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Just to clarify things. I took a shower a half hour before she showed up and also brushed my teeth as I am a smoker and I did'nt know whether she would be a smoker as well. I would'nt blame her for not wanting to kiss an ashtray. Turns out she was a smoker anyways. I never requested any BB action of any sort. All I really wanted was a bj (bbbj would have certainly been my preference but I figured she would do whatever she was comfortable with) and finish doggy. I certainly would never ever consider bbfs. With about 5 minutes left with my time I was feeling quite humiliated and embarrassed and stated that I was'nt used to condoms and maybe a hj would be good. She declined, we had a smoke, she left, I had 4 beers and went to bed. I appreciate the support from the board and I guess I've now made my first contibution. I am in KW 4+ times a year so the next time I will go for someone who is tried and true. (or maybe I won't..because like Homer Simpson...I'm just not that brite..lol)