating/shopping. If she does not go for that deal, she doesn't like you enough to make it likely you will have good time. In my opinion.

 

[Macator2003]

An overnight can be great. It is best when (like said many times here) you already know each other and you really click.

As far as paying for sleep...if you are the type of guy that is up late and likes the night then you will have a great time. Most girls are there for you. They know ahead time and prepare and sleep most of the day away before so they are awake and perky just for you.

Well an overnight...should include
- good conversation
- good wine
- a shower for two
- a lot of fun
- a little room service
- some candle light
- more fun
- better conversation
- lots of cuddling
- lots of giggles
- some dessert and champagne
- some soft slow erotic fun
- by this time te sun should be raising for morning coffee and breakfast.

Wow twelve hours and you are both exhausted and you had a great night with a girl that you enjoy being with.

I like Sasha's take on this. It probably would be a good idea for the guy to prepare by sleeping most of the day away prior to an all night