I never said you were not allowed to have your opinions. So maybe you can read my comments again.
My focus is on where that opinion comes from. For us clients, it is time and most importantly money. At the end of the day, it is an exchange of my money with someone’s time. If I make a complaint or someone else, it’s an objective statement qualified with the monetary value of that exchange.
Additionally, my power and ability to spend money gives me right to express my opinion even though it is subjective simply because I am the one spending money in exchange for services and products that I am buying for my convenience. It is no different than buying food at McDonalds or getting an oil change.
It is a legit profession and a classification of work. It’s a literal job and a service in exchange of money. So, clients just like any other service or product are entitled to those opinions.
I am triggered simply, because you, me or anyone has no right to tell anyone weather or not their statement or comment is ridiculous simply because we think so or even though there is an underlying assumption that you are gauging that there is low calibre. So, you seem to be taking this personally rather than professionally. You can share your opinion but, it is nice to be polite rather than calling out someone for sharing their experience or making a statement. I find that you calling this guy ridiculous is condemning him for sharing his voice.
To begin with, There was no mention of you in this thread or anyone in specific to call them low calibre, it is a general statement that 1 has shared that this town has low calibre of escorts and that is consensus, with facts, data and evidence. You seemed to be offended by this and it tells me that you were concerned about this.
I am a firm believer of speak with when you are spoken to.
Now if you are jumping into a thread where there was no mention of you, with a critique, it tells me simply that you are taking things personally rather than professionally or are therefore insecure of your services or the clients you see. You are assuming that he is calling you low calibre just because he said everyone in this town is low calibre.
Doesn’t make sense, does it?
Based on this interaction, I don’t even need to spend my time and money to objectively define my opinions about you as a professional.
After all there is a time and place to pick your battles. He is a better man than I am to apologize so kudos to him.
Now, you can absolutely say that this town has sub optimal clientele. If a wise man gets upset, I am sure he will know how to separate professional from personal.
The way you defended yourself towards the end of your last message, showcases that you are not at all passionate about sex work or your job professionally. I was implying that you seemed to be professionally concerned about the image of sex workers in town and that is how your 1st comments came across.
Also, if you want to disagree with someone I think a better way is to be polite rather than using words that are uninspiring.
You:
I am a firm believer of speak with when you are spoken to.
Me: This is a public forum.
And if you firmly believe this, why did you speak to me in the beginning when I clearly wasn't speaking to YOU?
That is an outdated tool used against women, children, people of colour or those that people considered less than. They were not allowed to speak until spoken to. But according to you, your "power and money" allow you to think this way.
You: You are assuming that he is calling you low calibre just because he said everyone in this town is low calibre.
Me: *facepalm* LOL. Do I need to point out the obvious?
You: Based on this interaction, I don’t even need to spend my time and money to objectively define my opinions about you as a professional.
Me: That is fine with me, I don't want your money and would not see you either. My reviews and reputation are very solid and one client who dislikes my online posting will not make a difference.
You are here defending someone and claiming that their limited experience is good enough to call an entire city of sexworkers low calibre right?... Yet my eight years of great reviews in multiple cities from members here means nothing? Client experience only matters to you when convenient right? Because according to your reasoning, client experience dictates that I am professional and do care about my job.
Your constant unnecessary "following" comments are annoying anyways. You do realize that you can subscribe to threads without writing "following" in every one right?
You: The way you defended yourself towards the end of your last message, showcases that you are not at all passionate about sex work or your job professionally. I was implying that you seemed to be professionally concerned about the image of sex workers in town and that is how your 1st comments came across.
Me: This still has to be one of the most ridiculous arguments thrown at me. I am very passionate about my profession and making my clients happy.
If I was not passionate about my job professionally, my reviews and reputation would reflect that but they reflect the opposite of what you are claiming.
Not wanting to open an agency has nothing to do with that and it does not mean that I am unconcerned about the great sexworkers here.
How would opening an agency and bringing more sexworkers to Kingston prove that I care about our current sexworkers? It would be to appease people like you and I am not interested in profiting off of others nor do I have the time. I am busy enough managing my own business.
I did not call him names or attack him as a person, I said that the comment was rude and the general implication was ridiculous.
I did not say JIMMY YOU ARE RUDE AND A RIDICULOUS PERSON AND FROM YOUR COMMENT I CAN SENSE YOU ARE A BAD CLIENT.
You clearly cannot tell the difference and now think it is OK to attack my livelihood and integrity.
You also clearly don't know the difference between reviewing an encounter and making general statements about an entire city of sexworkers.
It would be like me saying that all Locanto clients are cheap and low calibre.
I know you will deny this now but if I had said that, I bet you would be responding all offended. I am positive you would.
You can respond, you are welcome to in fact.
I will not be responding further.
Have a great evening.
