Landline # required for incall
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I have heard this before, occaisionally. Not often but 5 or 10% of the time. I don't own a cell phone and sometimes that will suffice. I sometimes get the question of why are you calling from a pay phone etc.
I personally like to keep things confidential. I understand why an SP would ask for safety reasons. I just choose not to visit SPs that require this. I just wish they would state this in their ads so I don't waste mine and their time. I guess we can always post such information here.
So yes, you do get this, but I just pass.
DrTroff
I personally like to keep things confidential. I understand why an SP would ask for safety reasons. I just choose not to visit SPs that require this. I just wish they would state this in their ads so I don't waste mine and their time. I guess we can always post such information here.
So yes, you do get this, but I just pass.
DrTroff
I thought they always required a land line! Well, you learn something new every day. I've always booked from home so, assuming they have call display, the have my number and my real name.
There are lengthy discussions at giving out phone numbers to SPs and A message to SP`s about blocked numbersbrave1265 said:I`ve been requested to provide a landline for an incall confirmation. I can understand the need from an SP point of view but is this customery in Toronto? Any advice will be appreciated.
I only wish it was more customary! Then we`d be reading fewer stories about murdered girls.
Re: Contact numbers
No Shit!!guru024 said:After what happened to Dani I would never give out a land line
Re: Contact numbers
what happened?guru024 said:After what happened to Dani I would never give out a land line
And in general, how would you know?Sukdeep said:Generally speaking, ladies are amazingly disciplined about not keeping permanent records of dates...
I never give a land line, I'm used to give a cell but am thinking twice and thanks to recent happenings never going to use e-mail again. I guess we'll have to come up with a new way to provide some form of verification for the ladies.
I would suggest that email from a hotmail or yahoo account is completely safe. You don't give any identifying info when registering for these accounts, and the records aren't stored on your, or our computers.
Completely safe for whom? A rapist or murderer? A free email account is an excellent tool for someone looking for complete discretion, or to do harm to an escort...Mrs_Stiffler said:I would suggest that email from a hotmail or yahoo account is completely safe. You don't give any identifying info when registering for these accounts, and the records aren't stored on your, or our computers.
I don't ask for a landline or even a real name. I do require a reference from an established escort, preferably with a website.
My 2 Cents...
V.
I'm sorry to hear that the safety of the SP you wish to rendezvous with is of so little importance to you!
What happened to Dani should in no way affect your behaviour towards other, well known, discreet SPs. Not all of us have a partner on the force, who allegedly couldn't keep quite about their partner's sexual proclivities and activities, thus causing his superiors to investigate his personal life. Nor do we operate high volume incalls in a quiet residential area, thus arousing the suspicions and annoyance of neighbours. In fact, the vast majority of SPs have, surprisingly enough, the intelligence and discretion to regularly purge their email accounts and destroy all information which could implicate a client.
This is, by nature, something of a cloak and dagger business, and participants rely on each other for discretion. Blowing one minor arrest out of all proportion and possibly endangering the lives of the women in the business is infantile to say the least.
Do you gentlemen, who have negatively responded to this thread, honestly expect an SP to risk her personal safety and make an appointment with you, when she doesn't even know your name or have a number to verify your details or contact you, should she need to cancel?
I'm sorry, but the paranoia of some gentlemen on this board is truly misplaced and I am more than thankful that my appointments have all been made with true gentlemen who have respected my need to verify information and have had the utmost consideration for my safety.
Ciao
Astra - rather annoyed at the moment.
What happened to Dani should in no way affect your behaviour towards other, well known, discreet SPs. Not all of us have a partner on the force, who allegedly couldn't keep quite about their partner's sexual proclivities and activities, thus causing his superiors to investigate his personal life. Nor do we operate high volume incalls in a quiet residential area, thus arousing the suspicions and annoyance of neighbours. In fact, the vast majority of SPs have, surprisingly enough, the intelligence and discretion to regularly purge their email accounts and destroy all information which could implicate a client.
This is, by nature, something of a cloak and dagger business, and participants rely on each other for discretion. Blowing one minor arrest out of all proportion and possibly endangering the lives of the women in the business is infantile to say the least.
Do you gentlemen, who have negatively responded to this thread, honestly expect an SP to risk her personal safety and make an appointment with you, when she doesn't even know your name or have a number to verify your details or contact you, should she need to cancel?
I'm sorry, but the paranoia of some gentlemen on this board is truly misplaced and I am more than thankful that my appointments have all been made with true gentlemen who have respected my need to verify information and have had the utmost consideration for my safety.
Ciao
Astra - rather annoyed at the moment.
Dear Astra,
I don't think that those that have object are paranoid, or at least I am not. I personally do not visit girls that require a land line.
I agree that it is totally their perogative to request this and to assure their safetly. I have no problem with someone requesting this. I just won't visit a girl that makes this sort of request. I have found that it isn't standard operating procedure with most girls (only about 5 to 10% of those that I have ever called have asekd for this).
