Leaving When the Girl is Unattractive
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The shopping part is pre-booking though. If you do your research, you shouldn't be walking into a bait and switch. That being said, I absolutely agree with walking on a bait and switch. That isnt what the OP was about though, it was about attractiveness level. And again, if you do your research and have realistic expectations, this shouldn't be a problem.
Wow, I never figured you to be a chubby chaser like myself Wyatt. And yes, there is just something a little beautiful about two chubby Wubbies rolling around and doin the chi-chi, but I digress...
I think the most gracious way to leave is to say you left your wallet in the car...makes for less confrontation.
I walked out once, not because she was ugly.
To coin a phrase from Redd Foxx, "you can let your armpits go a coupla days maybe - but not your ass". Similarly, I can tolerate homeliness (I'm not exactly Clark Gable either) - but not vaginosis.
To coin a phrase from Redd Foxx, "you can let your armpits go a coupla days maybe - but not your ass". Similarly, I can tolerate homeliness (I'm not exactly Clark Gable either) - but not vaginosis.
I have walked after being ushered in the door.Usually quick and moderately painless. They get it. Not pleased, but quite on board with the reality. Next!
When I first got into this I used to stay no matter what.
There is a difference between someone who deliberately misleads you through advertising vs. someone who advertises honestly but just isn't what you are looking for.
If the advertising is a total lie, do not hesitate, leave immediately.
If it's a case of not what you are expecting, I think it's fair to politely decline. I think this happens more often than we might expect. I remember the first time I declined a session the lady's response gave me the impression that it wasn't the first time that day that someone had declined. It kinda sounded like she was used to it, if anything.
As far as leaving a tip or some amount of payment, I suggest you consider the context. To give extreme examples, if you pre-book days in advance a multi-hour session and the lady incurs significant time and expense to prepare for you, then I think it's appropriate to offer compensation. If it's a last minute half hour booking with a high volume SP who made you wait ten minutes and probably has two more guys waiting in the parking lot, maybe not so much.
Most importantly, no one likes these situations so I think the best thing to do is avoid them. This means don't make last minute impulse bookings based on one ad with a few unverified pictures of an SP who you have never seen or heard of before. Also, if at any point in the booking process you get even a hint of a warning sign - full stop. Take the time to do some research. Follow the SP on twitter for awhile, look for reviews, check her website if she has one. If you can't find any of these - don't take a chance. I haven't walked out on a session in years because I don't take chances anymore. If you find this is happening often, the best thing to do is be more careful in your booking process.
There is a difference between someone who deliberately misleads you through advertising vs. someone who advertises honestly but just isn't what you are looking for.
If the advertising is a total lie, do not hesitate, leave immediately.
If it's a case of not what you are expecting, I think it's fair to politely decline. I think this happens more often than we might expect. I remember the first time I declined a session the lady's response gave me the impression that it wasn't the first time that day that someone had declined. It kinda sounded like she was used to it, if anything.
As far as leaving a tip or some amount of payment, I suggest you consider the context. To give extreme examples, if you pre-book days in advance a multi-hour session and the lady incurs significant time and expense to prepare for you, then I think it's appropriate to offer compensation. If it's a last minute half hour booking with a high volume SP who made you wait ten minutes and probably has two more guys waiting in the parking lot, maybe not so much.
Most importantly, no one likes these situations so I think the best thing to do is avoid them. This means don't make last minute impulse bookings based on one ad with a few unverified pictures of an SP who you have never seen or heard of before. Also, if at any point in the booking process you get even a hint of a warning sign - full stop. Take the time to do some research. Follow the SP on twitter for awhile, look for reviews, check her website if she has one. If you can't find any of these - don't take a chance. I haven't walked out on a session in years because I don't take chances anymore. If you find this is happening often, the best thing to do is be more careful in your booking process.
This is actually what I want to know. It’s easy to walk out on a LL or BP girl if you aren’t pleased upon seeing her but when it comes to agencies is there any backlash? A few times I was disappointed with a well reviewed girl on this board but stayed unfortunately because it was an agency I use often and not wanting to deal with any drama or losing out on being able to book the girls I like.
My guess is it depends on the agency and your track record with them. Who the lady is and her reputation might be a factor as well.
One agency girl I walked out on was not bad looking, but she was high as a kite and I'm not into that. Of course it was my fault and I got "banned". Fuck them, just book from another number. Another one tried to shake me down for "extras", that one was an indy. Oh, and 7 or years ago, a backpage girl tried to use her pimp to squeeze me without providing any service. Fortunately, his attitude was much larger than his body and didn't interact well with the hotel's chair. Last time I ever used backpage. Using well established and well reviewed ladies is a pretty good way of avoiding those little inconveniences. But, don't be afraid to walk. It's your money.
It has never happened to me but I do my research and only see well reviewed escorts that advertise on Merb.
In the event that it did, I would try to make the best of it, a one time couple of hundred bucks makes no difference to me, I am not going to get in a confrontation over it. I have spent on worse things than an escort that may not be to my liking in looks.
In the event that it did, I would try to make the best of it, a one time couple of hundred bucks makes no difference to me, I am not going to get in a confrontation over it. I have spent on worse things than an escort that may not be to my liking in looks.
I did from one, just used a different number after a pretty long pause of using their services.
The trend in the last 5-10 years has been to pay for the privilege, as opposed to the fantasy.
I have avoided this trend like the plague and COVID combined...……..
I have avoided this trend like the plague and COVID combined...……..
I have walked out on many, many girls in BP days and even who are with the agencies. If I think she has been photoshopped too much, I walk out. In my 10 year experience, I have come across more average to below average girls than pretty ones. This industry is dominated by average looking girls. I have walked out a lot. Terb is full of people who hype average to below average people.
I used to hobby a lot, I have toned down considerably now because of lying.
I used to hobby a lot, I have toned down considerably now because of lying.
