Lead-up Text / Email Convos with SP's

[doobyscew]

I can just imagine that SP's get inundated with every single type of communication at all times of the day. Keeping on top of threads and sifting through legit versus all the s**t must take a good chunk of time.

That being said, I'm wondering what's the expected protocol (for lack of a better term) for message exchanges outside of the administrative aspect (date/time/length...) of the date? Would love to hear SP's perspectives as well as hobbyists.

I'm an infrequent hobbyist and setting up an appointment with an SP usually happens at least a week or so in advance of the date. Obviously, that's a lot of time to think and fantasize about the encounter and every so often, there's a quippy little question / comment / flirtation that I'd want to send off. Being infrequent, I'm typically booking with a new SP, so I don't always have the luxury of a history and find myself in that awkward "first date" situation.

I can imagine it's a YMMV answer, but is there a level of "getting to know you" or flirting that's ... "okay" (or tolerated)?

 

[Jenesis]

I can just imagine that SP's get inundated with every single type of communication at all times of the day. Keeping on top of threads and sifting through legit versus all the s**t must take a good chunk of time.

That being said, I'm wondering what's the expected protocol (for lack of a better term) for message exchanges outside of the administrative aspect (date/time/length...) of the date? Would love to hear SP's perspectives as well as hobbyists.

I'm an infrequent hobbyist and setting up an appointment with an SP usually happens at least a week or so in advance of the date. Obviously, that's a lot of time to think and fantasize about the encounter and every so often, there's a quippy little question / comment / flirtation that I'd want to send off. Being infrequent, I'm typically booking with a new SP, so I don't always have the luxury of a history and find myself in that awkward "first date" situation.

I can imagine it's a YMMV answer, but is there a level of "getting to know you" or flirting that's ... "okay" (or tolerated)?

This is so different for every lady. And for every guy.

Some guys will send a “good morning beautiful, just wanted to share how excited I am for our date coming up” and they will send that once about half way through the week.

Other guys will send one everyday and others will send one 3 times a day.

Each lady will handle those situations differently. Some don’t like a message at all unless it is administrative. Some will be fine with a message or two back and forth. And others will be fine with all of it.

There will never be a “right” answer. I don’t even know a guideline I could share because I would be stepping on some toes.

The universal answer is to not message a lady outside of actual booking. Flirty message should be paid for. The expectation of flirt messages are outside the scope of the appointment you are booked for. out of scope work being sought for free is an annoyance in any field or industry and is frowned upon. And when you think about it, that is for good reason. People should not have to give out free service to maintain a regular contract.

I personally don’t agree with that totally in the escort world because of the nature of the industry. I personally would be ok with a message or two in the week leading up from a brand new guy, but that is me.

Don’t expect a back and forth though. One message. One reply.

 

[altid13]

Generally, like Jenesis said above most SP's will consider it annoying. Communication should be administrative related to your "date" with the SP. If you are a regular client the SP may be ok with it as long as it is limited texting. The problem is some guys go on and on with the texts taking up too much of the SP's time.

 

[doobyscew]

This is so different for every lady. And for every guy.

Some guys will send a “good morning beautiful, just wanted to share how excited I am for our date coming up” and they will send that once about half way through the week.

Other guys will send one everyday and others will send one 3 times a day.

Each lady will handle those situations differently. Some don’t like a message at all unless it is administrative. Some will be fine with a message or two back and forth. And others will be fine with all of it.

There will never be a “right” answer. I don’t even know a guideline I could share because I would be stepping on some toes.

The universal answer is to not message a lady outside of actual booking. Flirty message should be paid for. The expectation of flirt messages are outside the scope of the appointment you are booked for. out of scope work being sought for free is an annoyance in any field or industry and is frowned upon. And when you think about it, that is for good reason. People should not have to give out free service to maintain a regular contract.

I personally don’t agree with that totally in the escort world because of the nature of the industry. I personally would be ok with a message or two in the week leading up from a brand new guy, but that is me.

Don’t expect a back and forth though. One message. One reply.

Totally makes sense. Thanks Jenesis.

 

[jerbear15]

I can just imagine that SP's get inundated with every single type of communication at all times of the day. Keeping on top of threads and sifting through legit versus all the s**t must take a good chunk of time.

That being said, I'm wondering what's the expected protocol (for lack of a better term) for message exchanges outside of the administrative aspect (date/time/length...) of the date? Would love to hear SP's perspectives as well as hobbyists.

I'm an infrequent hobbyist and setting up an appointment with an SP usually happens at least a week or so in advance of the date. Obviously, that's a lot of time to think and fantasize about the encounter and every so often, there's a quippy little question / comment / flirtation that I'd want to send off. Being infrequent, I'm typically booking with a new SP, so I don't always have the luxury of a history and find myself in that awkward "first date" situation.

I can imagine it's a YMMV answer, but is there a level of "getting to know you" or flirting that's ... "okay" (or tolerated)?

It should only take 3 or 4 texts/emails to book and 1 to confirm. I confirm day before or day of.