Lending$$$
- Thread starter Rick4play
- Start date
At that point it’s not a loan. It’s a gift.
Any SP who asks to borrow money either provides bad/marginal service and therefore has little repeat business or is not good at generating new business , OR has a major leak such as a drug or gambling problem or a boyfriend/pimp who takes her money Or she has a problem managing her money. The chances of getting your money back are close to nil. If she is doing anything right in those areas she should have zero need to borrow money.
Either give her the money OR refuse her request.
Last edited:
The SP I'm referring to always sends me text being extra sweet and nice, when I get those I know she's going to follow up asking for a loan either for gas or groceries or whatever.... In the past she has made up for it providing sessions... But when I ask for the cash back instead of future services, I got ghosted... I should've known better.
Don't. You will never get your money back.
She isn't your girlfriend, wife or even your friend.
No matter how long I have seen a provider, I don't pay any heed to any suffering they may go through. That is their life and they have to manage that. That is the nature of this business and this arrangement - No strings attached.
She isn't your girlfriend, wife or even your friend.
No matter how long I have seen a provider, I don't pay any heed to any suffering they may go through. That is their life and they have to manage that. That is the nature of this business and this arrangement - No strings attached.
You mean your wife repays money you lend to her? How novel, I may have to revisit my marital arrangements...
You will never see your money, or her, ever again!!!! There was another thread on here this week about paying in advance through e-transfers. This is my own experience with a popular SP who I'd know for almost 10 years. I'll never ever do that one again either. My advice is loose this providers contact and don't ever look back.
It's probably not a good idea especially if it's a meaningful amount of money. I've never had one ask for it, but I've paid in advance to reputable providers and never had an issue.
My attitude about lending has always been assume it's a gift even with friends and family. With an sp I'd either assume it's a gift or a downpayment for my next visit but I 100% would not expect any dollar amount to be given back to me.
My attitude about lending has always been assume it's a gift even with friends and family. With an sp I'd either assume it's a gift or a downpayment for my next visit but I 100% would not expect any dollar amount to be given back to me.
the other variation is asking for prepayment of future services but it comes out as the same thing
Its ok, my wife's boyfriend tells me she does the same to him.
Yeah, loan = gift in this field of activity.
Nothing wrong with a small gift if you want, but most punters would give nothing and write her off for asking.
But it's xmas, so get out the Viagra and Red Bull and find someone else that's available. Watch out for the storm.
