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Lustology

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Any success stories, end of the day is it worth the $40 monthly fee?????
 
Lustology said:
Any success stories, end of the day is it worth the $40 monthly fee?????

I've never heard of a $40/month fee on Lava???

You buy credits in order to contact people.

I haven't had much luck on it.

Are you talking about Sexsearch.com or AdultFriendFinder.com ????
These have monthly fees...
 
I would think it depends on what you are looking for with Lavalife: (1) the one night stand, (2) occasional friendly dating, or (3) long term relationship search. My bet is that Lavalife works better/best for (2) or (3), but stinks for (1).

Samurai Joey
 
Samurai Joey said:
I would think it depends on what you are looking for with Lavalife: (1) the one night stand, (2) occasional friendly dating, or (3) long term relationship search. My bet is that Lavalife works better/best for (2) or (3), but stinks for (1).

Samurai Joey
not even 2 and 3 ...JMHO ...they say LTR...but they have images of themselves as saints in some images...than others of them laying on their bed..and say "No Games please" ..WTF!? mixed messages on Relationships end of that site. They might as well have a box maked "Confused sexually" or "Bi-sexual"(Greedy by my view point).
Waste of Time if you honestly looking for a committed relation. I really am starting to believe astrology has weight. the nutty ones are certain birth signs and there is a pattern. Some you can never satisfy ..that simple.
I think its a Terb conspiracy(Jokes)...if i start dating seriously...than i think their will be withdrawals by the Sp's and Mpa's i have built a relationships with.

PS:Especially steer Clear of the ones writing "Dance like no ones watching" or "Stop here if you want to meet someone sweet" in their profiles. Additionally,I don't like it when they don't say they have a child...seems like they have no pride in motherhood
 
realthing69 said:
I've never heard of a $40/month fee on Lava???

You buy credits in order to contact people.

I haven't had much luck on it.

Are you talking about Sexsearch.com or AdultFriendFinder.com ????
These have monthly fees...

Unless they've changed it back recently, that's the old system. They changed it to a monthly fee system several months ago (perhaps more than a year ago).. I thought it was quite reasonable with the credit system, but there's no way I would pay the monthly fees.
 
Not if your short!!!!

I am 5'6" & not a hope in hell. Once I changed height to 6' ; ...ladies hitting me up!:mad:
 
...and I have a big belly, and am balding, and drive a cheap import, am under six feet tall, and have a bit of a lazy eye, wear glasses, have facial hair that is blotchy, am graying, still get pimples, blah, blah, blah...

Fuck sakes people, it is your attitudes that are keeping you down, not your physical appearance. If I can get quality dates, anyone can.
 
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Originally Posted by cute-bald
I am 5'6" & not a hope in hell. Once I changed height to 6' ; ...ladies hitting me up!

realthing69 said:
Yeah I'm 5'7" and I feel your frustrations but that's just life.
you know it as well as i...some are pretty up front about it and leave the door open to try..but when lava girls say it that is bothers them that under average height guys seem to waste their time and ask they don't bother..i say ..get of your high horse ...and thats the gals that are 5'2" or 4'11" to boot

20/20 Report - Are Short Men at a Disadvantage in Romance? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR3YR1ZTonc
 
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...and I have a big belly, and am balding, and drive a cheap import, am under six feet tall, and have a bit of a lazy eye, wear glasses, have facial hair that is blotchy, am graying, still get pimples, blah, blah, blah...

Are you busy tonight?
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Only date I ever got from it tried to get me to pay her rent for that month. Haven't tried it again since.
 
gramage said:
Only date I ever got from it tried to get me to pay her rent for that month. Haven't tried it again since.
shit that reminds me..on "intimate" part of Larvalife a few years ago some girl asked me to donate to her breast enlargement!?...by the looks of her images...she didn't need it...whats in it for me!?!? I'm not donating to improve the mona Lisa!?
 
speaking from some experience on these sites POF, Lava Life etc, yes its full of gals who are very high on themselves and expect a guy who looks like Clooney or Pitt to contact them and has about the same type of income!! but on the flip side many have menial jobs, live in a 500sq ft apartment in suburbia, a lot of have very little education or any sort of skills training, are pushing 40, angry, alone and wondering why and yes to top it off many are not physically attractive and think going out to a club in track pants is ok.

Can one have sexual relationships with a lot of women on these sites, of course definitely, but what type women are you dealing with? well see description above.

As for the whiny guys who are boo hoo I am 5'6 and never get any chicks!!! well time to focus on what ya got, not what ya dont have!!! so what start looking for gals that are 5'2, there are tons of them!!! the key is the attitude, most women just want a guy who pushes their buttons correctly and the way to do that, well try confidence, be funny and cocky (emphasizing the funny part nobody likes a jackass) get a better wardrobe, work on the sense of humour, start working out, talk about your interesting job, ask her questions, women love to talk about themselves ad naseaum!!! I dont get these guys who hand women all this power to judge and control them, you get into a car everyday and fly down the 401 at 120/km an hour without giving it a second thought, why give that much power to a woman ya barely even know, relax, play it cool and the gals will be there.
 
^^^ Sound good in theory But...............

.... women look at the hight first & just delete you the minute they see you are short. When I put 6' they were putty in my hands. BTW: the 5'2" & shorter ladies are the worst. I conclude you are not clued into the real scene for short guys.