O wow thank you! I hope I didn't blow it with my first message, I didn't want to say anything that also might offend them so I will use something like this. Thank you!!
Know it will sound nuts but, anyone else feel more comfortable seeing providers in their 30's?
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Totally agree! Whether it’s your first time or more, Pamela puts the effort in. Not to mention she’s gorgeous, her pics don’t do her justice. If it’s you’re first time with her she will ask for a deposit and she provides safe services. Treat her well and she will return the favour.
might be she’s not responding because you boys didn’t read her ad fully.
She left a code word hidden in there to make sure you boys actually read it…
I prefer 30+ providers for all the reasons listed above. Under 30 providers often bring too many issues to the party. Of course that is just a generalization.
Seeing a more mature provider weeds out a lot those who think it’s a way to a quick buck without good service because it’s just Johns.
Seeing a more mature provider weeds out a lot those who think it’s a way to a quick buck without good service because it’s just Johns.
Something like this?
"Advance booking is preferred and when you are ready to book use the word "Pink" so that I know you have read my ad."
Same here. I put my age level search at 35. Unfortunately, for some reason or another, some ladies do not give out their real age and I might miss them but that's just too bad.
Girls who are older and been providing for a few years usually enjoy the business , enjoy sex and enjoy their customers. On average a far better experience and sometimes more reasonable pricing and better menus.
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If you’re suggesting prices go down as their ages go up… I’d like to tell you that really ain’t the case with many experienced mature ladies.
With age comes experience, with experience comes a better experience. And these ladies know it and aren’t lowering their rates. On the contrary, I’ve seen some mature providers in Ottawa and Toronto charging premium rates that you’d expect to see from a mid 20s model type.
Worth every penny to have a mature lady in the sack and still be able to connect over a few drinks too.
I'd be careful about stating your race unless the providers asks on their website or ad. There have been more than a few reputable providers that have posted here and on twitter saying that many men list "caucasian" as a potential incentive. Not saying true or not, just what has I've read.
Tough question…. Actually not really. >30 all the way (or at least late 20s).
Now I admit, I’m a man, like most of you, and therefore am susceptible to the reflexive allure of a young female body. In the moment l, there is something that feels a bit like the “fountain of youth” when with a woman in her early 20s, where everything is completely smooth, firm etc, and where her body seem to defy gravity. (I suspect the ladies here have similar initial feelings about young guys, with washboard abs, dicks as hard as steel who can fuck all night and cum unlimited times.
). But that’s just one thing.
I’ve done this for a while and if I look back, almost all of the women I’ve wanted to see again, were over 30 (or at minimum late 20s),even when I started this, (when I was just under 30). Women who look after themselves in their 30s, 40s 50s etc are not only beautiful, but are much more likely to be able to relate to me, know what they themselves enjoy physically and be in tune with how I’m feeling and what I’m liking. And are very often are cool people to chat with and share a drink and/ or some stories/ common interests.
Now I admit, I’m a man, like most of you, and therefore am susceptible to the reflexive allure of a young female body. In the moment l, there is something that feels a bit like the “fountain of youth” when with a woman in her early 20s, where everything is completely smooth, firm etc, and where her body seem to defy gravity. (I suspect the ladies here have similar initial feelings about young guys, with washboard abs, dicks as hard as steel who can fuck all night and cum unlimited times.
). But that’s just one thing.I’ve done this for a while and if I look back, almost all of the women I’ve wanted to see again, were over 30 (or at minimum late 20s),even when I started this, (when I was just under 30). Women who look after themselves in their 30s, 40s 50s etc are not only beautiful, but are much more likely to be able to relate to me, know what they themselves enjoy physically and be in tune with how I’m feeling and what I’m liking. And are very often are cool people to chat with and share a drink and/ or some stories/ common interests.
I don't have time to waste with kids. I like to see ladies around my age (+/- 10 years from me). I always search for older ladies and don't like to see girls younger than 30. When I go with a girl that advertised "late 20s", it's because I'm taking a guess that she's early 30. The problem is that it's not always the case and I end up with a girl that is truly younger than my tastes (which is rare).
That thing of hiding their real age is frustrating. I don't have time to play games. I've seen girls who were advertising 24-25, but for real were way older, like 32-33. It always makes me mad because I'm passing on ladies who could've been a good match for me. I'm glad that we have Terb so I can check with others the real info.
I see ladies in their 30's, 40's.
That thing of hiding their real age is frustrating. I don't have time to play games. I've seen girls who were advertising 24-25, but for real were way older, like 32-33. It always makes me mad because I'm passing on ladies who could've been a good match for me. I'm glad that we have Terb so I can check with others the real info.
I see ladies in their 30's, 40's.
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I completely agree. The providers should be upfront with their age. There is a demand for all ages. Yes , there may be less of a demand from 1st timers for some ages, but the provider will have a steady and loyal following if they were honest. And if service is stellar first timers may broaden their horizons.
While I do see the occasional lady under 30 I generally try to stay >35. Given my advancing age I relate to them better. What I find especially frustrating is ladies who go to the trouble of creating a web site, spend significant space describing themselves but omit to say their true age. I am then left guessing based on pictures (which are normally heavily edited) what their age is. It would be so much simpler and easier if ladies just posted their true age.
I definitely feel more comfortable, although I'm still awkward as hell, with an "older" woman. Mostly in the 30-50 range. I've always been attracted to them more both physically and sociably. I don't know why, probably that damn sears catalogue lingerie section when I was a kid had something to do with it.
Yes! Any younger and I keep looking to see if Chris Hansen comes out from behind a curtain!
I hear you.
But here's a rare exception:
A few years ago, I fell upon a lady in a MP who said she was in her mid 20s but she had a very rich and mature conversation. OMG I'd have been way off and embarrassed if I have had to guess her age. I followed her when she went indy and she advertised herself at 35 and wanted clients older than her. She said she preferred guys that really know what to do with a lady's body. Too bad, like many ladies that young age, life took her on a different path and she retired from the industry.
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I’m in my 50’s and I like them young. I’m just sharing an hour with them, not my life. They use me for my wallet and I use them for their tight, lithe bodies. It’s that simple. I’m not looking to have a relationship. Sorry if that sounds crass.
