Got a question. Not looking to start a major debate or deface anyone... not my style. Have you ever contacted an SP to book a session and have them outright just say. No thanks good luck in your search? I know what you are thinking, there was no disrespect in the discussion. SP was asked if she provided certain experiences. Was told no (not a problem I replied) Went forward to book and was told No thanks, good luck in your search. Staying away from CL lol.
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yes I have heard of it.
usually the girls will turn you away if you are asking for BBFS.
Most girls have been cool with my kinks or at least cool that I have them.
usually the girls will turn you away if you are asking for BBFS.
Most girls have been cool with my kinks or at least cool that I have them.
I have turned people away based on their questions. You get a 'vibe' from a prospective client. If your gut says no, follow it, it's probably for good reason.
I had a prospective client a year or so ago that was rude and disrespectful upon meeting, even after I asked him to cool it (in a public place, and he was putting his hand down my shirt and grinding on my knee, etc.). I left, not providing service, and he tried to call me again just recently. I recognized his voice, and declined him service again.
I wouldn't be upset if you are declined, just move on. Someone will see you. You just don't jive with her for some reason.
I had a prospective client a year or so ago that was rude and disrespectful upon meeting, even after I asked him to cool it (in a public place, and he was putting his hand down my shirt and grinding on my knee, etc.). I left, not providing service, and he tried to call me again just recently. I recognized his voice, and declined him service again.
I wouldn't be upset if you are declined, just move on. Someone will see you. You just don't jive with her for some reason.
Like Twinklegirl, I have politely turn clients down. It is arrange of different reason...
couples looking for girl (i don't do that)
some festish or kinky I am not comfortable with
rude or pushy on the phone or something that doesn't feel right (the way he is speaking to me)
bbfs..
If this happens, i politely just say "sorry, i don't think it will work out. Hope you find what you looking for, sorry I can't help."
Yes, i feel bad, but would you prefer spending your money with someone who is comfortable with you or someone who really isn't?
To me, that shows that some girls would prefer you finding someone who can help then take your money, because she knows it may not work out well.
Keep your head up, you will find someone that will see you.
couples looking for girl (i don't do that)
some festish or kinky I am not comfortable with
rude or pushy on the phone or something that doesn't feel right (the way he is speaking to me)
bbfs..
If this happens, i politely just say "sorry, i don't think it will work out. Hope you find what you looking for, sorry I can't help."
Yes, i feel bad, but would you prefer spending your money with someone who is comfortable with you or someone who really isn't?
To me, that shows that some girls would prefer you finding someone who can help then take your money, because she knows it may not work out well.
Keep your head up, you will find someone that will see you.
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Consider yourself lucky, you've saved some $$$ that you can use for a better experience. I admire the lady for being upfront about it, instead of taking your money and delivering a bad service.Was told no (not a problem I replied) Went forward to book and was told No thanks, good luck in your search.
I do the same thing. My menu is rather limited, but when a guy is still asking the same questions and clearly isn't getting it I do tell him "I'm sorry, if you want this you'll have to find a girl that offers what you are looking for. Good luck in your search". A red flag for a bad experience is if the guy isn't listening to your responses - if he keeps asking for stuff you don't do, then he isn't worth the booking IMO.
I'm not sure what the context of SB's conversation was, but you have to believe that she really wasn't interested in sharing time with you, and you're probably better off.
I'm not sure what the context of SB's conversation was, but you have to believe that she really wasn't interested in sharing time with you, and you're probably better off.
I agree 100% on that one...when a guy is still asking the same questions and clearly isn't getting it I do tell him "I'm sorry, if you want this you'll have to find a girl that offers what you are looking for. Good luck in your search". A red flag for a bad experience is if the guy isn't listening to your responses - if he keeps asking for stuff you don't do, then he isn't worth the booking IMO.
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Then I got the response "what do you mean you won't see me? you're a f**king hooker!" Yes, even us hookers have some standards. lol
lol...yep, i have gotten that one too..lolThen I got the response "what do you mean you won't see me? you're a f**king hooker!" Yes, even us hookers have some standards. lol
Yea like I said there were no hard feelings and I would never dare to retaliate either... I was just posing the question to see how often this sort of thing occurs. As per the context lol it was very polite. I said I was looking for some dirty talk and she said it's not her thing. I then said thats cool I still want to book, what is your thing? As in what is she more comfortable with and was told good luck in my search. I'm far from upset and agree 100% that if its not gonna workout dont drop the money. She was also an older woman in her 40's so maybe she just wasnt into a younger man who knows. As for calling names and expecting a "fucking hooker" to be a piece of meat... thats not cool at all... on a lighter note, anyone available tonight?
I suspect that you asking "what is your thing?" triggered her to think "...this guy is wanker, he wants to discuss naughty details under the guise of a potential booking in order to spare the cost of calling a phone sex line" and respond with a rejection accordingly...Yea like I said there were no hard feelings and I would never dare to retaliate either... I was just posing the question to see how often this sort of thing occurs. As per the context lol it was very polite. I said I was looking for some dirty talk and she said it's not her thing. I then said thats cool I still want to book, what is your thing? As in what is she more comfortable with and was told good luck in my search. I'm far from upset and agree 100% that if its not gonna workout dont drop the money. She was also an older woman in her 40's so maybe she just wasnt into a younger man who knows. As for calling names and expecting a "fucking hooker" to be a piece of meat... thats not cool at all... on a lighter note, anyone available tonight?
The old granny across from my apartment knocked on my door asking for a cup of sugar. When I told her no she turned around and called me a hooker.
