For the record, I am not trying to scare you or harm your business. In fact, my comments are meant for discussion and I am sorry that everything I say doesn't exactly agree with you. But just because I don't agree doesn't mean I mean to bring you down or deserve the condescending attitude implied by your post...I actually do hope you are successful in what you are trying to accomplish.I can only speak about licensed body rub parlors in toronto. And yes, I know for sure, at this time there is zero intent to pursue c36 in relation to bodyrub parlors. I don't expect folks to believe me. But please tell me where your research comes from? And why you assume my meetings were, as you call them, informal. Why because you weren't there? Or because the Star didn't report it? What qualifies to you as formal? To date, ive had over 25 meetings with more than 8 different levels of enforcement, each lasting well over 2-4hrs. I've had both casual & professional meetings with politicians ranging from local ridings to toronto officials to provincial representatives. I've compiled a team of 12 lawyers ranging from bylaw to criminal to constitutional to litigation. I've also spent time with SPOC, Ms Bedford, a couple Senators, and today even spoke with the Premier of BC. While you guys are arguing semantics, I'm out getting facts. Never assume.
My knowledge is based on repeated consensus, reliable sources, decision makers, and the fact that I've been brought into some of the efforts on what they actually are focusing on.
As for your bodyrub confusion, a bodyrub is not defined as a sexual service. Not federally, provincally, or Municipally. Not regarding Toronto anyway, which is where my efforts have been concentrated.
Toronto body rub parlors are licensed to sell body rubs. For the past 2yrs my spa has only sold time. We don't sell nudes or toplesses or bodyslide. I changed nothing on our website except nekkid pics& the encore. I did not have to adjust our services, WE SELL BODY RUBS.
Collection of evidence for a murder is entirely different than howbody rub parlors are policed. Read this thread to learn about how it works: http://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?505711-LE-walked-in-on-my-session
What a bylaw allows or defines is not the same as law. Let's not confuse the 2 sir. In Toronto, an attendant would have to be clothed & use her vagina, quite the challenge if u ask me lol. And, muse is 100% non-full-service. So, next!
Purchase indirectly is not in c36. Profiteering indirectly is. And there are exceptions to that. Its all in the bill. Have a read.
I don't need to fool anyone. You can't honestly say or think I'd bet my criminal liability on "colourful technicalities" do you? I have 15yrs, my vagina, my reputation, hundreds of thousands of dollars, and my future invested in this industry honey. Quit the bullshit before you click "post" next time.
I have said all along that I'm bias. Hence do your own research. I'd love to hear about yours! Your time invested, money, resources......lets hear it. I couldn't possibly fit more into my schedule, so if you have been out fact-gathering/lobbying/working and have different conclusions, of course I'd love to know! Just as I have shared mine.
Judge all you want, but you don't fool me, you don't scare me, and you aren't harming my business. I wouldn't stop because a few terbies disagree, there are sex workers lives at risk here people!!!! This frustrates me because people blabber on without facts (ahem, fuji), and readers believe it. Then I have to spend more time to reply and correct the bs. Which, obviously, I care enough to do so. But I have yet to hear 1 single person say "Hey Emily, so-and-so decision maker sent me this" or "Come meet with my lawyer, his take is extremely different" or "Join me while I sit with XYZ and you'll hear why I said blah blah blah".
Meanwhile, I'm busy busting my ass to get this dangerous bullshit publically denounced, sent back to SCC, and a modernized Decrim system on the books.
"Ain't no body got time for...." this! get busy being proactive. Too many pessimists here sitting on their hands crying wolf.
I would argue that what I've said isn't exactly foolish at all. A body rub can be a sexual service - they are not mutually exclusive. The definition of a body rub is so overly broad it could encompass everything from a back massage to full out sex. If you are going to say I'm foolish then please specifically tell me how the definition "body-rub is a service where the primary activity is the kneading, manipulating, rubbing, massaging, touching or stimulating by any means by at least one person of at least one other person‟s body or part thereof" can't somehow be sexual in nature in some cases? You are right in saying that the criminal code doesn't concern itself at all with what a body rub is - they only care about the actual service being rendered.
When I mentioned a formal meeting, I mean where the actual meeting is documented and available to the public. That equates to an official policy stance. Anything else, isn't quite the same. People who may end up in court aren't likely gonna be able to say "MPASQaured told me she spoke to some Police higher ups and they said they weren't gonna enforce...". This needs to be documented and official to be of real value. What is stopping these "officials" from flatly denying what you claim they've said at a later date? While I believe you to be an honest person, people should be skeptical if such conversations have gone the way you've said as by your own admission "I have said all along that I'm bias". Is it fair for you to say members to "do your own research" and when their research seems to indicate anything that contradicts your position then you just attack them and say "Quit the bullshit before you click "post" next time"?
And when you suggest that we as "Johns" have some kind of obligation to do what you are doing and try to advocate change, I also think that is unrealistic. You have a vested business and personal interest. We do not. When MGM Grand lobbied the government for a casino in Toronto I supported them. It doesn't mean I'm going to go the extent they went in getting their way. Again, I want to say again I fully support you, but it's not fair to say in the same breath you are biased and also that everything else that people say that is remotely against your position is bullshit. I also don't think I should be compared to fuji as he is a little crazy but I truly believe what I'm saying is more logical.