I have had some girls be paranoid on me. I had a girl yell at me for calling from a payphone. Now if she said to me, I would prefer that you call from a land line I would say, thanks but no thanks (and at least have been given the option). To have someone accuse you of being a lowlife for using a payphone is another thing.
I made the mistake of using a landline once and when I called for a girls description and said no thank you, she called me back repeatedly and harrased me. So for every bad client out there, there is also a nutty SP that will abuse a land line.
My point is that this goes both ways and both the cliant and SP need to feel comfortable with the arrangments and how they are being made.
I think a girl has the right to set her limits and requirements. It is also the right of a client to say, thanks but no thanks to requirments if they do not meet his needs (i.e., privacy).
I think we are talking about the samething, just from a different angle.
DrTroff
p.s. I am not sure what happened to Dani, but I suspect I don't want it to happen to me.
I don't think that those that have object are paranoid, or at least I am not. I personally do not visit girls that require a land line.
I agree that it is totally their perogative to request this and to assure their safetly. I have no problem with someone requesting this. I just won't visit a girl that makes this sort of request. I have found that it isn't standard operating procedure with most girls (only about 5 to 10% of those that I have ever called have asekd for this).
I have had some girls be paranoid on me. I had a girl yell at me for calling from a payphone. Now if she said to me, I would prefer that you call from a land line I would say, thanks but no thanks (and at least have been given the option). To have someone accuse you of being a lowlife for using a payphone is another thing.
I made the mistake of using a landline once and when I called for a girls description and said no thank you, she called me back repeatedly and harrased me. So for every bad client out there, there is also a nutty SP that will abuse a land line.
My point is that this goes both ways and both the cliant and SP need to feel comfortable with the arrangments and how they are being made.
I think a girl has the right to set her limits and requirements. It is also the right of a client to say, thanks but no thanks to requirments if they do not meet his needs (i.e., privacy).
I think we are talking about the samething, just from a different angle.
DrTroff
p.s. I am not sure what happened to Dani, but I suspect I don't want it to happen to me.
Astra, you may well be annoyed but once bitten, twice shy and dani has tainted things for everyone. I for one would give out my contact info cause I have nothing to worry about, but there are married men out there who do have something to hide and I suggest we all find a way to fix this situation or there will be sp's who will be losing out on calls.Astra said:I'm sorry to hear that the safety of the SP you wish to rendezvous with is of so little importance to you!
What happened to Dani should in no way affect your behaviour towards other, well known, discreet SPs. Not all of us have a partner on the force, who allegedly couldn't keep quite about their partner's sexual proclivities and activities, thus causing his superiors to investigate his personal life. Nor do we operate high volume incalls in a quiet residential area, thus arousing the suspicions and annoyance of neighbours. In fact, the vast majority of SPs have, surprisingly enough, the intelligence and discretion to regularly purge their email accounts and destroy all information which could implicate a client.
This is, by nature, something of a cloak and dagger business, and participants rely on each other for discretion. Blowing one minor arrest out of all proportion and possibly endangering the lives of the women in the business is infantile to say the least.
Do you gentlemen, who have negatively responded to this thread, honestly expect an SP to risk her personal safety and make an appointment with you, when she doesn't even know your name or have a number to verify your details or contact you, should she need to cancel?
I'm sorry, but the paranoia of some gentlemen on this board is truly misplaced and I am more than thankful that my appointments have all been made with true gentlemen who have respected my need to verify information and have had the utmost consideration for my safety.
Ciao
Astra - rather annoyed at the moment.
If I was a single guy I would have no problem giving my landline # to an sp, but if you are married or living with someone, I don't think the risk is worth it. I am sure no sp is going to blackmail a client, but their is still that very small risk that i am not willing to take. BTW, what happend to Dani?
Down, but not out according to sources.lollolrockyroad said:If I was a single guy I would have no problem giving my landline # to an sp, but if you are married or living with someone, I don't think the risk is worth it. I am sure no sp is going to blackmail a client, but their is still that very small risk that i am not willing to take. BTW, what happend to Dani?
So guys, tell the rest of us the Dani story. I have done a search but can't find anything. Sounds scarey, but I have not clue.
DrTroff
DrTroff
Clients personal info should never be kept on paper or on the computer.
I hope we all have learned the lesson of the "Little black Book".......Don't have one! Most of us are very careful about not keeping personal info on clients (anybody I worked with has never kept personal info).
I don't want their info written down the whole idea is that clients call us when they want to see us. This is not a good bussiness to keep a database of clients, being descrete so nobody gets hurt is paramount.
xoxoLilith
I hope we all have learned the lesson of the "Little black Book".......Don't have one! Most of us are very careful about not keeping personal info on clients (anybody I worked with has never kept personal info).
I don't want their info written down the whole idea is that clients call us when they want to see us. This is not a good bussiness to keep a database of clients, being descrete so nobody gets hurt is paramount.
xoxoLilith
Suffice for what? How is a pay-phone number going to help the police trace a murderer afterwards?x_fubar said:Why not call from a pay phone. Would that not suffice?
x_fubar
