Last longer?

Dash

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Mulatto is a drink that gives you a longer lasting erection.

Lustology was joking about this.

But I wonder.

Is there anything out there, that makes you last longer?

That reduces the chances that you'll only last five minutes?

Maybe something that desensitizes you?

I heard there's a cream that desensitizes your wee wee and you can last a while.

The problem isn't if I can get it up or get hard. The problem is if I can not bust in the first five minutes.

I heard alcohol accomplishes this....
 
The most reliable cure for this is....... aging.


;)
 
the creams or spray to desensitize works quite well. There are also condoms with a thicker end that does the same job.

There is a tantric technique you can use that teaches you to control your level of arousal: rate it from 1 to 10, and learn to identify them. When you reach 9 try to slow down, or stop, to go back to 5 or 6... etc...
 
Dash said:
Maybe something that desensitizes you?

I heard there's a cream that desensitizes your wee wee and you can last a while.

Someone else had already pointed out, there is a cream/spray that does the job. There is also a brand of condom that is coated with the stuff. I have never tried any of those myself. An SP that I know had tried it with one of her clients. She said although it works, the stuff also numbs her. Her enjoyment is greatly affected. In the end, the stuff defeats its own purpose.

Here's what I have tried with an outcall and worked very successfully. I released myself about one hour before the appointment. During FS, I was able to go pass the point where I normally bust and she was taken by surprise and ended up coming a handful of times. In fact, she got hypersensitive and begged for CIM.

I didn't tell her about the pre-release and she didn't suspect a thing. I only needed to use that technique once. Somehow the skill stuck with me.
 
CocktailWiener said:
Someone else had already pointed out, there is a cream/spray that does the job. There is also a brand of condom that is coated with the stuff. I have never tried any of those myself. An SP that I know had tried it with one of her clients. She said although it works, the stuff also numbs her. Her enjoyment is greatly affected. In the end, the stuff defeats its own purpose.

Here's what I have tried with an outcall and worked very successfully. I released myself about one hour before the appointment. During FS, I was able to go pass the point where I normally bust and she was taken by surprise and ended up coming a handful of times. In fact, she got hypersensitive and begged for CIM.

I didn't tell her about the pre-release and she didn't suspect a thing. I only needed to use that technique once. Somehow the skill stuck with me.

Kinda reminds me of: There's something about Mary with Cameron Diaz. Ben Stiller jerks off before dating Cameron to a sears ad showing the bra section. She surprises him by showing up early at his door and notices he has something on his hands. "Oh hair gel" and takes a bit for her own use........
 
Mac: it wasn't on his hands, it was hanging from his ear lol.....

As for creams etc there is one that used to be called china brush and another I heard about called sustain.

The trick is to put it on before putting on the condom so it doesn't come into contact with the lady.

One has to be careful using these products because afterall, stimulation helps keep you hard and it you're numb, there's no feeling.

There's always the "Rosanne Barr" technique: whenever you get close to popping you think of her naked doing john goodman......YIKES
 
tboy said:
Mac: it wasn't on his hands, it was hanging from his ear lol.....

As for creams etc there is one that used to be called china brush and another I heard about called sustain.

The trick is to put it on before putting on the condom so it doesn't come into contact with the lady.

One has to be careful using these products because afterall, stimulation helps keep you hard and it you're numb, there's no feeling.

There's always the "Rosanne Barr" technique: whenever you get close to popping you think of her naked doing john goodman......YIKES

Thanks Tboy, my eyes were tearing from laughing so hard, I guess I missed that. I like your suggestion of Rosanne Barr.... Sometimes deep, controlled open mouth breathing helps. Many porn stars use breathing to control ejaculation.

Popping an hour before the main event may backfire (unless you're in your teens or under 40)
 
Exercise...... when i use to cycle everyday i could last for hours. The muscles were stronger and i was able to hold it longer. Not just that but i could pound very very hard and fast and the women loved it at times.
 
Dash said:
Is there anything out there, that makes you last longer?

That reduces the chances that you'll only last five minutes?

