Example: Is your perfect guy a tall, great-looking, physically-fit, financially well-off, confident, bad boy or a nice gentleman with a great sense of humour? One that listens to you but has his own opinions and beliefs that he confidently stands behind. One that will bend to please you but won't always try to please you. One that is an amazing lover who gets as much enjoyment from pleasing you as he enjoys being pleased by you. One that likes to cuddle you after making love to you. One that knows when to be with you and when to leave you alone..... Stuff like that.