i definitely would not have seen her if I had known before. It’s just not for me. It’s a mind over matter thing. Knowing she was born a man. I wouldn’t be up for it. I’m disappointed and feel stupid and lied too. I’m not happy it’s not advertised in her ad.Show of hands (likes or frowns) - how many would still see her knowing that's she's post-op? (All other things being equal.)
I would.
I totally get where you are coming from. I wouldn't feel stupid though. It's not like she has her dick in a display case somewhere.i definitely would not have seen her if I had known before. It’s just not for me. It’s a mind over matter thing. Knowing she was born a man. I wouldn’t be up for it. I’m disappointed and feel stupid and lied too. I’m not happy it’s not advertised in her ad.
Completely agree. Respect is key. Eventually the thread will get locked when it's only discussion and not review though.Kiki and this subject has come up before and the board moderators deleted the threads. As long as everyone is respectful and honest, Board members should have the right to be informed. That is why this is a review board. Just my opinion though.
lol. It might bring up PTSD. Back in 2007 I was in BC and checked newspaper. Called a number. Went to a condo. Mid way through BJ she stands up and I saw her package. She was a pre op tranny. Had a penis. Being mortified I ended session and left. Go back to the hostel I was staying in. Checked newspaper again And sure enough I called a number under the transsexual section. Lol. Just my luck. But at least that person advertised as such.I totally get where you are coming from. I wouldn't feel stupid though. It's not like she has her dick in a display case somewhere.
I hate it when she stands up half way through a blowjob to show you her penis. It just ruins the mood.lol. It might bring up PTSD. Back in 2007 I was in BC and checked newspaper. Called a number. Went to a condo. Mid way through BJ she stands up and I saw her package. She was a pre op tranny. Had a penis. Being mortified I ended session and left. Go back to the hostel I was staying in. Checked newspaper again And sure enough I called a number under the transsexual section. Lol. Just my luck. But at least that person advertised as such.
You hate it when her penis is bigger than yoursI hate it when she stands up half way through a blowjob to show you her penis. It just ruins the mood.![]()
Does she offer full service or GreekSo I’ve seen Kiki two weeks ago. After the session while I was In Bathroom cleaning up I became convinced she was born a man due to weird things. And as I left I looked for Adam’s Apple which I didn’t see. But checked out her hands and feet. But I am convinced she was born a man. It was a very unusual situation. If anyone wants details PM me and I’ll elaborate. I just don’t want to share it here. Has anyone seen her or know the truth ? It’s been bugging me.
full service yes. Not Greek.Does she offer full service or Greek
Where there is no informed consent there is no respect.Respect is key.
in Singapore and Thailand, they will tell you that they are trans before going out with you.Where there is no informed consent there is no respect.
I donno, maybe informed consent is now considered transphobic or something, but that is something I will not sign off on.
She went back overseasIs there a new link?
Thanks!She went back overseas
She should be back sometime this month
Then she will advertise again
This is a huge problem for the trans community.Some guys might be extremely upset if they find out after having sex. Some could get violent. It would be better to be honest up front. Personally, the dishonesty would bother me more than her gender status.
I’m the OP. Im curious because You said you wouldn’t care if you fucked a trans man. Would you not even want to be aware of this ?This is a huge problem for the trans community.
I personally believe that everyone has the right to informed consensual sex. I believe that cis-gendered have the right to only want sex with other cis-gendered. I personally don’t think it is right to not inform.
However, I understand the struggle. As a woman I have never had to tell my partner I am a cis gender woman. I can’t even imagine how hard that would be for a trans gendered woman.
As time goes on, I hope that more cis-gendered are acceptable of transgendered sex. I hope society gets to the point where you don’t have to “come out” because everyone is so free thinking but for now, society is not there yet and cis-gendered people have a right to choose to have sex with cis-gendered only.
Having said all that I personally would not care if I fucked a trans man.
I’m the OP. Im curious because You said you wouldn’t care if you fucked a trans man. Would you not even want to be aware of this ?
I think my only turn-off would be the lack of turn-on. I really enjoy giving oral. I love the scent, the taste, the various textures, etc. The same way a trans man can't ejaculate, a trans woman doesn't have the essence that attracts me to a woman. Likewise, I don't like breast enhancement. I think everyone deserves a fulfilling sex life and to earn a living, but there are some things that just can't be replicated by surgery. If I were just looking for a blowjob or a fuck, it wouldn't much matter to me, but I'm a diabetic in my 50s. My equipment isn't always reliable, and it's not like I have a lot of stamina. That's why mutual oral is so perfect for my needs.Personally, it would not bother me one way or another. But I don't care about sexuality the same way you might.
I get feeling lied too. I just wouldn't have the same feeling as you if the roles were reversed. Neither of our feelings are wrong. They are just different in their individuality
I totally get that. For your situation it would not work. And when hiring a service where the natural expectation is that the person will be a cis-woman, this would make for a seriously uncomfortable situation with either money or time kr both wasted.I think my only turn-off would be the lack of turn-on. I really enjoy giving oral. I love the scent, the taste, the various textures, etc. The same way a trans man can't ejaculate, a trans woman doesn't have the essence that attracts me to a woman. Likewise, I don't like breast enhancement. I think everyone deserves a fulfilling sex life and to earn a living, but there are some things that just can't be replicated by surgery. If I were just looking for a blowjob or a fuck, it wouldn't much matter to me, but I'm a diabetic in my 50s. My equipment isn't always reliable, and it's not like I have a lot of stamina. That's why mutual oral is so perfect for my needs.