....

Very simple solution…. Arrange a 2 hr visit. Get the first one over in 10 minutes. Take a short break. Spend about an hour and a half on the second one. Life is simple. Enjoy.
 
Okay. Thanks guys.

and thanks Loki and everyone else

I'm gonna overapply that numbing cream stuff. HA HA. gonna add to the fun of the session. She's gonna get so pissed! ha ha.

Good stuff.

Hope the cream doesn't make my penis fall off! or break it
:D

I kinda need my penis.
 
I have the polar opposite problem... No matter how hot she is or how hot the activities get, getting round one off is a chore. Don't get me wrong, I am enjoying it all the way, but 1/2 hr sessions just simply don't cut it.

I assure you that it is just as frustrating. I can imagine that if you have a 3 second shot clock, usually the SP is tickled pink!
 
gumby_357 said:
I have the polar opposite problem... No matter how hot she is or how hot the activities get, getting round one off is a chore. Don't get me wrong, I am enjoying it all the way, but 1/2 hr sessions just simply don't cut it.

I assure you that it is just as frustrating. I can imagine that if you have a 3 second shot clock, usually the SP is tickled pink!

We are actually polar opposites.

I imagine your situation sucks too. But I wouldn't mind it.
 
Believe me, hearing "Are you going to cum, we only have 2 minutes left" gets old real quick.
 
canucklehead said:
...The muscles were stronger and i was able to hold it longer. Not just that but i could pound very very hard and fast and the women loved it at times.
Sounds to me like better circulation from excercise will increase sensitivity and contraction strenghts - that might just make him finish sooner.

After all, the biological job of the penis is to deposit load as quickly and efficiently as possible. This is how the penis behaves in it's optimal state (when you're 15-23 years old).

Forcibly holding back is not healthy in the long run, and it's not a reliable method for someone who is overcome with excitement.

Although it is widely believed that cycling is murder on the Balls and exertion in grneral can retard reproductive functions, the reason clenching worked for you was probably because it was accompanied by a greater control of your arousal level.
 
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Usually it's 90% mental & psychological. It's the level of arousal that does you in. The first couple of times I watched two women DFk & DATY each other in front of me, I exploded in my pants in under 2 minutes just sitting there motionless - it was all in my head.

On the other hand, if I'm not that aroused or something is weighing on my mind to distract from the pleasure, even 90 minutes of non stop fucking & sucking won't make me blow.

I'm extremely sensitive, yet I've been able to last a long time under the right sircumstances. So I doubt that desensitizers are a long term solution either - besides, it defeats the purpose.

Some drills and practices might be helpeful, but the ultimate answer is you just have to become more immune to getting turned on. That's very difficult if you're net getting free sex regularly. And even if you are, if your partners are not really hot, it won't do much to help you manage the excitement level when you're with somebody who is.
 
Er.... "Dash", eh? The origin of your handle suddenly makes sense!

:p

(No offence - just messin with ya.)
 
So there was this guy, who sometimes prematurely ejaculated. He went online to https://terb.cc, where someone suggested he could jack off before his "date" and that would help him last longer during his time with the young lady....

Late that evening he lined up a session, and thought to try this solution. On the way to see his "friend", he pulls over his pickup and starts whacking away. The discomfort of sitting upright was an issue and he decides to get out of the truck. Standing up was no better and he was starting to run out of time.

Not wanting to be late, he lays on his back and slides under the truck. Well whatever combination of anxiety, oddity of the situation, cool breeze, Mr. Happy is actually taking longer than normal, for a change. He closes his eyes and imagines being serviced by a few hotties, which starts to work for him. He is moaning, thrusting, giving it his all, and as he reaches that blissful edge, just before coming....

A deep authoratative voice says, "Are you OK down there sir???".

To which his quick thinking reply is... "Sure, just checking the transmission, I thought I heard a funny noise."

And the officer`s answer (of course it`s an officer!) is... "Well you better check the parking brake too. Your truck rolled down the hill a couple of minutes ago."